Non è colpa tua se se n'è andato

You’re brokene si pensa solo a tutto ciò che si sarebbe dovuto fare.

You’re caught up in all the what ifs and how maybe if you had done this or that then he would still be by your side.

La verità, però, è che voleva solo una scusa per andarsene. E anche se la verità vi spezza il cuore, non è colpa vostra se se n'è andato.

You were always the one who was there for him when he needed someone. It didn’t matter if you’d had a bad day, if you were really busy, or if you had to miss really important things, because he always came first.

And at the time, it wasn’t a big sacrifice for you to put him first. Until you started to realize that the only time you came first in his mind was when he needed you.

Come fidanzata, ti sei fatta in quattro per essere la donna di cui aveva bisogno, ma anche la donna che voleva. Hai cercato di morderti sempre il labbro quando lui diceva qualcosa di cattivo.

Quando la tua opinione divergeva dalla sua, facevi del tuo meglio per cambiare argomento.

Because to you, making him happy was more important than being right, and that’s cosa significa una relazione sana. Ma una relazione sana va in entrambe le direzioni.

It’s not your fault that he didn’t see your worth. You went out of your way for him every chance you got and he took advantage of that. But don’t think for one minute that he won’t miss you.

He will, but he just wanted someone who was easy. Someone who didn’t have a brain, someone he could make into exactly what he wanted them to be.

But that’s not you, and do you want to know why? Because you are an intelligent, strong, and independent woman.

You don’t need a man in your life who sucks everything out of you, a man who is selfish, greedy, and a terrible person. It’s not your fault that he didn’t realize how great a woman you are.

Conoscete il vostro valore and even though your heart is broken you did everything in your power to be the girl of his dreams. And he just wasn’t the right man for you.

He didn’t deserve the way you treated him or the way you always put him first, even when you probably knew it wasn’t the best idea.

But that’s the difference between you and him. Things worked out the way they did because he doesn’t deserve a girlfriend like you.

He doesn’t deserve a woman who understands the meaning of compromise when he doesn’t.

He shouldn’t have the right to be with a woman who puts him first while he only thinks about himself.

He left because he doesn’t deserve you and even though it doesn’t feel like that right now, one day you will realize it was one of the best things to ever happen to you.

Un giorno troverete un uomo che vi renderà la sua unica e sola. Un giorno avrete un uomo che vi metterà al di sopra di tutto e di tutti.

Capirete finalmente cosa si prova quando qualcuno vi ama quanto voi amate lui.

And it will be a wake-up call. It will suddenly remind you about every heartbreak you’ve had in the past and how badly they hurt…

Ma sarà in quel momento che vi renderete conto del perché sono accaduti e di quanto siete grati che siano accaduti.

Ti hanno reso più forte, ma ti hanno anche aiutato a realizzare il tuo valore, che a sua volta ti ha aiutato a trovare l'uomo dei tuoi sogni!

Quindi, prima di iniziare a colpevolizzarvi, ricordate che tutto accade per un motivo.

And when someone doesn’t deserve you, them leaving is the best thing that could ever happen to you.