6 segni che lui è solo una soluzione temporanea, ma non la cura per la vostra fragilità
Per alcune persone, intraprendere una nuova relazione dopo aver vissuto una devastante rottura del cuore è la cosa giusta da fare. E voi siete una di queste.
Ever since you’ve met this new guy you’re currently dating, it seems that you’ve forgotten all about your ex. Now, he is nothing more than a distant memory and you feel more alive than ever.
Non vorrei essere io a farvi scoppiare la bolla di sapone, ma vi siete mai chiesti se quest'uomo è davvero ciò di cui hai bisogno per guarire correttamente? Si tratta di un relazione di rimbalzo che ti fa sentire bene al momento o un uomo di cui hai bisogno per cancellare le tue cicatrici?
È un rimedio temporaneo o una cura permanente per il vostro rottura emotiva?
Well, we’re here to help you and to answer all of your questions. Here are 6 signs that your current boyfriend is not your healer, even though you’re enjoying being with him now.
1. Ti fa venire le farfalle
There is no doubt about one thing—you’re head over heels for this guy. He gives you that butterfly feeling in your stomach every time he kisses you and you’re excited when you’re about to see him.
You can’t help yourself but constantly think about this man. You miss him when he’s not around and you have trouble sleeping, eating and daydreaming about him.
With him, you feel like you’re on top of the world and you have trouble breathing properly.
2. But he doesn’t make you calm
D'altra parte, non è il tipo di persona che porta la pace nella vostra vita. Non è qualcuno che puoi tenere per mano senza dire una parola per tutta la notte e sentirti perfettamente a posto.
Non è l'uomo che cura la vostra pazzia e i vostri drammi, né quello che può farvi calmare. Al contrario, con lui tutto è una montagna russa di emozioni.
3. Il sesso è fantastico
Quando si tratta di sesso, tutto va oltre i vostri sogni più sfrenati. L'attrazione fisica tra voi due è incredibile e siete entrati in sintonia fin dal primo momento.
He is everything you’ve been looking for in a sexual partner and it seems that the two of you are perfectly compatible in the bedroom. The sex is never boring and you’re always experimenting with new things.
The best part is that he isn’t selfish when it comes to your pleasure. This man is ready to make all of your fantasies come true and never gives up until both of you are fully pleased.
4. Ma la comunicazione è pessima
However, you can’t say that the communication outside the bedroom is on the same level as well. On the contrary, when you think about it honestly, there is really nothing you can talk to this guy about.
It’s not that he refuses to listen to you or that he has poor competenze comunicative – it’s just that you have little common ground. Or maybe you don’t feel comfortable opening up to him and exposing your vulnerabilities in front of him?
Naturalmente, voi due parlate di cose quotidiane. Si chiacchiera un po', ma raramente si parla delle cose veramente profonde che vi preoccupano.
You rarely talk to him about your broken parts, as if you’re afraid that he won’t cherish them enough. Or maybe you assume he wouldn’t understand you.
5. Vi godete il presente
Nevertheless, this doesn’t mean you’re ever bored next to this man. On the contrary, every minute you spend by his side is interesting and exciting.
When you’re together, you don’t think about the past or the future. You enjoy the present moment to the fullest.
6. But you don’t plan a future with him
Even though living like this sounds tempting, it’s time to ask yourself why you keep running from the idea of having a future next to this man. If you are honest enough, you’ll see that you can’t picture yourself growing old with him.
You can’t imagine the two of you when these initial butterflies fly away and when you get stuck in the rut of everyday life. If this is the case, one thing is clear—you’re in love but you don’t love lui.
