Non permettete a qualcuno di trattarvi male solo perché gli volete bene

Il buon senso di tutti dice che non dovrebbero tollerare che qualcuno faccia loro del male.

If your friend was in a bad relationship where a guy treated her poorly, you’d be the first to tell her to call it quits.

No matter how much she loved the guy, you’d know that her place is not next to him.

Perché allora è così difficile accorgersi che la persona che amate vi tratta male e perché è ancora più difficile smettere di permettere che ciò accada?

Love can make us blind, that’s true. Loving someone can make us idealize everything good they do. And then when they do something wrong, we end up making excuses for them.

You weren’t born into this world to waste your energy, good heart, and love on someone who doesn’t appreciate you.

Iniziate ad amare voi stessi e a prendervi cura del vostro benessere, e le cose cominceranno a svolgersi per voi.

Let’s take off the blindfold love has put over our eyes and try to see things clearly for once.

If they don’t answer when you call them and never even apologize, that’s not right.

If you wait for hours before they answer a simple message, that’s not right.

If they’re never there for you, no matter the reason you need them, that’s not right.

If they can’t find the time or energy to participate in your life, that’s not right.

If the person you’re with can’t seem to respect, support, and love you the way they’re supposed to – that sure isn’t right.

We don’t want to think badly of the person we’ve given so much to. We want them good, pure, and perfect in our minds.

That’s why we never let ourselves confess they are actually treating us quite poorly.

Rendersi conto e confessare che qualcuno vi sta ferendo con il suo comportamento è il primo passo per risolvere questo enorme problema.

No matter how much you love someone, you can’t let them break you apart.

Love can’t be one-sided. If you love them, they should love you back, right? If they loved you, would they hurt you? Absolutely not.

La persona che vi ama veramente avrà sempre a cuore i vostri interessi. Chi si preoccupa non vi farà mai del male intenzionalmente.

Se qualcuno continua a trattarvi nel modo in cui non lo trattereste mai e voi continuate a perdonarlo, è il momento di interrompere questo circolo vizioso.

Nessuno può farti del male, per quanto sia importante per te.

Would you ever do bad things to someone you love? Sure you wouldn’t. Then, why do you let someone do that to you?

I know you find many reasons to explain them hurting you in a way that makes it seem less important and like it’s not even their fault.

Non solo queste azioni maligne sono importanti, ma sono anche cruciali per la vostra autostima e per la vostra felicità futura.

They take your trust and sincerity and they toss it all away, making it seem like you’re the less important person in the relationship.

I wonder how they would feel if you did the same thing to them?! Would they forgive you? I’m pretty sure not.

I’m quite sure they’re constantly apologizing to you, asking your forgiveness. Well, let me tell you something: An apology that doesn’t come with changed behavior è solo un servizio a parole.

I’m also guessing that if by any chance you choose to actually stand your ground and show them you’re no longer putting up with their shit, they will make you feel bad for being angry at them.

This is the kind of toxic person you don’t want in your life. They might have you believing they will change, but they won’t!

Forse state pensando di dare loro una seconda possibilità, ma posso dirvi subito che ogni possibilità che darete loro sarà sprecata.