There is nothing better than having a soulmate, right?
Well, that’s not completely accurate.
There is something even better—a deeper type of soul connection that goes beyond physical attraction or mental connection, and it’s called twin flame.
What is a twin flame love exactly?
Your twin flame love is the other half of your soul. It’s the true reflection of who you really are, your perfect match in every segment.
Your twin flame mirrors your fears and your insecurities, but not in a harmful or destructive way.
This mirroring is mutual, and you’re conquering fears and insecurities you both have together. Once you manage to do that, there is no stopping you, and there is nothing you can’t overcome.
Our mirror soul is there to show us how to grow, how to get over our fears, and how to change our lives for the better.
It’s the relationship we’ve all been unconsciously seeking because it’s all about honoring each other, giving and getting respect, and exchanging mutual, undeniable love.
Even the ones who haven’t found their mirror soul yet have nothing to fear because there is always an ongoing search for their half of the soul.
We all have that one special person out there who’s made especially for us, our true love. Someone who will make love greater and more real than ever before.
Where does the term twin flame come from?
Well, there is a story in Greek mythology that says that we were one with our twin flame a long time ago.
Since we were too powerful together, Zeus decided to split our soul into two pieces and put each half into two different human beings, so that we could search until the end of our lives for our other halves.
How beautiful is that—knowing that coming together with your twin soul, the other side of you, even scares the ancient Gods?
Today, this is only metaphorical because it means that there is someone on this planet made only for us, and if we meet them, we will get so powerful that nothing will be able to stop us.
We will experience the love that can overcome anything. That special type of empowering, forever strong, unconditional love that can only be felt during the twin flame union or better said twin flame reunion.
What are the actual twin flame signs?
How do you know that you are not confusing these feelings with mere lust?
When looking for twin flame signs, what your eyes see will be irrelevant. You will have to learn to look with your soul. Essentially, you will have to rely on your feelings alone.
You see our eyes and our basic instincts have deceived us in the past. They are the reason most of us ended up in wrong and toxic relationships.
1. When you once meet, your paths keep crossing
Wherever you go, you see him. Even when you try to go to a new restaurant where you have never been before, he’s still there – your mirror soul.
Somehow your energies always meet, and your passion always grows. You meet by accident, and when your eyes meet, you stop for a minute, staring at each other like you have known each other for ages.
2. You might even dream of them before you meet them
There have been stories that before meeting the other half of their soul, people have had dreams of them, and those dreams have felt so real that they were almost like predictions of something big that is about to happen.
Once you are in their presence, you might even experience déjà vu—a sort of flashback of a situation that you have no recollection of.
Even though it will seem irrational, you won’t be able to shake the feeling that you must have met them in your past life.
3. Even though it’s true love, everything doesn’t always run smoothly
For the first time, you will experience feelings so strong and intense that they will scare you and vice versa.
You and your partner won’t know what hit you, and how each of you reacts to the new situation might differ.
It is possible that one of you or both of you will be freaked out and intimidated by everything that’s happening. The runner/chaser dynamic is one of the most obvious scenarios in that situation.
One of you will be more accepting of the emotions that you are experiencing while the other will run for the hills.
However, the twin flame reunion is inevitable. There is an unwritten law of attraction between you, and you have to get back together sooner or later.
You or they just need the time to realize that your soul is not complete without its other half.
4. You have no option but to surrender
When you finally decide that you are ready for this type of love, it feels like you are surrendering to the fight that has been going on inside you, the one which has been telling you that it’s too good to be true.
The weight of the whole world has been lifted off of your shoulders, and you are finally able to fly into eternity with the person you were meant to be with before you even came to exist.
Your body, mind, heart, and soul are surrendering to your fate, and it feels like liberation.
5. You feel as if you’re finally whole
You know you would never be able to feel this way for someone else. You will naturally toss away your back-up plans and be focused on that one person as they will be on you.
You don’t have to chase happiness because it’s at your front door. You are happy, and everyone around you can see that.
Of course, there will always be obstacles that you two will have to overcome, but don’t worry—you will always find your way back to one another.
6. The two of you are the same, yet so different
You two are the perfect representation of Yin and Yang. You are the same, yet so different. It seems like you have been raised by the same parents or that you have lived the same life all along because you have the same interests, the same hobbies, the same wants and needs.
Sometimes that’s a problem. Because if you’re both very short-tempered and you’re both very stubborn, then you can’t function properly.
You need someone who will give you the space needed to calm down, someone who will talk calmly with you. Being that they are a reflection of you doesn’t really go well with problem-solving.
7. You aren’t able to stop overanalyzing everything
Because of the fact that you are your higher self, your consciousness awakeness when you meet your twin soul, and you start to question and analyze everything.
It’s reasonable because it’s really an ‘out of this world’ experience that no one can understand or describe, so you start questioning it and worrying about it.
After being broken for too many times, after you have been played with, cheated on and survived relationships with toxic people, you have lost faith that there will come someone who will be your most wonderful forever person.
That’s why it’s totally fine to keep on questioning your and their behavior. After all, nobody can blame you for feeling strange. You have never been loved to this extent.
8. You feel ‘awakened’
Being ‘awakened’ means that you have adapted to a new way of thinking without even realizing it. You start to see the Universe in a whole new light.
You start to think about topics which you wouldn’t have before, and somehow everything has changed. Your twin flame relationship helps you get over past traumas.
The two of you stop talking about the weather and all the other irrelevant topics. You replace that with conversations about the meaning of life, your hopes and dreams.
9. You’ll be bursting with energy
The more time you spend with your twin flame the more energized you’ll feel. You will feel as if you can conquer the entire world.
In the beginning, you may even have sleepless nights because you simply aren’t tired enough to fall asleep.
The union you’re experiencing gives you the energy to become, do, and accomplish whatever you want in your life. Not only does it make you a better person, but it also makes you thrive.
It’s the type of energy that helps you do just about anything without feeling burdened. It gives you wings and makes you fly.
10. You get to know new aspects of yourself
You didn’t even know that you were so talented or that you had so many wonderful personality traits before your paths crossed. Now, you do so many different and new things that you weren’t able to do before.
You start to think about your feelings and your thoughts more. The amount of introspection you’re doing is unbearable but still so wonderful.
You will allow yourself to be honest and reveal your inner, dark thoughts that you were trying to hide for too long.
Remember the last time you got angry to the point where you started to throw stuff around? Well, you are finally able to connect it to a traumatic experience in the past.
It’s not like you didn’t want to have all these self-realizations before, but without your twin soul, it was nearly impossible.
11. You don’t literally change, you evolve
You are not pushing each other to become somebody you are not. That only happens in case of a toxic relationship in which you are coupled with your false twin flame.
When it comes to a real twin flame connection, both people in the relationship evolve together.
They help each other with being better people, getting ahead in life, thinking outside the box, and making progress with each day they face.
That’s why once you meet your true twin flame, you will experience an intense transformation in your life
Before they came along, you were a completely different person. You were chasing after dreams that only turned out to be nightmares.
Now everything is slowly becoming better. Your twin flame connection is helping you find your true self. That’s what it’s all about.
12. It’s the most adult and the most childish relationship ever
It’s the most mature relationship you have ever been a part of. You give each other space. You talk things through. You work on yourselves. You make decisions together. You are a team of best friends and lovers.
At the same time, there is this other side of the relationship, the childish side. You are playful with each other. You goof around. You tease each other, basically having fun in any way you can. You are on the right track. There’s nothing more beautiful than that. It’s a perfect balance.
13. They are your everything
Despite everything that you have been told before, having someone who means the world to you isn’t a bad thing at all.
They are the first person you run to when you have something that bothers you. They are the first person you share good and bad news with.
They are the first you think about in the morning and the last thought that’s on your mind right before you fall asleep.
The thing is that you can rely on them to help you get through everything in life that’s bothering you, and they help you grow as a person in ways that you wouldn’t be able to discover by yourself.
Their happiness is your happiness; your pain becomes their pain. That’s how it goes when you have a twin flame connection.
14. You have irrational feelings you can’t explain
All those incredible feelings you’re feeling right now in their presence have been suppressed for far too long.
They are now coming out, and it’s totally fine that you aren’t able to control them—or sometimes even understand them.
There is an undeniable emotional connection between the two of you. The feeling of love that you have right now inside your chest is indescribable.
It is romantic love but it’s like nothing you ever experienced before. This time the soulmate relationship is so strong that there is no need to think your emotions through. You have no other option but to be overwhelmed with them.
15. The two of you have your own universe
You and the other half of your soul are constantly floating on air. Your feet aren’t even touching the ground anymore.
You live in your own love universe that is made just for the two of you. You have your own language and way of communication. You have jokes that only the two of you understand.
Inevitably, you find yourself lost in words, sounds, kisses, and eyes of one another. Locking eyes with each other sends you to another dimension that you weren’t able to see before.
All of it is happiness in its purest form.
16. You are able to read each other
When you take one look at your twin flame love, you know exactly what’s going on inside them. You know their worries, their wants and needs; you know why they’re happy. It’s like you two are open books to one another, and you are completely able to read each other’s every move.
This happens without you even thinking about it. There’s no need to watch their body movements in order to know what they are telling you. It’s almost telepathic. Your subconscious mind scans it without you putting a conscious effort into it.
They do the same when they look at you. You are not able to hide anything from them, and it really doesn’t matter how hard you try.
Sometimes you’re even apart, at different locations, but he calls you to see how you’re doing because he felt like there was something wrong.
There is a high possibility that you really didn’t feel OK at a certain moment and that they felt it without you even being near. This only confirms that the telepathy between the two of you is real.
17. You two have a specific body language
There are many ways you can communicate with your twin flame love—through eye contact, through words and so on—but the most effective way is through body language.
The two of you have established a body language of your own. You understand the meaning of every hand gesture and every little movement.
No one else around you is able to pick up on them while for you, they are common signs of communication. Most of the time you don’t even realize that you’re sending those signals. It just happens.
18. Their hug feels like home
I’ve said this before. When you get into a twin flame relationship, you start feeling like you have known this person for ages. Maybe even from a past life.
That’s why it felt so wonderful when they finally hugged you. You got that déjà vu feeling that said: “I know this person and they feel like home.”
You feel like you don’t have to go anywhere else because you’re at the right place, at the right time, and in the arms of the right person.
Your whole body will relax. Your feet will refuse to carry you because you’ll be floating on cloud nine. You have finally found someone you can rely on.
19. The passion is intense
There’s no mistaking it. Your feet get numb, and your heart just skipped a beat. Your breath gets shorter, and you can’t shake off the urge to run to them.
You want to hug them and never separate your bodies. The passion between you two is undeniable, and even people around you notice it.
When you’re sitting at the dinner table, even if you don’t touch at all, the energy around you is so intense that you could cut it with a knife, and people who are sitting around you feel it.
Yet, those people don’t feel uncomfortable sitting with you but rather feel energized by your love and your passion.
20. Sex is out of this world
The chemistry and attraction you will experience will be out of this world. You won’t just be drawn spiritually and emotionally but also physically.
The sole sex act will be like nothing you have experienced ever before. Your heart, body, and mind will be included in the whole process, and it will be amazing.
The popular opinion is that twin flames can have something that is called astral-sex—sex on a whole new level in which your soul emerges from your body to an ‘out of this world’ experience.
21. You are more than just lovers
I think that this one goes without saying, but it’s still very important to mention. You two aren’t just in love with loving each other. You aren’t just there for the feeling of security, appreciation, sex or love.
Both of you are there because you are connected in every possible way. You are best friends. You are each other’s biggest support and help in life. You are each other’s teachers.
22. You finally got your fairy tale love story
When you were younger, you would always watch those fairy tales in which two people would meet and fall in love instantly—without any warning.
They would be stronger than any obstacle that comes their way and ride off into the sunset together.
Now, you are finally living your own fairytale. You have met your Prince Charming, the one who kissed you and transformed your whole life in an instant. There’s no doubt about it; he’s the one.
What To Do In Case Of A Twin Flame Reunion?
After going through all the most common signs, you’ve probably determined if the person you are seeing is your twin flame or not.
First of all, you have to know that your past will influence your future and your reactions. You will overthink. You will expect a certain moment—that moment in which everything will go to hell.
It did before, but it won’t now. You had to go through all the tough lessons and learn from them.
Those were false twin flames sent to us so we could tell the difference, so we could recognize the right person when they enter our lives.
Don’t try to fight it, and don’t look for an escape. Give some time for your emotions to sink in. They are too intense, and as we’ve already said, not always easy to handle.
It’s a whole bundle of irrational emotions that you simply don’t have an explanation for, and it can get a bit messy.
Trust the process. The twin flame bond can’t be broken or ignored.
The only thing you have left to do is to put all your trust in the belief that everything will work out, and thank heaven you are one of the lucky ones that don’t have to wander through life without the other half of their soul.