No es culpa tuya que se fuera
You’re brokeny sólo puedes pensar en todo lo que deberías haber hecho.
You’re caught up in all the what ifs and how maybe if you had done this or that then he would still be by your side.
Pero la verdad es que sólo quería una excusa para irse. Y aunque la verdad te rompa el corazón, no es culpa tuya que se fuera.
You were always the one who was there for him when he needed someone. It didn’t matter if you’d had a bad day, if you were really busy, or if you had to miss really important things, because he always came first.
And at the time, it wasn’t a big sacrifice for you to put him first. Until you started to realize that the only time you came first in his mind was when he needed you.
Como novia, te dejaste la piel para ser la mujer que él necesitaba, pero también la mujer que él quería. Intentaste morderte siempre el labio cuando decía algo malo.
Cuando tu opinión difería de la suya, hacías lo posible por cambiar de tema.
Because to you, making him happy was more important than being right, and that’s en qué consiste una relación sana. Excepto que una relación sana va en ambos sentidos.
It’s not your fault that he didn’t see your worth. You went out of your way for him every chance you got and he took advantage of that. But don’t think for one minute that he won’t miss you.
He will, but he just wanted someone who was easy. Someone who didn’t have a brain, someone he could make into exactly what he wanted them to be.
But that’s not you, and do you want to know why? Because you are an intelligent, strong, and independent woman.
You don’t need a man in your life who sucks everything out of you, a man who is selfish, greedy, and a terrible person. It’s not your fault that he didn’t realize how great a woman you are.
Sabes lo que vales and even though your heart is broken you did everything in your power to be the girl of his dreams. And he just wasn’t the right man for you.
He didn’t deserve the way you treated him or the way you always put him first, even when you probably knew it wasn’t the best idea.
But that’s the difference between you and him. Things worked out the way they did because he doesn’t deserve a girlfriend like you.
He doesn’t deserve a woman who understands the meaning of compromise when he doesn’t.
He shouldn’t have the right to be with a woman who puts him first while he only thinks about himself.
He left because he doesn’t deserve you and even though it doesn’t feel like that right now, one day you will realize it was one of the best things to ever happen to you.
Un día encontrarás a un hombre que te convierta en su única mujer. Un día tendrás un hombre que te ponga por encima de todo.
Por fin entenderás lo que se siente cuando alguien te quiere tanto como tú a esa persona.
And it will be a wake-up call. It will suddenly remind you about every heartbreak you’ve had in the past and how badly they hurt…
Pero será en ese momento cuando te des cuenta de por qué sucedieron y de lo agradecido que estás de que sucedieran.
Te hicieron más fuerte, pero también te ayudaron a darte cuenta de tu valía, lo que a su vez, ¡te ayudó a encontrar al hombre de tus sueños!
Así que antes de empezar a culparte, recuerda que todo ocurre por alguna razón.
And when someone doesn’t deserve you, them leaving is the best thing that could ever happen to you.
