Alla ragazza che si è innamorata del Signor Forse, pensando che fosse il Signor Giusto

Quando ci si innamora, si desidera una vera e propria favola. Volete qualcuno che vi faccia perdere la testa e che vi faccia sentire le farfalle e l'eccitazione.

You don’t want an ordinary love. You want to feel like you are on top of the world and like you can achieve anything as long as you have that special someone next to you.

Volete un uomo che vi faccia sentire vive, un uomo che renda ogni vostro giorno degno di essere vissuto e ricordato. Volete passione e avventura e non siete disposte ad accontentarvi di niente di meno.

And this is everything this guy is giving you. Ever since you met him, you feel like you’ve lost all control of yourself and as if you are going through a roller coaster of emotions. And the best part is that you like it.

Ma volete anche certezze e stabilità. Volete qualcuno su cui poter contare e che sia sempre presente per voi.

You want a man you can count on through thick and thin and a man who will be your biggest support on good and bad days. A man who will take care of you when you are sick and who’ll worry if you’ve gotten home safe.

You want a man whose feelings you’ll never have to question. A man who will love you the same at your best and at your worst. Someone you can be yourself in front of and someone you can plan a future with.

Ma questo non è quello che hai con il tuo ragazzo. E se ci pensi, tutto ciò che stai ricevendo da lui è una tonnellata di forse.

You might see him tonight, the way he promised. But maybe you’ll fall asleep all dressed up, with your phone in your hand, desperately waiting for his call or text. Maybe he’ll find time for you tomorrow or he might go see his friends because you are at the bottom of his priority list.

Forse si è semplicemente dimenticato di risponderti perché era troppo occupato. O perché eravate l'ultimo dei suoi pensieri.

Forse sta facendo il difficile e combattere i suoi sentimenti per te o forse sta solo facendo dei giochi mentali con voi. Forse vede la vostra relazione come qualcosa di serio o forse la considera un'avventura senza senso. Potreste essere l'unica ragazza della sua vita, ma c'è anche la possibilità che stia frequentando contemporaneamente un gruppo di altre donne.

Maybe he loves you in his own way but there is also a possibility that he doesn’t care about you at all. He might be incapable of loving at all or he is just taking advantage of your feelings for him. He might be emotivamente distrutto, o forse è solo uno stronzo egoista..

E l'elenco continua.

But have you ever asked yourself if his almost love is what you need in life? Is the guy who can’t seem to make up his mind about you really what you deserve or want? Or are you just settling for this Mr. Maybe because you hope that someday he’ll come to his senses and become Mr. Right?

Well, guess what? He won’t. He will never change and he’ll never become the mature man you hope he’ll be. He will always remain Mr. Wrong and it’s time for you to accept this.

It’s time for you to smettere di giustificarlo and for you to stop looking for excuses for his behavior. It’s time for you to stop overthinking and for you to stop trying to get inside this guy’s head.

Time for you to stop trying to decode his mixed signals and to stop trying to read between the lines. It’s time for you to put an end to this almost relationship and to stop settling for his almost love.

It’s about time for you to accept that you are entitled to more and better. Time for you to walk away from this man because that is the only way for your Mr. Right to walk into your life.

Because he will come along when you least expect it. And when he does, you’ll be certain of his love, like you’ve never been sure of anything else in your life. And you’ll have no doubt that he is the one for you.