Cosa significa veramente l'amore eterno e come custodirlo (+ citazioni)
Do you know what undying love truly means? It’s so much more than what we watch on TV shows or read in romance novels and books.
I searched for its meaning in an English dictionary and it explains it as ‘having strong feelings for another person that are unlikely to change’.
Would you agree with this definition? Honestly, I can’t agree with it because for me, it’s a poor and oversimplified definition. The part ‘unlikely to change’ sounds especially wrong to me.
Undying love is constant; it’s permanent and eternal. Per me, it’s a love story of two people that has no ending. It’s that special, real, amore vero che nemmeno la morte può spezzare.
Purtroppo, oggi la maggior parte delle persone usa e comprende queste due parole in modo molto scorretto.
They say it when they don’t actually mean or feel it, and that’s why it has become hard for us to believe in this kind of love today.
But, trust me, it does exist and you should never lose faith in it because one day, it’ll happen to you. One day, you’ll meet your anima gemella and they’ll show you how special and beautiful that feeling truly is.
Che cos'è l'amore eterno?
Most people would say that it’s the same as true love, but I say that it’s way more than that.
You can truly love someone, and one day, your feelings can simply disappear… you can leave that person and forget about them as you never really loved them.
Well, that’s the main difference between undying and amore vero. Quando si parla di amore eterno, non si può dimenticare.
I sentimenti che provate per l'altra persona non scompariranno mai del tutto, qualunque cosa accada tra di voi.
You’ll love them forever and even more than that. You’ll love them even if God takes them away from you.
L'amore sarà l'unica costante della vostra vita. Tutte le altre cose nella vostra vita possono cambiare, ma i vostri sentimenti per quella persona rimarranno sempre gli stessi.
Quando pensiamo a questo amore eterno e imperituro, ci vengono in mente due cose. La prima è l'amore che abbiamo per il nostro Creatore e la seconda è l'amore che un genitore ha per il proprio figlio.
Credo che saremmo tutti d'accordo sul fatto che questi sono i tipi di amore più puri, profondi, forti e potenti, e che questi tipi di amore sono sicuramente le definizioni più reali di amore eterno.
This eternal kind of love creates a bond between two people… a strong and powerful bond that no one and nothing can ever break.
It’s when two people decide to walk through life holding hands together and promise each other they’ll never let go of each other’s hand no matter what.
Questo amore imperituro ed eterno significa amare qualcuno per quello che è veramente. Significa amare qualcuno in modo profondo, onesto e incondizionato, nonostante tutti i difetti e le imperfezioni che quella persona può avere.
When we have that undying kind of love for someone, that person becomes your world. You’re ready to sacrifice everything to keep them by your side.
Il vostro obiettivo principale per il resto della vita sarà far sentire quella persona rispettata, sostenuta e, naturalmente, soprattutto amata.
Now, you may be thinking about how it’s the same as loving someone unconditionally.
Sì, amore incondizionato is quite similar to undying love, but once again, it can also disappear while this undying type of love can’t.
And, that’s what makes it so special, so unique. That’s what makes it the purest and deepest kind of love. That’s why this eternal kind of love is the most powerful force in the entire universe.
8 modi sani per praticare l'amore eterno in una relazione di coppia
Impegno
Se si promette a qualcuno un amore eterno, significa che si deve essere impegnato a loro e solo a loro.
Ciò significa che dovete fidarvi completamente di loro e dimostrare che anche loro possono fidarsi di voi.
Significa che dovete accettare quella persona per quello che è e non cercare di cambiarla in alcun modo. Dovete accogliere i loro difetti e le loro imperfezioni e amarli nonostante tutto.
That person should be involved in all of your plans for the future because, after all, they’re the only ones you see yourself with in your future.
Celebrate il vostro amore ogni giorno
Il vostro amore è la vostra più grande motivazione nella vita e merita di essere celebrato ogni giorno. Don’t ever take your significant other for granted because they should always be on the very top of your priority list.
Trovate un modo per dimostrare ogni giorno al vostro partner quanto lo amate e quanto è importante per voi.
Hanno un posto speciale nella vostra vita e nel vostro cuore e dovete ricordarglielo costantemente.
Every day is Valentine’s Day for couples who love each other in this eternal, undying kind of way.
You must keep that spark alive in your relationship because without it, you won’t be able to keep that promise of undying love.
Mettere le loro esigenze al pari o al di sopra delle proprie
When you truly love someone and you think you’ll love them forever, their needs will be equally or even more important than your own.
Undying love is unselfish. This means that you’re willing to put the happiness of another person ahead of your own.
That doesn’t mean you should be ignoring your own needs; it simply means that you’re prioritizing your love above everything else.
Trascorrere del tempo di qualità insieme
If you feel this type of love for someone, you’ll make that person a priority in your life. That means that you’ll always be willing to make time for them if they need you, even in your busiest schedule.
No matter how long you two are together, you’ll still be trying to get to know each other because you’ll want to know every little thing about your partner, and that will, for sure, create a strong, unbreakable bond between you.
Essere il loro più grande fan
No matter what your partner wants to do, and even if you don’t agree with their decisions sometimes, you should always be right behind them supporting them in every step they make in life.
Essere sempre presenti per il proprio partner è un amore vero ed eterno. Your relationship will always be a work in progress, so put the effort in it together, build it together and you’ll grow old together.
Anche l'amore fisico è importante
Intimità and physical touch also play a great role in expressing your eternal love for your SO. That’s what keeps that flame burning in your relationship.
Baciate il vostro partner inaspettatamente. Baciate la mano o la fronte. Mostrate il vostro amore attraverso tocco fisico perché migliorerà la fiducia tra voi e rafforzerà anche il vostro legame emotivo.
Essere più affettuosi
Don’t be romantic and affectionate only on some special occasions. Il vostro partner merita di essere viziato con affetto ogni singolo giorno.
Bisogna ricordare loro costantemente quanto li amate e quanto vi preoccupate per loro. Dovreste cercare di dimostrare loro quanto sono importanti per voi ogni giorno.
Don’t wait for some special occasion to surprise them with a gift. Buy them a piece of jewelry or a new book just because, and add a greeting card with a beautiful romantic message in it.
Plan a romantic weekend getaway for just the two of you. Be silly and flirty around each other, and no matter how long you are together, you should always behave like two ‘crazy in love’ teenagers.
Le piccole cose contano di più
La storia vera è che piccole cose sono quelli che contano di più quando si tratta di questo tipo di amore eterno e imperituro.
This is how you interact and behave with your partner every day. It’s that good night kiss you give to them every night before bedtime just to wish them sweet dreams.
It’s when you text them in the middle of the day just to say you miss them or to see how they are.
It’s when you give them a little back massage after they have had an exhausting day at work or the little love notes you leave in their lunch box or around the house.
That’s also when you surprise them with a gift without any reason or when you cook their favorite meal and surprise them with a romantic dinner.
Queste sono alcune piccole cose che possiamo fare ogni giorno per i nostri cari, e sono quelle che contano di più perché sono in realtà il più grande indicatore di amore eterno.
Citazioni sull'amore eterno
The true meaning of undying love can also be explained simply through these following quotes, so it’s definitely important to check them out, too.
Inoltre, ho parlato di quelle piccole cose che contano di più in una relazione, ebbene, questa è la vostra occasione per essere romantici e dimostrare al vostro partner quanto lo amate.
1. “Loyalty ignites undying love.” – Shubha Vilas
2. “Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning, a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.” – Bruce Lee
3. “Then, I smile, and in haste . . . I can’t help it! I worship your silhouette. How I gaze and can’t help but stare. I place my hands in your red hair. It is wonderful knowing you have found my undying love. But, now I’ll end this and say goodnight and await the day to be with you through the night and wake with you in my arms underneath the morning light.” – Hazel Cartwright
4. “Limitless undying love which shines around me like a million suns calls me on and on across the universe.” – John Lennon
5. “A man who had never spoken love to me, who had never needed to, for I knew he loved me as surely as I knew I lived. For where all love is, the speaking is unnecessary. It is all. It is undying. And, it is enough.” – Diana Gabaldon
6. “The three ingredients of a successful union between two… humor, commitment and undying love.” – Bill Cosby
7. “Undying love, attention and sacrifice is an essential fuel for relations.” – Alok Jagawat
8. “I have nothing to offer you other than the undying love of my broken heart.” – Angivel of Zanarcadia
9. “Love, for some people, is undying even if one lost the partner.” – Diana Palmer
10. “Love is undying, of that I feel certain. I mean deep, abiding, cherishing love. The love that gives protection even as you, my guardian angel, gave me protection long after you had gone, and continue to give this very day… A love beyond Death – a love that makes Life alive!” – Ruskin Bond
11. “The lesson learned: never take your loved ones for granted. And, if you’re ever lucky enough to find that one person in life who makes you love more than any other person could possibly make you love, you treat every day together as if it were your last. You cherish every moment.” – Sebastian Cole, Sand Dollar: A Story of Undying Love
12. “If she loves you back, no woman is going to complain about the hour if a man calls her to proclaim his undying love.” – Linda Kage
13. “You might never comprehend my madness, but it stands behind my undying love for you. You’re the object of my everything. I’m sorry I’ve been stupid lately.” – Crystal Woods, Write like no one is reading 2
14. “Before you pledge your undying love to someone, make them promise they won’t die.” – Robert Breault
15. “Do not think of this as the end. Think of this as the beginning of eternity together. I have always loved you, I will always love you. Heaven will not stand between us and Hell hath no fury that can burn bright enough to keep me from you.” – Grace Willows, The Write To Love
16. “Did she still love him like she said she always would? Time changes people, and even those who claim undying love have a change of heart when they’re hurt.” – Ella Dominguez
17. “Papa loves you with a dying and infernal love,” the youngest girl said. “Undying,” the eldest girl corrected. “And eternal.” – Martine Leavitt
18. “I loved him. I hated him. I wanted to kiss him. I wanted to strangle him. I was a walking, talking contradiction. There were days I was so torn by my conflicting emotions that I thought I would be ripped in half. Staring at my best friend and secret object of my undying love, I wondered if I would ever get off this crazy train of emotions swirling around inside me. I didn’t like feeling this way, but the truth was I couldn’t remember a time I didn’t feel this aching need to completely immerse myself in all things Daniel Lowe.” – A. Meredith Walters
19. “One day, you will be old and wrinkled and I will still love you.” – V.E. Schwab
20. “Undying love is the key to many locks.” – Alok Jagawat
Conclusione
Undying love is the purest, the most beautiful, and the most honest kind of love. But, unfortunately, it’s very rare today.
It got lost somewhere in this bad, very damaged world. It just couldn’t survive in these bad times because it’s so pure and honest. Nowadays, love, in general, has become a simple word for some people.
You can’t believe when someone says that the love they feel for you is eternal because that’s too strong of a feeling to believe from someone just like that.
Se avete qualcuno che ha dimostrato di amarvi in modo onesto e incondizionato, vi consiglio sinceramente di prendervi cura di quella persona e di ricambiare questi sentimenti allo stesso modo.
It’s truly very rare today to meet someone who’ll love you that way, so if you’re such a lucky person, hold on to that person and don’t ever let them go.
If you’ve met that kind of love, don’t you ever do something to jeopardize it, and be thankful to God every second of your life for Him giving you the opportunity and sending you the person who has changed your entire thinking about true, undying love.
