A culpa não é tua por ele ter ido embora

You’re brokene só consegues pensar em tudo o que devias ter feito.

You’re caught up in all the what ifs and how maybe if you had done this or that then he would still be by your side.

A verdade, porém, é que ele só queria uma desculpa para se ir embora. E mesmo que a verdade te parta o coração, não é por tua culpa que ele se foi embora.

You were always the one who was there for him when he needed someone. It didn’t matter if you’d had a bad day, if you were really busy, or if you had to miss really important things, because he always came first.

And at the time, it wasn’t a big sacrifice for you to put him first. Until you started to realize that the only time you came first in his mind was when he needed you.

Como namorada, esforçou-se muito para ser a mulher de que ele precisava, mas também a mulher que ele queria. Tentava sempre morder o lábio quando ele dizia alguma coisa má.

Quando a tua opinião era diferente da dele, fazias o possível para mudar de assunto.

Because to you, making him happy was more important than being right, and that’s o que é uma relação saudável. Exceto que uma relação saudável é para os dois lados.

It’s not your fault that he didn’t see your worth. You went out of your way for him every chance you got and he took advantage of that. But don’t think for one minute that he won’t miss you.

He will, but he just wanted someone who was easy. Someone who didn’t have a brain, someone he could make into exactly what he wanted them to be.

But that’s not you, and do you want to know why? Because you are an intelligent, strong, and independent woman.

You don’t need a man in your life who sucks everything out of you, a man who is selfish, greedy, and a terrible person. It’s not your fault that he didn’t realize how great a woman you are.

Sabes o teu valor and even though your heart is broken you did everything in your power to be the girl of his dreams. And he just wasn’t the right man for you.

He didn’t deserve the way you treated him or the way you always put him first, even when you probably knew it wasn’t the best idea.

But that’s the difference between you and him. Things worked out the way they did because he doesn’t deserve a girlfriend like you.

He doesn’t deserve a woman who understands the meaning of compromise when he doesn’t.

He shouldn’t have the right to be with a woman who puts him first while he only thinks about himself.

He left because he doesn’t deserve you and even though it doesn’t feel like that right now, one day you will realize it was one of the best things to ever happen to you.

Um dia encontrarás um homem que fará de ti a sua primeira e única pessoa. Um dia terás um homem que te coloca acima de tudo e de todos.

Finalmente compreenderás o que é ter alguém que te ama tanto quanto tu o amas.

And it will be a wake-up call. It will suddenly remind you about every heartbreak you’ve had in the past and how badly they hurt…

Mas será nesse momento que se aperceberá porque é que elas aconteceram e como está grato por elas terem acontecido.

Tornaram-na mais forte, mas também a ajudaram a perceber o seu valor, o que, por sua vez, a ajudou a encontrar o homem dos seus sonhos!

Por isso, antes de começares a culpar-te, lembra-te que tudo acontece por uma razão.

And when someone doesn’t deserve you, them leaving is the best thing that could ever happen to you.