Ehi, stronzo, smettila di comparire nella sua vita quando ti fa comodo

Per anni questa ragazza ha cercato di dimenticarti sul serio.

She’s been doing everything in her power to continue living her life, as if you were never a part of it, and to make you nothing more than a part of her distant past.

Tuttavia, non è mai riuscita a farlo.

Some might even call her crazy for it—after all, she’s been hooked on one guy who obviously didn’t love her back for years.

However, what they don’t know is how you’ve been acting all those years. What nobody knows is that you’ve always been the one who didn’t allow this girl to get over you.

I don’t know if you have some special radar for this girl but the truth is that you always reappear in her life at the exact moment when she’s ready to let you go, as if you feel that you are about to lose her for good.

Scompari per mesi e non appena lei si abitua alla tua assenza e non appena finalmente prende una decisione sul lasciarti andare, riappari.

Not only that—you also drag her into this never-ending circle of her feelings toward you. On to an emotional roller coaster she can’t seem to get off, as much as she tries to.

The moment this girl starts feeling good about herself, the moment she gets over the fact that you’ll never be the uomo che lei ha bisogno che tu sia e il momento in cui sta finalmente iniziando a non amarti è quello in cui ti presenti nel suo mondo, solo per incasinarlo un po' di più.

Nel momento in cui il suo cuore inizia a guarire, arrivi tu solo per spezzarlo ancora una volta.

I don’t know why you are doing all of this; maybe you are scared of losing her love, the only thing you are certain about in your life, or you just enjoy playing games but either way, I am begging you—stop.

You’ve done more than enough to this girl and reappearing in her life whenever you feel like it just to upset her and to make her doubt her decision of letting you go is just making things worse.

The truth is that you don’t love her and never did. You just love being loved by her, you love the idea of someone as special as her taking care of you and you love knowing that you have someone who will never back out on you.

O forse ami il controllo che ovviamente hai su questa ragazza?

Forse hai il bisogno di dimostrare a te stesso che puoi averla quando vuoi perché è l'unico modo per sistemare il tuo ego schiacciato?

Forse vai da lei quando tutti gli altri ti abbandonano, solo per sfuggire alla dura realtà che nessuno, a parte lei, si preoccupa onestamente per te?

Either way, the point is the same—you are a selfish asshole who is stringing this girl along.

Un cretino che pensa a lei come a nient'altro che conveniente and a douchebag who is taking advantage of this girl’s soft heart.

However, this is not something you’ll have the opportunity of doing for as long as you please because one of these days, she’ll have had enough.

One of these days, the door you are about to knock on will be forever closed and the number you’ll dial will be out of reach.

One of these days, you’ll have absolutely no control over this girl whatsoever. She’ll cut you off, as if you were never a part of her life and she’ll never let you back in.

She’ll stop justifying your shitty moves and making excuses for your toxic behavior. She’ll stop giving you endless second chances and she’ll kick you out of her system for good.

No, she won’t do it to prove her strength against you or to make you chase her more. She’ll do it to break free from this on and off relationship that’s been eating her alive for ages.

When that happens, you’ll see that you are the only one to blame. The moment this girl abandons you will be the moment in which you’ll finally see what you had and what hai perso. And you’ll be sorry.