It’s not true that sexual chemistry is the most important thing to have in a relationship. It’s important at the beginning because that is something that draws you closer to each other, but later on, many other bigger things become more important.
Also after some time in your relationship, you can’t keep up with your sexual desires because you just don’t have enough time, and you just start to ignore them.
As I have already said, the sexual charge is not the most important in your relationship, but you shouldn’t discard it if it’s not going the way you want it.
Don’t sweat over that because that’s completely normal. You and your partner have different and new responsibilities, so your sex life can get a bit boring.
But, don’t worry because relationships are not based only on sex but if your libidos match, then you have a winning combination.
They know exactly what you want
It’s like they read your mind. You have an itch and they know the exact place to scratch.
When you are sexually charged, you need to be satisfied and if your partner satisfies you, then you have closed a perfect circle.
The two of you are perfectly synced and you know exactly what the other wants.
In bed, no one can beat you and your sexual relationship is in full bloom which will help the rest of your relationship to keep going in the right direction.
The two of you communicate without words
When you look at each other, you don’t need words to communicate. You do this in real life and in the bedroom.
The dirty talk comes naturally and you nail exactly what the other one wants.
It’s like you have telekinetic powers to read each other’s minds. And when you come together, sparks fly all over because the sexual charge is over the roof.
Sex is not selfish
Of course, everyone wants to be pleased during sex. We are all in it for the same thing and usually people can get a bit carried away and they get selfish.
Sex becomes all about them and nothing about the other person.
Well, in a sexually charged relationship, it’s not about one person, it’s about the final outcome. Your partner and you will work mutually for the benefit of the both of you.
And the result will be mind-blowing. There is no selfishness whatsoever.
You stare at each other
You can do this for hours and it never gets uncomfortable. You can look into each other’s eyes and stay that way because there is a greater force that draws you to each other—some unexplained chemistry that is just there.
It’s not forced because you can’t act those things.
You trust each other
You have to have chemistry as something to start with. There must be something that has to draw you to the man you like and do the same thing for him. The next is trust.
Trust is the firm ground on which you continue to build your relationship. Also, trust makes the chemistry even hotter and wilder.
When your partner trusts you, it means he respects you. And by respecting you, he respects your body. He knows every inch of it and he knows exactly how to make you happy and satisfied.
They can’t get enough of you
They never get bored with your touch. Even when you are not in a sexual situation, if you touch him or gently bump into him, he will get turned on because your touch, the touch of your body on his makes him crazy.
It turns on all the alarms inside him instantly. That’s chemistry—you can’t shut that down.
You want to try new things
Maybe there are some things you always wanted to try but you never had the guts to do it. Maybe you were too shy or ashamed.
You were afraid that your partner might judge you for some reason.
With him, you don’t have to worry about that. You are so relaxed and safe that you want to try everything you think of with him and it feels good.
You get turned on instantly
It’s safe to say that they barely have to touch you. One look in your direction is enough to make you crazy ready for action.
The sexual energy is all around the two of you, so it’s completely normal that you can’t resist it.