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Relationships are hard work. That is a statement everyone agrees on. We have to figure out how to function as a couple, how to find compromises, how to pick our words without insulting our partners. To handle these things gets very hard sometimes, especially if you’ve fallen in love with someone who doesn’t know how…
Somewhere along the way, I started loving you more than I loved myself. Somewhere along that same way, you stopped loving me altogether. I was living on cloud nine when I was with you. I really felt like we connected on every possible level. That’s probably why I didn’t mind us moving so fast in…
You’re probably sick and tired of searching for the right guy. You’ve probably even close to giving up entirely. You’re tired of rejection, especially when you fall in love so hard that it breaks your heart into a million small sharp pieces. Have you ever thought that the problem might be you? Maybe you don’t…
When people tell you to ‘move on’ it sounds so easy. Like it’s something that could be done overnight. They make it sound like a magic trick, you just wish for that person to disappear out of your life and they just do. They make it sound like moving on is all about walking away…
I once saw something that captured my attention and I didn’t know why. Something that I thought was so important at that moment, something that came all over me like it was happening to me. That day, I went to the bus station as I did every single day. But that day I got up…
Really, you have to run away from these people. It’s not a game and you can’t change them. It’s impossible. Maybe you think that you are that special one who will cure him and heal every wound he has ever gotten, but you’re not. No one can help these men but themselves. You can try…
Breaking up is never simple. Even if you were with someone for only a short time, when you break up with them, you feel some sort of sadness and in long-term relationships, there can be severe depression and anxiety over losing a partner. When something like this happens, people try to find ways to get…
The importance of a good night’s rest is often talked about but can be very elusive. Why do we talk about the benefits of rest, but refuse to reserve time in our busy lives to actually get enough? Why is it so critical if we never practice it? Getting enough rest is important to the…
As I finished packing up my belongings, I grabbed one last box and glanced over the memories we had once shared. The memories that were both good and bad. The memories of you pushing me into the pool on a hot summer’s day. The memories of me encouraging you in your darkest moments, and the…
Here’s the reality—you only hated my attitude when you sent me a snap at midnight saying I miss you, come over, and my response was: “You’re going to have to try a lot harder than that”. Because let’s be honest—I’m not a booty call! If that’s what you’re searching for, then I’m not your girl….