Please, don’t do that. You’ve spent more than enough time on someone like him. He’s not worth it, and you should’ve realized that by now. If you get back together with someone who never respected your love, you’ll lose your self-respect. You’ll give him a second chance to manipulate you and to break your heart. Don’t trust him when he says he’s changed. Change is something that takes a lot of time and effort. Someone who easily breaks another person’s heart will need much more time to change. And above all, he needs to have the will to change. Is he the kind of person who would be willing to change his mindset? I doubt it. Once a heartbreaker, always a heartbreaker.
And what about you? Do you even care about yourself? Because if you do, you wouldn’t be thinking about this now. You would be doing something that truly benefits you and fulfills you. You would be taking care of yourself and having the time of your life now that you don’t have anyone to tie you down. Not only that you’re single, but you’re truly free. Your soul is now free of any bad substance that his toxic love brought you. You should be proud of yourself because you survived. You survived something that could’ve left you broken you for good. It won’t take you much to heal your heart and to be brand new again. Of course, that will happen when you stop thinking about him.
Another thing that you need to be aware of is that someone who truly loves you wouldn’t let anything bad happen to you, let alone do something bad to you himself. Was his love really true love? No, honey, it wasn’t. And you’re still thinking of him? He’s not worth it. Someone who doesn’t know what love is is definitely not worth your time. The one who is worth your time is the one who respects it. He respects your time, your love and your personality. Don’t settle for less than that. You owe it to yourself to stay single until you find someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. You owe it to yourself to take care of yourself.
Let him go. Letting him go is part of your healing process and it’s the only way you can move on with your life. You might be lonely and hurting now, but that doesn’t mean good things won’t start happening tomorrow. They will, if you truly want them to happen. But if you want to be stuck with a guy like him, then good things will take time. You might be thinking how he’s the only guy you love and the only one you will ever love. Sure, if your love for him was true, he will never be completely erased from your heart. But he will be forgotten some day. You won’t be able to remember the way he made you feel when you meet someone who is ready to give you everything you need. Once you meet the love of your life, this guy you’re thinking of right now will never cross your mind again. Maybe you’re asking yourself if he’s the love of your life. He might be. Seriously, it might be that he is, but you can’t know that now. If he’s the one you’re meant to be with, your paths will cross again in the future. That’s not something you should worry about right now. Time will show you everything you need to know.
The only thing you should do right now is find a way to relax. Spend some time with yourself and enjoy everything you didn’t have a chance to do while you were with him. Live your life to the fullest. This is your chance for a new beginning, so you better not waste it. It’s time to enjoy everything you are and everything you have. It’s time to focus on yourself and your own needs. Make yourself a priority and you’ll see how much your life is going to change in a good way. Once you heal your heart and start putting some good energy into the universe, that energy will find its way back to you. Good things happen to everyone. Sometimes they’re so small that the majority of people choose not to see them. But if you give value to those little things, you’ll know how to appreciate the big ones. Appreciate everything that comes into your life. Even this break up is a blessing in its own way. If there’s one thing to learn out of this, it is to appreciate and love yourself. Remember: you teach people how to treat you. Don’t let anyone break your heart again. Love yourself in order to be loved by others. Those who see your true colors will love every shade of them. Show the world who you are and how strong you can be. It’s your time to shine and his time to suffer when he realizes what kind of a woman he’s lost.