Una lettera per voi quando sentite che non importa a nessuno

Ci si alza al mattino non perché non si vede l'ora di vedere cosa ci riserva la giornata successiva, ma perché si deve.

You don’t look forward to seeing people and you’re not looking forward to new mornings and days because you forgot how amazing feels.

Even if something amazing happens, you probably wouldn’t be able to notice it. Because you’re too busy feeling alone.

Dal momento in cui aprite gli occhi, questa sensazione vi travolge. Ti svegli con un sussurro nell'orecchio che ti dice che non importa a nessuno.

It tells you how you need to say, “I’m fine,” whenever someone asks you how you’ve been or how you shouldn’t tell others about your issues because nobody really cares.

You get up, strip off your clothes and get under the shower. You let the water roll down your face while you continue thinking that there isn’t a person in this world who could understand you.

You feel like you’re the only one, like you’re alone. So you end up getting out of that shower feeling tired even before your day started, but you somehow resist the urge to crawl back to your bed.

È davvero questa la vita che volete avere? È davvero così che volete vivere? Vi sentite stanchi, vi sentite come se a nessuno importasse, come se nessuno capisse?

Aren’t you tired of feeling tired? Aren’t you tired of constantly bringing yourself down?

At one point you’ll have to snap out of it. At one point you’ll have to find the strength to impedirsi di essere tossici.

You’re the toxic one here. You’re hurting yourself. And you need to stop.

You have to stop hurting yourself and decide to take care of yourself for a change. Because if you don’t do it, nobody else will be able to help you.

Da qualche parte lungo la strada, nel comfort del vostro letto, avete dimenticato quanto possa essere bello e riscaldante avere qualcuno che si preoccupa davvero.

Avete dimenticato come ci si sente a non sentirsi soli, come ci si sente a guardare avanti a un nuovo giorno e alle nuove cose straordinarie che la vita può darvi.

You might be unable to see it now, but this feeling of loneliness doesn’t come when nobody cares. It comes when the person you care utterly about doesn’t really care about you back.

There isn’t an uglier feeling than to see that the person you’d do anything for wouldn’t even do half of the things you’re ready to do.

Only then your self-doubt starts and once that avalanche has been started, it won’t take long until it buries you.

You start feeling like you’re not good enough. You start thinking how you can’t do a single thing right and you start hating yourself and your life for not being lovable.

Ma la cosa peggiore è che si inizia a pensare che non importi a nessuno. E si fa tutto da soli.

Invece di incolpare la persona giusta, si finisce per attribuire tutte le azioni sbagliate di una singola persona a tutte le altre persone della propria vita. E lentamente iniziate ad allontanare le persone.

Because of this one person who did you wrong, who didn’t reciprocate your feelings, you end up thinking that we’re all the same. But we’re not.

You’re just temporarily blinded by emotions, but once you’re okay, you’ll see you’ve been projecting the insecurities of one person onto all the people around you. And that’s what you shouldn’t have done.

Quindi, domani, quando aprirete gli occhi, decidete di guardare davvero avanti a quel giorno. Sorridete prima di alzarvi dal letto e, mentre vi spogliate per fare la doccia, iniziate a cantare.

And then continue singing. And then get out of the shower and play some music. Let it be a song you’ll continue playing in your head.

Il giorno dopo, fate la stessa cosa. E il giorno dopo e quello dopo ancora.

Sorridete alla vostra fede e date il benvenuto al nuovo giorno con una canzone, pronti a vedere tutte le cose straordinarie che vi colpiranno quel giorno.

Per quanto riguarda the person who doesn’t care about you and because of whom you started feeling unlovable and unworthy and not good enough of others’ attention, well, there is only one thing you could do and that’s to walk away.

Even when it might be hard to do it, even if you don’t want to hear it now, it’s the truth and I’m gonna drop it right here-sometimes you have to be your own hero and guard your own heart because a person you utterly care about doesn’t care about you at all.

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Darling, you’re the only one in charge of your life and if you don’t love it, how do you expect anyone else to love you?

Whatever disturbs your peace, whoever makes you feel unimportant, unworthy or miserable- then they don’t deserve you and you’re allowed to walk away.

Once you walk away from such darkness, you’ll come to a daylight and you’ll be able to clearly see that there are people who truly care about you.

There are people who want to know how your day was, who’d like to go to the movies with you and who’d enjoy grabbing a beer at the bar with you.

Allontanatevi da tutto ciò che vi fa sentire infelici. Smettete di allontanare le persone buone. Imparate a innamorarvi di nuovo della vostra vita.

Prendetevi cura di voi stessi. Prendetevi cura della vostra felicità. Quando vi prendete cura di voi, tutti gli altri tendono a seguirvi.