A Letter To The Girl Who Tried Too Hard For The Man Who Couldn’t Care Less
You’re exhausted. I can see it in the bags under your eyes and in the way you move your body across the street. You are tired. And all this trouble for what? For someone who can’t see your efforts and someone who couldn’t care less how hard all this is on you.
You’ve been looking to make his life better and to please his every wish, but look at your bones, ripping your skin, because you haven’t been able to eat properly for days. You wanted to do so much for him that you stopped taking care of yourself. But let’s be honest, he just takes, takes and takes. He never gives anything back and all you do is mourn in despair.
When you two met, you saw something special in him. Like he was finally the guy who could turn your world around and give you the courage to trust in love again. You’d been hurt far too many times and you thought that he was going to pick up the broken pieces and carry them with respect and appreciation.
But when you look back at your relationship now, is that really what he did? He told you that he gave you so much and that you owed him something in return. You owed him your body and obedience. You owed him cooked dinners and sex afterward. You owe him a silent mouth and dry eyes, because he had done so much for you.
Open your eyes! You don’t owe him anything. You owe yourself some respect and love that he could never give you, because he was too busy taking everything you gave him. You gave yourself to him unconditionally and for what? Why did you give up everything to make him feel good? There was nothing that showed you he deserved it.
He manipulated you with his words and his charm, into thinking that he was the one doing all the work to keep the relationship healthy and strong, but with his toxic fingers in it, he just poisoned your heart. He made you blind.
However, you’re not the one to blame. You are a woman in love and we tend to give ourselves fully to love. We love to love. That is our curse. There were no signs of his abuse at the beginning so you fell for him hard and you keep falling, but he won’t be the one to catch you, because he couldn’t care less if you hurt. He just wants to make it pleasant for him.
That’s why, darling—stand up and move those feet. Walk away! He isn’t the one for you and he will never be the right choice for any woman, ever. He is too selfish to love.
I know it may be hard to believe, but you will be loved. You will be adored one day by the right guy. You will be loved by a person who knows how to appreciate your efforts and the blood, sweat and tears you put into the relationship. You won’t ever need to cry again. But in order to meet that amazing someone, you need to let go of your current partner who does nothing but take advantage of you.
Look back at the relationship from the perspective of a third person and see it rationally. You have been mistreated and misunderstood. For the first time in a long while, take care of yourself and show yourself that you are willing to do whatever it takes to get out of that awful environment.
Dear, love yourself. If there’s anything I want you to know, that I want you to realize, is that you need to love yourself more than you love anyone else in this world.