10 segni evidenti che sta facendo finta di non piacergli (e 8 motivi per cui)
Alla ricerca di signs he’s pretending not to like you? Beh, se la maggior parte dei segnali sotto riportati corrisponde al suo comportamento, allora sapete che he’s scared of how much he likes you.
So, you like this guy (okay, let’s not fool ourselves, you’re crazy about him), but he’s sending you mixed signals and you don’t really know what’s going on in his head.
Un momento si pensa ha una cotta segreta per te, and the next you’re not quite sure he knows you exist. And that’s how you ended up here searching for signs he’s pretending not to like you, right?
I ragazzi fanno finta di non piacere?
Yes, guys sometimes pretend not to like you. They try hard to convince you that they don’t care about you even though deep down inside they are crazy about you and their actions prove that as well.
Ti fanno impazzire con tutte queste finzioni, facendoti venire dei dubbi: Gli piaccio o che diavolo? But, lucky for you, he can’t hide his body language signs and other revealing signals that show gli piaci assolutamente!
Imparate tutto quello che c'è da sapere sul suo modo di pensare e rimanete sempre un passo avanti a lui con QUESTA GUIDA AGLI INCONTRI E ALLA SEDUZIONE.
And, yes, there are many reasons why a guy might pretend not to like you (which we’ll also cover below, so stay tuned)!
Come si fa a sapere se lui nasconde i suoi sentimenti per te?
You know he’s hiding his feelings for you if he’s displaying positive body language signs intorno a voi, ricorda tutto ciò che dite, vi fa un sacco di domande personali, rispondere sempre ai tuoi messaggi ASAP, or notices things you don’t expect anyone to notice.
There are lots of other signs that indicate he’s pretending not to like you and you’ll find them below.
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Alcuni Segni che piaci a un ragazzo but he’s trying not to show it are mysterious and the others are pretty obvious, but you probably haven’t been paying too much attention to them due to all that confusion.
(Honestly, who’s got time for overthinking and deciphering the enigma of a man’s brain).
To help you understand what’s really going on in his head, here is a list of clear signs he’s pretending not to like you, but the truth is he really does like you A LOT!
10 Clear Signs He’s Pretending Not To Like You
He’s always showing up where you are
Vai al centro commerciale e lui è lì, vai a fare una passeggiata e lui è proprio dietro di te.
When this happened for the first time, you were convinced that it was a pure coincidence, but every time after that you started to suspect that maybe he’s creeping on you.
Or maybe he’s a ninja with a teleportation superpower, so he always manages to show up right where you are.
Whatever it is, all you need to know is that this is a good sign that he’s pretending not to like you! And do you know how I know? Because the exact same thing happened to my best friend.
Il ragazzo che la mia amica frequentava da tempo le mandava sempre segnali contrastanti. Dopo un po' di tempo, ha notato che lui si presentava sempre dove si trovava lei.
After that, he finally found some courage and admitted that he liked her a lot but didn’t know how to tell her because he was really shy and was paura del rifiuto.
Forse la stessa cosa sta accadendo a voi, quindi tenete gli occhi ben aperti!
Mostra segni di linguaggio corporeo positivo nei vostri confronti
Positive body language signs are subtle signs he really likes you, so you can’t ignore this no matter how hard you try.
I segni includono:
- Fissare in modo netto
- Contatto visivo prolungato
- Sporgersi quando si parla con te come he’s preparing to kiss you
- Puntare i piedi verso di voi
- Raddrizzare la postura per apparire più virile, e così via.
Mostra tutti questi segni a livello inconscio, il che significa che non può influenzarli.
When you’re talking to him, he can’t help but lean in to absorb your every word, to straighten his posture whenever he sees you – he’s not even aware he’s doing any of it.
So, that guy at the office, or coffee shop might pretend that he doesn’t like you with his words, but his body language will eventually reveal his true feelings for you!
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He’s a tease master
La presa in giro è spesso collegata all'immaturità, ma la verità è che quando un ragazzo vi prende in giro, significa he’s totally smitten with you. It’s also one of the legit signs he’s pretending not to like you.
Questo deriva dalla giovane età, quando i ragazzi prendono in giro le ragazze a scuola e le ragazze li inseguono per reagire e vendicarsi.
L'istinto di stuzzicare rimane anche in età adulta, ma il concetto è un po' diverso. Con l'avanzare dell'età, gli uomini sono soliti stuzzicare solo con le parole.
They try to embarrass you or they become stubborn not wanting to admit that you’re right about something, so they do things that annoy you.
Posso dire di essere in sintonia con questo argomento anche a livello personale, perché mi è successo di recente.
Quando ero a un semi-appuntamento con un ragazzo a cui piaccio (lo ha ammesso qualche giorno prima), mi ha letteralmente preso in giro per tutta la sera, facendo cose infantili per farmi sentire in imbarazzo. (Ho persino dovuto colpirlo un paio di volte perché aveva esagerato).
Sì, quando ai ragazzi piace qualcuno, si trasformano in un maestro del tease in pochi secondi, quindi assicuratevi di prestare attenzione anche a questo aspetto.
Vi fa molte domande personali
In base alla mia esperienza personale e a quella delle persone a me vicine, posso dire che ci sono due motivi per cui un ragazzo vi farebbe molte domande personali.
It’s either one of the following:
a) He’s an emotional psychopath o un giocatore e vuole conoscere ogni singolo dettaglio su di te e sul tuo passato per poterti manipolare.
b) He’s totally smitten with you and he genuinely wants to know you better.
If you’re sure that your guy doesn’t belong to the a) crew, then him asking personal questions is definitely one of the signs he’s pretending not to like you.
It’s evident that he wants to know everything about your love life, your previous romantic relationships, relazioni a distanza, o qualunque sia la nave in cui vi trovavate.
He’s probably creating a profile of your personal life in his head and that’s why he needs all the info he can get to reveal your personality, character, and the things you like and dislike.
E a volte può esagerare (proprio come il tipo che fa i dispetti di cui ho parlato sopra).
Si accorge di ogni dettaglio di voi
If a man notices every detail about you, it means he’s paying close attention to you. He observes your every move, he listens to your every word, and he notices every time you do something new with your appearance.
Sapete che nota ogni dettaglio di voi se fa alcune delle seguenti cose:
- Trascorre molto tempo complimentarsi con voi
- Ricorda ciò che avete detto la settimana scorsa riguardo a qualcosa di importante (o qualcosa di totalmente irrilevante).
- Ricorda ogni singolo dettaglio della vostra personalità, del vostro lavoro, dei vostri amici, della vostra famiglia e della vostra vita in generale.
Questo è simile al fare molte domande personali. Vi chiede molte domande per conoscervi meglio and he notices every detail about you because he can’t get enough of you.
He wants to memorize everything about you including those “trivial” things that are invisible to others but are a big deal for him.
When men are totally interested in someone, they can’t help but create a special file in their head where they’ll add every update and all the details regarding you and your life.
È la curiosità che li spinge a farlo.
He’s making real effort to impress you
If you’re wondering how to tell if a guy likes you, or if he just sees you as his good friend, you need to pay attention to his efforts!
Se he’s making real effort to impress you in front of his good friends, coworkers and in pretty much every other situation, then you know he’s totally into you.
He can pretend all he wants, but a guy who likes you won’t be able to resist making a serious effort when it comes to impressing you.
Si assicurerà di avere sempre un aspetto impeccabile dalla testa ai piedi, vi farà ridere, vi stupirà con i suoi successi e catturerà la vostra attenzione ogni volta che potrà.
Farà tutto questo perché vuole che lo notiate e che lo ricambiate. Perché? Perché anche voi gli piacete!
If it weren’t so, he would never try hard to win your attention in the first place, so that’s how you know he’s totally and crazily into you!
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He’s making a real effort to make you jealous
This one is a total classic. When a guy is pretending that he doesn’t like you, he will not only make an effort to impress you, but to make you jealous as well! Why?
Because by making you jealous he’s trying to make you like him. Here are a few things he does to make you jealous:
- Flirta con altre sui social media e se ne vanta con voi (per farvi capire che he’s a catch)
- He’s constantly posting new photos with other girls (who are maybe just his female friends)
- He always makes sure to mention his texting endeavors with an interesting girl he’s just met
- Flirta costantemente con altre persone nelle vostre vicinanze.
He says that the two of you are just friends but he’s proactively trying to make you jealous all the time.
If he’s doing all that, he’s making a real effort to make you jealous for two reasons: to hide that he likes you and to make you like him. How witty and lame at the same time, right?
Ti dà segnali contrastanti
Un giorno mantiene un contatto visivo prolungato e ti manda messaggi tutto il giorno, il giorno dopo ti ignora completamente.
One day he even establishes subtle physical contact and the next he barely knows you. If he’s doing this, he’s definitely giving you mixed signals!
And when a guy is giving you mixed signals, it’s usually because he likes you A LOT but he’s struggling to find the right way to show you.
That’s why he sometimes chooses to shower you with affection and gesti romantici unici e poi, subito dopo, scompare completamente nel nulla.
Sometimes guys get scared of their feelings and that’s when mixed signals come in handy.
He doesn’t have to justify why he did a certain thing and whenever he feels like he showed too much affection, he simply erases it by ignoring your messages or by acting cold.
He will do all this even though deep down in his heart he knows he’s totally crazy about you. Men, right?
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Trova sempre il tempo per te
Ci sono milioni di modi per dimostrarvi che gli piacete, ma questo è il più potente. Se un uomo trova sempre del tempo per te, sai che he’s totally into you.
After all, if he weren’t interested in you, he wouldn’t go out of his way to hang out with you and to be there for you when needed. This could be a phone call when you’re sick, encouraging you during tough times, and similar.
If he sometimes ignores his best friends to spend time with you, it’s not about him just being nice. It’s much more than that. He doesn’t want you for a booty call, but he wants to be in a relazione seria con voi.
He always makes time for you because he genuinely cares no matter how much he pretends that he doesn’t.
Quando gli chiedete di aiutarvi con qualcosa, si teletrasporta letteralmente a casa vostra e inizia ad aiutarvi con quel particolare problema?
When you tell him that you’re bored, does he suggest doing something fun together?
If yes, then you know he’ll always make time for you no matter what and there’s no need to question his intentions because his heart is in the right place.
He’s very responsive online, but reserved in person
Il vostro uomo si trasforma in una macchina per reagire online, ma quando si tratta di comunicare di persona si spegne?
He’s probably doing that because he doesn’t know how to behave in your company (because he likes you) and he wants to play it safe by making you think that you’re only good friends.
Mi è successo di recente. Ho conosciuto un nuovo ragazzo e ci siamo trovati benissimo. chimica degli sms, ma aveva difficoltà a esprimersi di persona.
Così, ho iniziato a chiedermi cosa fosse successo e a domandarmi: Ho detto qualcosa di sbagliato?
I noticed that whatever I tried, he didn’t seem to reciprocate. He couldn’t maintain eye-contact and his sentences were ultra short.
And then I realized that he was a little bit shy and insecure in person, so he didn’t know how to express himself properly.
Così, ha deciso di andare sul sicuro e di rimanere riservato e sperare per il meglio. Forse anche a voi sta succedendo la stessa cosa!
8 segni evidenti che il tuo ex sta fingendo di averti dimenticato
How do you know if your ex is pretending to be over you? Simple. If some or all of the following signs resonate with him, then you know he’s definitely pretending to be over you:
You’re still in contact with your ex-boyfriend
Usually, when two people go their separate ways, they don’t stay in contact with each other.
If your ex-boyfriend texts or calls you regularly, then this is one of the telltale signs he’s pretending to be over you. Otherwise, he wouldn’t bother staying in contact with you and he’d be focused on andare avanti.
When a guy wants to move on, the first thing he does is delete your number and remove you from all of his social networks. That’s how you know he’s serious about forgetting you.
He’s always around
Wherever you are, he’s there. Do you think this is a pure coincidence (or maybe not)? Obviously, he knows all the places where you’re usually at, so he’s trying hard to “accidentally” bump on you.
He can’t stop looking at you
When he “accidentally” bumps on you, do you have the feeling like he can’t stop staring at you? Whenever you “accidentally” look at him, his eyes are on you.
Trust me, if he wasn’t interested in you, he wouldn’t bother looking at you for a second. So, this is one of the biggest telltale signs he’s totally not over you.
Continua a trovare scuse per vederti
Does he always need your help with something? Does he keep making excuses only to see you? If yes, there you go. He’s making a real effort to be in your vicinity because he obviously still has feelings for you and he secretly hopes that you’re on the same page.
He’s always there to help you
Regardless if it is your chores or a problem regarding your job, he’s always there to help you. He listens to you and focuses on finding a solution for all your problems.
By doing this, he’s investing his time in you and he’s making a real effort per dimostrarvi quanto ancora tiene a voi.
Rimane in contatto con i vostri amici e familiari
Uno dei maggiori indizi del fatto che il vostro ex provi ancora qualcosa per voi è che rimanga in contatto con i vostri familiari, i vostri amici o gli amici comuni.
Rimane in contatto con loro perché vuole essere il più vicino possibile a voi. Inoltre, quando deciderà di ricongiungersi con voi, vi saranno utili come intermediari.
He tries to make you jealous and he’s acting jealous himself
Cerca disperatamente di farti ingelosire uscendo con altre donne, commentando le loro foto e cose simili? Mostra segni di gelosia quando gli parli dei tuoi amici maschi o quando ti vede uscire con i tuoi colleghi maschi?
Of course, you cannot know that he’s acting jealous if you aren’t in contact (or until his friends tell you that). But if you are in contact with him or his friends, and he acts like this, then there’s no need to question his feelings for you.
Ti chiama da ubriaco
When a man is emotionally unavailable or when he’s pretending to be over you, he might drunk dial you only to admit his feelings.
Given that he doesn’t have the courage to do so in person or when he’s sober, his subconscious mind will force him to drunk dial you. And when he does, prepare to laugh A LOT and also prepare to overthink A LOT.
8 Reasons Why He’s Pretending Not To Like You
Ci sono molti motivi per cui un ragazzo potrebbe fingere di non piacergli, ed ecco un elenco dei più comuni.
So, in case you’re interested in what is really going on in his head, here are some answers that might help you understand better and deal with the whole situation:
He’s insecure
One of the most common reasons why a guy would pretend that he doesn’t like you is because of his insecurity.
He doesn’t know how to approach you, what to say to you, let alone what to do when he’s with you. He’s afraid that he will mess things up with his words and actions.
His insecurity is forcing him to pretend that he doesn’t have feelings for you, to send you mixed signals, and to keep you wondering about what is really going on in his head.
Gli uomini insicuri hanno difficoltà esprimere i propri sentimenti e preferiscono fingere per tutta la vita invece di agire.
Di solito, hanno bisogno di un po' di rassicurazioni da parte vostra per sentirsi a proprio agio in questa storia di simpatia.
Si sente indegno di stare con voi
And sometimes guys are not insecure, but they don’t feel worthy of being with you. They think that they don’t deserve you because they have a low opinion of themselves – scarsa fiducia in se stessi.
You are probably the most gorgeous human being on Earth in his eyes and that’s why he feels like he could never be worthy of being with someone like you.
For that reason, it’s easier for him to pretend that he doesn’t even like you than to risk being rejected by you or feeling like he’s not good enough for you.
He’s emotionally unavailable
Perhaps he’s been through a bad breakup recently that scarred him and now he’s become emotivamente non disponibile because he’s, let’s say, protecting his heart.
He’s afraid of getting hurt again and that’s why he acts reserved about you. Truth be told, it’s not easy for a lot of guys to open up emotionally to others.
Uomini emotivamente non disponibili faranno di tutto per nascondere i loro sentimenti per voi, anche se dai loro occhi si capisce quanto vi amino e quanto si divertano a passare del tempo con voi.
Di nuovo, è successo anche a me.
There was this guy who was cheated on by his ex-girlfriend and we totally clicked. Even though we’d just met, most people thought we were together. Sadly, he refused to show any sign of affection toward me because he was afraid to open himself up and risk getting hurt again.
This is a real pain in the ass and if this is happening to you, you have my condolences. And if you’re wondering what I did regarding all this, I just stopped communicating and hanging out with him.
I gave him some space in the hope that one day he’ll come to his senses and become emotionally available.
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He’s a player
If you’ve ever met a player or, God forbid, have been in a relationship with one, then you know that all players have one thing in common – the need to control.
Quindi, mia cara, se Il tuo uomo è un giocatore he will pretend that he doesn’t like you, and he will pretend that he’s unavailable when you call him just because he wants to establish control and dominance. Pay close attention to such and similar red flags.
He knows that if he pretends that he doesn’t give a damn about you, you will be more interested because it’s in our nature to be drawn to those who ignore us (or pretend to ignore us).
If you think he might be a legit player, my humble relationship advice is to run from him as fast as you can! I always say that it’s better to be single than in a toxic relationship.
He’s immature
Nella vita si incontrano due tipi di uomini: ragazzi e uomini veri. I ragazzi sono quelli ancora immaturi, che semplicemente non crescono mai, indipendentemente dalla loro età.
And sometimes, that boy will decide to pretend he doesn’t like you because he wants to play an immature game out of boredom.
He probably wants to feed his boy-ish ego first and that’s why he’s decided to leave you wondering about how he really feels about you.
Pensa che tu abbia già qualcuno
With the advent of social networks, it’s become really hard to tell for sure who is single or taken.
Some people don’t like exhibiting their status, so the only way to discover whether that person is single or taken is by observing their pictures and other clues that might tell you something about their current amore vita situazione.
Perhaps he saw a picture of you with a good friend of yours and he’s assumed that you have someone already.
Or he’s assumed that for no reason other than because he’s convinced that such a powerful lady couldn’t possibly be single.
And that’s why he’s decided to stay reserved and hide his feelings for you. He’s decided to pretend that he doesn’t like you even though he’s dying to be with you.
He thinks he won’t be able to make you happy
Quando a un uomo piaci davvero, l'unica cosa che gli passa per la testa è la sua determinazione a rendervi felici.
This is the ultimate goal for every guy because if they can make you happy, it means they’re worthy of being with you.
And if he, for some reason, thinks that he won’t be able to make you happy, he might decide to hide his feelings for you and play it safe by not doing anything about it.
There are tons of reasons why a guy would think that, and sometimes they just need more time to sort their life out, or whatever they’re going through at the moment.
In the meantime, he will be scared to fall in love with you and that’s why he’ll pretend that he doesn’t like you.
He’s either shy or the ultimate coward
Sometimes guys pretend they don’t like you just because they don’t have the courage or don’t want to approach you first. They do this because they’re either shy or they simply expect you to make the first move.
If a guy isn’t shy, this is totally unfair and it’s the ultimate act of cowardice.
Significa che preferisce aspettare un'eternità che siate voi a dirgli come vi sentite, piuttosto che fare qualcosa da solo. Come sempre, i codardi trovano scuse, ma i veri uomini si impegnano!
Invece di inseguirlo o di aspettarlo (per troppo tempo) per fare la prima mossa, it’s time to go after what makes you feel good and healthy.
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Pensieri finali
I hope you now understand more clearly the whole philosophy behind all these signs he’s pretending not to like you.
And I hope you’ll stay patient and that you’ll find the courage to give him some space (if needed) in order to realize and admit how much he actually likes you!
To summarize, I’ll finish with this amazing quote:
“It’s hard to pretend you love someone when you don’t, but it’s harder to pretend that you don’t love someone when you really do.” – Sconosciuto
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