Se fa queste 7 cose, ha paura di perderti

Every relationship is perfect in the beginning. You feel like you’re on top of the world and you’re crazy in love. Even the things you wouldn’t normally tolerate you let slide because you’re head over heels in love.

Actually, that is not even love, it’s that initial infatuation, the craziness when you’re completely blinded and obsessed with your new boyfriend.

Ma prima o poi la fiamma iniziale inizia a spegnersi e la vita reale entra in scena. Solo allora si capisce se si è veramente innamorati di lui o se si è solo troppo entusiasti dell'idea dell'amore.

In this period, all the things you overlooked earlier become a burden. His quirks and his flaws become too real and it’s up to you whether you would learn to love them or grow to resent them.

You may even struggle with this new side of him and you don’t know how to react. You don’t know how to make him realize that he’s losing you. It can go that way, or sadly (though this happens more rarely), he will realize that you’re slipping away, that something is distancing you from him.

That’s why he’ll bring out the big guns if he truly loves you and do these things to keep you:

1. Flirterà con voi

He knows that he has won you already but he won’t stop trying. If he senses that you might leave, he will flirt with you again. He will try to win you back. He will take you to a nice dinner, he won’t be late for your dates, and he will answer your texts as soon as he gets them. Basically, he will try to seduce you all over again.

2. Abbandonerà tutto per stare con voi

No other plans are important as you are. If you watch his behavior closely, you’ll notice that è veramente, sinceramente, follemente, profondamente innamorato di te. He cares for you and he doesn’t want to gamble away this chance of being with you.

Si preoccupa e si batterà per voi. Se avete bisogno di lui, annullerà qualsiasi cosa avesse organizzato solo per essere lì per voi e, ovviamente, non ve lo dirà mai né voi lo scoprirete, se non per caso.

3. Vi farà dei doni

It doesn’t even have to be a special occasion. He will buy you something to prove that he loves you or he will walk in the park and pick a flower or two and bring them to you.

Lui dimostrerà il suo attaccamento emotivo e quanto siete importanti per lui facendo queste piccole cose che alla fine della giornata significano molto.

4. Vi tratterà come una priorità

Niente è più importante di voi. Vi metterà sempre al primo posto perché in questo momento siete la cosa più importante della sua vita e vuole farvelo sapere.

He wants to make sure that you won’t leave him ever by treating you the way you deserve, the way every woman deserves to be treated. He is smart enough to see it.

5. Vi farà i complimenti

Vuole che vi sentiate speciali e desiderabili. Vuole che vi sentiate belle perché lo siete. Non si tratta di un tentativo disperato di trattenervi pronunciando parole vuote per rendervi felici; no, lui pensa davvero quello che dice e lo dimostra con i fatti.

Si complimenta con lei per il suo aspetto perché è innamorato pazzo with you and to him you are the most beautiful girl on the face of the earth. He compliments things you’re doing and how you’re doing them because he truly admires you and your competence.

6. Si preoccupa della vostra famiglia e dei vostri amici

He knows they are important to you, that’s why they are important to him, too. He will try so hard to make them like him, like he is trying to win you over.

Even if he doesn’t like them, he will never show you that and he will keep it to himself because he loves you and doesn’t want to hurt you.

7. Sarà presente per voi quando ne avrete bisogno

Usually, people who are together for a while start taking each other for granted. Even when one person in the relationship needs help, the other one doesn’t take it that seriously because they believe they can handle it.

He won’t act that way. He will see when you’re stressed out and he’ll come to help you. He will either just be there for you and listen or he will give you advice, whatever works for you the best at that moment.