Non ti aspetterà per sempre, un giorno se ne andrà e basta

L'hai resa ridicola, ma è stato solo temporaneo. Potevi recitare sotto la maschera, ma alla fine la maschera cadeva. Lo fanno sempre; era solo una questione di tempo. Il fatto che tu l'abbia ferita è stato temporaneo, perché a un certo punto ti ha capito e se n'è andata senza voltarsi indietro. Le era rimasto un po' di rispetto per se stessa.

La decisione spettava a voi. Dovevate scegliere se oltrepassare la linea che lei aveva posto quando ne aveva abbastanza delle vostre bugie e manipolazioni.

She has been in this world, dealing with men like you for far too long. Nothing could blind her anymore because she has had her share of broken hearts and she won’t let you be yet another man who strings her along and hurts her in the end.

One day, she realized what you’ve been doing to her and alla fine si è allontanata. Un giorno qualunque, quando vi siete svegliati, lei non c'era più e voi eravate distrutti.

Quel momento in cui le si è schiarita la mente e quando ha finalmente trovato il coraggio di lasciarti, è tornata a essere una donna felice, a differenza tua. Tu eri un disastro perché hai capito cosa avevi e cosa hai perso. Da quel momento in poi, sarai dispiaciuto, sarai distrutto, ma sarà troppo tardi. Troppo tardi per te, non per lei.

Non le hai dato nulla nella vostra relazione. Le avete dato solo una piccola parte di quello che si merita. Non le hai dato rispetto e amore incondizionato. L'hai calpestata perché lei non ti ha mai negato nulla di tutto ciò.

You never made her a priority. She was always somewhere at the bottom of your list. And what’s even sadder—she learned to live with that. She was sad and broken but she never lost hope that someday you will change.

Ma non l'hai mai fatto.

Lei ha visto del buono in te. Ha visto questo enorme potenziale, ha continuato a sperare che venisse fuori, ma tu hai continuato a fare il tuo piccolo gioco di astuzia perché eri sicuro che lei non ti avrebbe mai lasciato. Credo che lo scherzo sia stato fatto a te, perché lei si è svegliata dal suo sogno e si è liberata dalla falsa sensazione che tutto sarebbe andato bene e così, alla fine, se n'è andata.

L'hai data per scontata perché pensavate che l'amore fosse facile da trovare.

You thought that it’s easy to find someone who will love the whole of you; someone who will take your flaws and accept them because they are a part of you and they make you what you are.

Did you really think she was staying with you because she had to? Let me break it to you—NO! She stayed with you because she didn’t want to give up on something that could be perfect, something that could last forever. If only you could have made more of an effort and made the two of you last. You would be the happiest person alive.

 

 

She stayed because she wanted to fight for you. She cared for you and she wanted to keep you. She knew that things won’t be great all the time. She knew she had to live through the hard times and despite that, ha continuato a scegliere te anche se l'avete resa solo un'opzione.

She was not asking for much. She wasn’t asking for you to move mountains for her. She wasn’t asking something impossible or crazy. She was only asking for you to commit to her because, despite everything, you would have made a good couple if you had wanted to try.

She wasn’t asking to have a Cinderella ending. She didn’t want to live in a fairy tale. She knew that life is tough and relationships are even tougher. She knew you have to fight hard if you want something to succeed.

That’s why she doesn’t run away from challenges. That’s why she didn’t give up on you. That’s why she kept giving you second chances, although you didn’t deserve them. She wanted you to last because she saw something close to perfection. She saw a potential life with you.

She wanted to make you happy, but not at all costs. She wanted to wait for you and give you time to realize what you really want, but she didn’t want to wait for you forever.  

Ora, questo ne ha avuto abbastanza e se n'è andata, you realize you were being a jerk to her. But, now, it’s too late to make amends. She won’t take you back because she stayed with you way too long, giving you chances to join her in that beautiful love she made for you.

Now, that she’s left, you feel sorry. You think over and over in your head what a jerk you were. You want forgiveness, but you aren’t entitled to ask for it Even you know that you overdid it.

While you were together, you should have made time for her. You should have fought for her. You should have never shut her out or ignored her. You should have known that she wanted to be yours. She wanted to spend the rest of her life with you and you selfishly ignored that because you thought she won’t be going anywhere.

You made a stupid mistake and now you’re paying for it. You were dumb enough to let such a woman slip away from your fingers. Now, try to live with what you’ve done because never again will you find someone who loved you like she did.