10 modi per riconoscere un bugiardo psicopatico
Let’s be honest. Tutti mentiamo a volte! We tell a lie because of different reasons, but mostly it’s to prevent hurting someone’s feelings. But, psychopathic liars are people who lie constantly because they feel an emotional and mental need for it.
Ci sono alcuni tratti dei bugiardi psicopatici che sono quasi sempre gli stessi, quindi ecco 10 segnali da osservare in lui, che potrebbero indicare che è un bugiardo psicopatico.
1. Mente continuamente
Many people lie from time to time to make sure that they don’t hurt someone or to get out of an awkward situation, but a psychopathic liar lies constantly, about anything and everything. Sometimes it’s even about some stupid stuff, like telling you that the weather is nice even when it’s raining outside.
2. Ha le sue motivazioni
A psychopath lies because that is the only way he knows how to function. Usually, it’s the dominance over a group of people or just one person. It’s just to make himself feel superior and in control. Characteristically, he tells the ultimate lie, which is ‘I LOVE YOU’per farvi sentire al sicuro solo per farvi soffrire quando scoprirete che tutto è stato una menzogna.
3. Sa come convincerti a fare tutto ciò che vuole...
Lying is just like breathing for him. He needs it so much that he can’t live without it. He even lacks empathy and can look his victim in the eyes while telling a lie and be very convincing. He is a damn good actor and he doesn’t feel even the slightest bit of shame and is guiltless.
4. Gioca con la vostra simpatia
It’s common to see uno psicopatico gioca con l'istinto naturale di persone che vogliono aiutare chi ha bisogno. It’s not so unusual for him to act out injuries or illness. He will exploit the kindness of everyone around them, including you.
5. Crede nelle sue bugie
Può dichiarare amore per voi con una scarica di emozioni come la passione, ma poi, appena un giorno dopo, può correre da un'altra donna con quelle stesse parole. La sua attenzione è sempre rivolta al prossimo piacere temporaneo.
6. Ha sempre i trofei delle loro bugie
Cerca sempre di conservare i trofei dei suoi inganni e di averli da qualche parte visibili per ricordarsi sempre delle cose che ha fatto. Se il vostro fidanzato vi tradisce, potreste trovare una collana della sua nuova amante in un posto ben visibile. He wants you to know that you’ve been deceived. This can also be something like being in a relationship with one woman while pursuing another.
7. Parla una lingua diversa
Some of the usual phrases we use in our lives have a different meaning for a psychopath. “You’re everything I have ever needed in life” can actually mean, “For now, you’re fulfilling my desires and I’ll let you stick around” or, “Please, believe me” can translate into, “I will seduce you, although you don’t know it yet.” And he will use similar phrases which don’t have another meaning to him.
8. È il maestro della negazione
Se scoprite l'inganno, potrebbe cercare di convincervi che vi siete immaginati le cose e che dovete essere voi a esagerare! Se gli chiedete perché ha mentito, uno psicopatico potrebbe semplicemente evitare la domanda con delle stupide scuse.
9. È dipendente dalle sue bugie
A causa di un mancanza di empatia, he has no desire to stop lying. His adrenalin and self-praise come from the fact that he has deceived a woman who loved them. And the amount of trouble he gets into won’t make him stop doing the same things over and over again.
10. Hanno tutti gli stessi tratti di personalità
Believe it or not but sometimes you can spot a liar just by looking out for the same traits they all have. Besides the need to dominate and the lack of empathy, they are usually very bored and irresponsible. Narcissism is also one of the main traits that indicate that the person might be a psychopathic liar, just like a lack of remorse. Also, a psychopathic liar is very charming! (Maybe that’s why we always fall for them?)
