Stay single until you meet a guy who can take care of himself.
You don’t need a boy disguised as a man in your life. You don’t need someone who doesn’t know how to wash his own laundry and lives in a place that looks more like a dorm than an actual apartment. You don’t need someone who will play video games all the time or pretend he is one of the Marvel superheroes. I mean, it’s okay to have a hobby, an interest, but it is completely not okay to not act according to your age.
Stay single until you meet a guy who actually gives a damn about things.
You don’t need someone who is too lazy to get his ass off the sofa and take you out for a romantic dinner. You don’t need a guy who will make you pick him up before you go to the movies. You don’t need someone who’ll let you plan every single detail of your dating life. You need a man who actually gives a damn about you. You need a man who will pick you up or show up 10 minutes earlier to a date so you don’t have to wait for him. You need a man who will keep on trying to impress you, no matter how long you’ve been dating.
Stay single until you meet a guy who will embarrass himself to save you.
You don’t need a man who’ll act like a coward and at first sign of trouble, he walks away. You don’t need a man who will hide behind you in your time of need because he thinks you can handle it alone. So what if you can? He needs to show that he cares, he needs to stand by your side in every situation. You need a man who will willingly throw himself into the fire just to save you. A man who will embarrass himself only to get the attention off of you.
Stay single until you meet a guy who’ll take you by the hand and save you from getting splashed by a car on a rainy day.
You don’t need a man who’ll always enter someplace first. You don’t need a man who’ll only order a glass of water for himself, a man who’ll only look out for himself. You don’t need a man who will get in the taxi first and then let you in. You need a man who will take care of you and put your needs before his. You need a man who will keep you safe and cherish you like a princess because to him, you are one.
Stay single until you meet a guy who’ll erase all the insecurities you have.
You don’t need a man who’ll make you feel bad about yourself. You need a man who’ll make you feel like the most beautiful girl everywhere you go. You need a man who’ll make you forget about all the things about yourself that you hate. A man who will remind you how beautiful you are every day, someone who will be so proud of you and the things that you do. Someone who will give you credit for all the work you’re doing. Someone who sees and acknowledges it.
Stay single until you meet a guy who respects the fact that you are a strong and independent woman.
You need someone who will let you do things your way, someone who will trust your judgment because he knows you are smart and good enough. You don’t need someone who will second-guess every decision you make and ask twice if you’re sure about something.
Your guy will be able to take the fact that you are strong and independent and that you don’t need him or anyone to be happy. When you find someone who respects that, you’ve found a real man.
Stay single until you meet a guy who loves you for what you are.
You need a man who’ll love you the same as the first day he met you. You need someone who will never want to change you and will love you with all your quirks and flaws. A man who will learn to love those things you do that are unusual because that is what makes you unique, a one of a kind.
Stay single until you meet a guy who will own up to his mistakes.
Boys and emotionally immature men lie their way out of the situations they’ve put themself into. You don’t need a man who is too proud to say he is sorry when he fucked something up. You need a man who will not hesitate to say, “I’m sorry,” when he needs to. A man who is not a stranger to a grown-up conversation instead of yelling and screaming to prove a point.
Stay single until you meet a guy who will draw a smile on your face every time you see him. A guy who will make your palms sweat before you meet. Stay single until you meet a guy who is all this and even more.
Stay single because you deserve to have him and he deserves to find you.
Until this day comes, stay single.
Hi everyone!! I’m Maria, but all of my friends call me Mare (meaning the sea in Italian). I was born and raised by the sea in a small town in the Mediterranean. I’m an “accidental” writer and a passionate singer. Alongside with being a mom, I spend my free time doing gigs which my friends never miss. I think that family and friends are the most valuable thing you can have in your life. That is what I see every day when I look at my son and the loving people around me. Would you like to join my little group and become my friend, too?