Sapere quando porre fine alle cose salverà la vostra anima

When you know you’re in the wrong relationship, be brave enough, and end things. When it makes you feel bad and like you’re not abbastanza buono, finiscila. Nessuno e niente vale il sacrificio di te stesso e della tua felicità.

When you realize it causes you pain and misery instead of making your feel like you’re on top of the world, end it. For as long as you choose to stay in a relationship that makes you feel sad, worthless, and insufficient, your soul will suffer.

Don’t try and get used to feeling only half okay. You deserve so much more. You are an amazing woman, with so much to offer, who is stuck in a grey zone, not knowing what to do.

But deep down, you know exactly what you should do. If you’re not happy, then what are you waiting for? Nobody is going to end it for you. That is your decision, and you have be brave enough to make it.

Summon the courage to put an end to something that is taking away bits of your soul, one day at a time. Don’t let yourself be manipulated into being somebody you’re not, for the sake of someone who wouldn’t do the same for you.

You matter. Your feelings matter. And your happiness matters. Do you really want to spend your life next to someone you know you don’t belong with?

Può essere la persona più straordinaria del mondo. Può curare il cancro, per quanto ne sapete. Ma questo non vuol dire che sia la persona giusta per voi. Don’t be ashamed of saying it out loud. There is nothing wrong with you for being truthful with yourself.

Have faith in yourself and the higher power. Choose to believe that there is something better out there for you. Just because you still haven’t come across it, doesn’t mean it’s not going to come your way. That’s why it’s called faith. You have to believe it in order to see it.

I know staying is the more comfortable option. It’s familiar. It’s what you know. But what good has ever come out of being in la vostra zona di comfort? Non si può mai crescere se non si ha il coraggio di uscirne e di percorrere un sentiero sconosciuto.

Smettere di cercare di cambiare qualcuno che non è disposto a farlo. Rifiutate di stare con un uomo tossico just because he makes you feel you have to. Don’t let him drain the love out of you. Dare to walk away towards something better.

When you’re not getting what you deserve, the only thing you can do is fight for it. But if that fight proves to be a futile one, be kind to yourself and leave. There is too much good in the world for you to be constrained to this one person and the toxic environment that surrounds him.

Do me a favor and know when it’s time to call it quits. There is not a worse feeling in the world than knowing you deserve so much more, but choosing to stay in the one place that will never allow you to experience it.

L'amore non è così complicato. L'amore ti solleva. L'amore ti fa sentire bene con te stesso. L'amore ti fa desiderare di essere una persona migliore e ti mette alla prova in tutti i modi migliori.

If it seems too difficult, it’s because you’re not with the right person.

Se questo cosiddetto amore vi fa sentire meno come voi stessi e più come qualcuno che lui vuole che siate, andate via. Siete troppo importanti per accontentarvi di un amore contaminato che vi rende infelici dentro.

You are too amazing to waste your life with someone who can’t see that. End what doesn’t calm your restless soul and fight for something that will make you feel like the fantastic woman that you are.

Choose yourself. Fight for yourself. Save yourself. If you don’t, nobody else will.