È ora di ammettere a se stessi che ci si merita di meglio

It’s time. You waited long enough for him to change, for things to progress, for better days, for more love, for more respect, for more affection, for more of everything you have been unconditionally giving to him. It’s time you admit to yourself you deserve better.

I know your heart doesn’t want to lasciarsi andare. Lei si aggrappa ancora alla speranza che le cose migliorino. Che il vostro amore lo cambierà.

That he will finally open his eyes and see you for the precious treasure you are. But if he hasn’t so far, chances are he never will.

Volete cose semplici e normali. Volete qualcuno che sia presente per voi.

Vuoi essere trattata con rispetto. Volete un uomo che vi tratti come se foste l'unica e più bella donna sulla Terra.

Volete qualcuno che ricambi i vostri sforzi. Volete qualcuno che sia in grado di amarvi quanto voi amate lui.

Ma, in cambio, continuate a ricevere metà del suo cuore, metà del suo amore, sforzi a metà e investimenti a metà.

For all of you, you are getting just half of him and it isn’t enough. It’s not nearly enough. You deserve so much better.

So che siete stanchi di tutto. Sei stanca di essere sempre infelice, a volte anche senza un motivo, perché lui ti ha semplicemente dato troppi motivi in passato.

Siete emotivamente svuotati e a volte persino intorpiditi da tutto il dolore. Ma la ragione principale della vostra infelicità è che sapete, nel profondo, di essere assestamento for someone who doesn’t deserve you.

You don’t trust him anymore. He betrayed your trust so many times that even when things are going great, you are unable to relax and enjoy the moment.

You are full of doubts and you can’t shake off that feeling of fear that he will hurt your feelings one more time.

You keep begging him for more time. You are not unreasonable and you know that both of you have to have time for other important people in your life. Yet he doesn’t give you nearly enough time.

He would much rather spend all his time with his friends or do ‘whatever’ than spend it with you. Yet every time you start letting go, he is there and he doesn’t allow you to go.

He should always give you his attention—not only when he is too afraid of losing you. You shouldn’t beg him for more of his time.

Dovrebbe essere ansioso di vedervi ogni volta che ne avete l'occasione. Dovete essere la sua priorità e non dovete aspettare che lui si ricordi della vostra esistenza.

You should have mutual trust so strong that nothing can jeopardize it. If he has already lost your trust, the odds are he can’t completely get it back.

Don’t spend your life in fear of his new betrayal. The worst thing about betrayal is that it hurts more the second time around, so stop giving him new chances to hurt you.

You shouldn’t feel tired from your relationship. If you have mutual love, you should feel inspired and energetic in such a way that you feel as if so you can conquer the world.

You should feel happy most of the time. I am not saying all the time because life isn’t all peachy. Life happens—you fight you work it out. But you should never feel like your partner is the sole cause of your misery.

Don’t settle for less than somebody who will love you in such a way that his main obiettivo sarà quello di rendervi felici.

Don’t settle for half of anything.

Cercate qualcuno che possa darvi tutto. Cercate qualcuno che vi tratti con il rispetto che meritate.

Don’t let one-sided love keep you attached to someone unworthy of you.

Wait per qualcuno che vi amerà come se non ci fosse un domani.

Wait for someone you will love more than you ever thought possible. And believe me, that’s not the one you are with now.