Alla ragazza che sta ancora aspettando: Nessuna risposta è ancora una risposta

Siete di nuovo lì, a guardare il vostro telefono e a scorrere i messaggi. State aspettando lui, quel messaggio che cambierà tutto e vi farà ricordare perché vi siete innamorati di lui.

You want to see that he cares. You want him to make you believe that it’s not over yet and you want him to have a response of any kind, but dear, let me tell you that no response is still a response.

You’ve been waiting for too long. No matter how much time that includes.

If it’s been two days or a week, it’s just too much time wasted on someone who doesn’t even bother to show you that you mean a lot to him. He doesn’t react and it doesn’t bother him to lose you .

Sa che vi perderà. Nessun uomo è così stupido da credere che ignorare una donna avrà il suo affetto.

He is doing this on purpose and no matter how much you want to deny that, it’s a fact.

Credete davvero che un uomo che vi ama si comporterebbe così? Un uomo che vi ama avrà paura di perdervi, di ferirvi o di farvi piangere.

Vi stringerà forte e vorrà passare con voi ogni ora di veglia. A uomo che vuole avervi nella sua vita won’t make you wonder whether he is serious about you because you will simply know.

You will know if he appreciates you enough by the way he doesn’t play games with you because people who want you in their lives tell you that you’re needed.

But this man, the one who is not responding, he will be surprised the next time he sees you, texts you or calls you and you don’t greet him.

You don’t text back and you don’t pick up the phone. He will be surprised and he will regret not making an effort to make you stay by his side. I can guarantee you that no man is heartless enough to not consider another option, to think about what would happen if he acted differently.

He won’t take your cold behavior so easily because he doesn’t know how to deal with people who are just like him.

Vi meritate molto di più che fissarvi a uno schermo vuoto . You deserve more than crying over his unsent texts and all those times you wanted to talk to him, but he wasn’t there for you.

So che è stato bellissimo parlare con lui. È stato così stimolante averlo nella tua vita e avere la certezza di aver trovato un uomo che ti fa sentire così speciale.

Ora, quando tutte queste cose non ci sono più, vi chiedete cosa sia andato storto. Pensavate che voi due aveste così tanto potenziale, così avete aspettato e aspettato. Avete aspettato che fosse lui a fare la prima mossa.

Avete aspettato che vi dimostrasse che vuole che diventi qualcosa di serio. Ma lui continua a deluderti costantemente. Continua a dimostrarti che tutto ciò che speravi è nella tua testa.

You’re now stuck in this cycle of tears and agony that keeps you from moving on. You’re constantly breaking your own heart and you feel it in your chest, stabbing you and begging you to stop doing it. But you can’t give up hope, can you?

Yes, yes you can. It doesn’t mean that you’re giving up on something real. You’re not giving up on someone who is ready to do everything it takes just to make you happy.

You’re walking away from someone who doesn’t even know what true love feels like. You’re moving on e questo non vi rende deboli.

You have learned a lesson. You have had an experience with someone who didn’t even bother to show you their kindness and respect.

But how about the next time you meet someone and get so invested in them, you let it be someone who shows you love. Someone who isn’t ashamed to dedicate a whole day to make you happy.

Someone who doesn’t mind making you a priority every single day.

The next time you meet a guy, don’t get stuck waiting, looking at your phone for a call, but live your life. You don’t need a man and he will never be something crucial in your life.

Just give yourself the permission to live your most amazing life without ever needing that call, needing that text. Maybe his ‘no response’ is a clear message to stop waiting and start living?