8 segnali misti più comuni inviati dai ragazzi e il loro significato

Non odiate i segnali contrastanti? Cosa pensava quando ha detto/detto/non fatto questo o quello?

It’s kinda frustrating. But it seems like the dating scene of today can’t survive without mixed signals.

Entrare nella mente di un uomo e cercare di capire da dove viene non è facile.

Tuttavia, abbiamo fatto i compiti a casa. Abbiamo chiesto a 30 uomini di essere brutalmente onesti quando si tratta di segnali contrastanti ed ecco cosa abbiamo scoperto:

Un testo casuale all'improvviso dopo essere scomparso per un lungo periodo di tempo.

   

Sta solo controllando se siete ancora lì, se vi interessa ancora abbastanza da rispondere.

He usually doesn’t want anything concrete, he just wants your attention.

If a text is short and effortless, don’t even bother to text back. He wants to boost his ego by believing that he can have you any time his text lights up your phone.

Manda messaggi in continuazione, ma non ti chiede mai di uscire.

Questo è un uomo che manda messaggi senza intenzione. Gli piace solo tenersi in contatto con voi, gli piace la conversazione e l'attenzione che riceve, ma niente di più.

If you have been texting or keeping in touch in any way for a while now and he hasn’t had the decency to take you on a proper date, you are in a flirt that’s never turning into a real relationship.

Inizia la conversazione e poi scompare per molto tempo.

He’s definitely playing games. Let’s face it—a man who sends you a text you replied to almost immediately still has his phone in his hands and he sees that you texted back.

Sta solo ritardando la risposta per farvi capire che state seguendo le sue regole.

He wants to build the tension and anticipation and get you more hooked. Don’t play his game.

Si allontana dopo qualche buon appuntamento

The first and most probable thing here is that he is not dating only you, if he had time to text and meet up with you before and now he is using the ‘busy’ excuse.

He is probably seeing other women alongside you. Don’t get too attached and keep your options open.

Secondly, he might not be ready for a relationship because he went through a break-up recently and he only just realized that. If that’s the case, thank him for not making you his rebound girlfriend and wave him goodbye.

Quando dice di voler essere solo un amico, ma continua a flirtare con te

He wants you in his life, he probably even likes you but he doesn’t want to date you or enter into a relationship with you.

That’s why staying in your life as your friend is the safest way to go.

He made it clear that he is not into anything serious so he has no obstacles to flirting with you freely. But don’t get confused, it is just for the sake of flirting; some men are simply like that.

È un tipo che ama le telefonate notturne

When a man only calls or texts late at night, his intentions are clear—he wants to get naked with you.

He is probably drunk and alone, or both of the two, and in need of some TLC and trying to see if it’s possible with you.

If he doesn’t ask you out, if he never meets up with you during the day and you only see each other when he finds it convenient, you have to face the fact that tu sei la sua squillo di trombaUn'amica con benefici e niente di più.

Ti ha visto con un altro ragazzo e ora si sta impegnando.

Ti ha visto con un ragazzo a caso, che potrebbe anche essere solo un tuo amico, ma il fatto è che la sua gelosia si è scatenata. All'improvviso ti manda messaggi, ti chiama, commenta e apprezza le foto sui tuoi social media.

Probabilmente si comporta così perché vede l'altro ragazzo come un concorrente e non appena vedrà che può riaverti, tornerà ad essere freddo.

What’s happening here is that he doesn’t want to be with you but he doesn’t want the other guy to be with you either. Don’t fall for this.

Dice di non essere pronto per una relazione proprio adesso

Potrebbe davvero non essere pronto oppure sta facendo il furbo e sta giocando.

He knows how the female brain works and that by adding ‘right now’ to his sentence, that will be the only thing she will hear.

He is awakening false hopes that someday something more meaningful might happen, especially if his story follows with ‘let’s have fun’, ‘we don’t need labels’ or ‘let’s keep it casual for now and see what happens’.

You don’t have to wait and see anything, he is just telling you that he is not relationship material and he never will be as far as you are concerned.

Don’t waste your time hooking up with him if you want something more real.

The bottom line is a guy who likes you won’t send you mixed signals, apart from maybe very early on while he is still trying to figure out where he stands with you, to avoid getting ahead of himself.

But if his behavior continues, don’t even bother reading his mixed signals and send him packing.

Avete bisogno di qualcuno che sia interessato a voi e che non abbia paura di dimostrarlo. Hai bisogno di qualcuno con cui puoi comunicare apertamente e onestamente e non di qualcuno che vuole che tu gli legga la mente.