Smettetela di mettere la vostra vita in attesa di un ragazzo che può vivere senza di voi

I’m sure we’ve all been there. You fall in love, you live with your head in the clouds for the first few months, everything is so idyllic and you have never felt more radiant.

All of a sudden, your entire sense of self revolves around this guy who has only been in your life for a few months. You have embraced the role of his girlfriend so well that all you want to do is please his every need and be at his service. You really don’t mind and he is sicuramente non si lamentano.

You are slowly, but surely, starting to lose yourself in the comfort of your new, booming relationship and you are putting his needs above yours. You don’t even realize how much of yourself you are sacrificing for the sake of the relationship, so it’s probably wise to stop for a second and ask yourself whether what you are doing is serving you happiness or if you’re only doing it to make him happy.

If you’re the type of person who needs to be in a relationship tofeel whole, stop and take a minute and think about this. You barely know yourself outside of your relationship and it’s time to find out what it is that makes YOU happy and what floats your boat. Stop putting the guy first and get to know yourself, Then you will be much more secure in choosing the right man for you and not settle for just anyone who merely needs attention from you.

Don’t allow yourself to become just a pretty accessory on his arm. You are not a thing and you are not something to be paraded around.

Siete una donna autosufficiente, capace e intelligente. che conosce il suo valore and no guy can take that away from you by only liking you for your looks. You are more than your physical appearance and make sure your guy knows that. And if he doesn’t, he knows where the door is.

Don’t forget about all the things you still want to achieve and all the fun you still want to experience. Don’t let him diminish your eagerness for more by putting you down and limiting your dreams. Never let him tell you what you can or cannot do. And if he does, prove to him how capable and willful you are. You are a badass woman who is not to be messed with. Don’t pause your dreams for a guy who only sees you as something pretty to pass time with.

Non rinunciate mai al vostro potere per nessuno, soprattutto se vi fa sentire in dovere di farlo. Non lasciate che sia lui a prendere le vostre decisioni e in nessun caso dovete fargli capire che può fare quello che vuole. No, voi siete parte integrante della relazione e siete assolutamente in grado di prendere decisioni e siete felici di farlo. Non cedete mai a ciò che ci si aspetta da voi e cercate sempre di ottenere di più. Siate intelligenti ora, per non odiarvi in seguito.

Make sure to rediscover the parts of yourself you may have suppressed in order for his big ego to flourish. Take some alone time and think long and hard about your hopes and dreams and if there is anything you may have sacrificed for the guy who doesn’t seem to appreciate you for the unapologetically fierce woman you are.

Se sentite che il vostro valore non viene apprezzato e che la vostra voce non viene ascoltata, allora puntate alla porta. I conoscere sai bene che non è così.

Stare con qualcuno solo per il gusto di non essere soli è dieci volte peggiore che stare da soli, ma almeno non circondati dalla tossicità. Ricordate che una relazione deve aggiungere qualcosa alla vostra vita e non deve assolutamente toglierla.

Quindi, se sentite che il vostro uomo vi sta lentamente svuotando e non vi permette di esprimere appieno la vostra unicità, sapete cosa fare. Lasciategli la porta e andate a cercare il vostro pari!