Sometimes, it’s incredibly difficult to distinguish between the signs a Gemini man likes you, signs that he’s playing you, and signs that he’s just being friendly.
Even though Geminis are considered to be one of the most honest zodiac signs out there, the truth is that you can never be certain of this guy’s true intentions – especially knowing that they’re born flirts.
Geminis enjoy seducing women, and they’re exceptionally good at it. So, how can you know if you’re just one in the row of his conquests? Is he really into you, or is he just being friendly because that’s one of his personality traits?
What are the signs a Gemini man likes you for real?
8 Signs That A Gemini Man Likes You
Being romantic doesn’t make him any less of a man
When you first meet this guy, you’ll probably never think of him as a romantic soul. He looks like some kind of a player who jumps from one flower to another without ever giving any particular girl attention.
Come on. A guy has to care for you deeply to bother making romantic gestures. But that’s exactly what’s going on with you and this man.
Trust me: if he is really into you, you’ll see that he’s actually a hopeless romantic. He’ll throw you surprises and make romantic gestures like there is no tomorrow.
The best part is that he’ll be original when it comes to his romantic sides. Forget about the usual things and, most importantly, forget about them being pathetic.
When this guy is romantic, he makes an entire show out of it. He is not cheesy, and he knows exactly what he is doing to win your heart.
Remember: a Gemini is very sure of himself. He doesn’t struggle with insecurities or self-esteem issues, so he doesn’t mind showing the entire world how crazy he is about you.
Even if you’re a girl who despised surprises and romance up until now, that’s about to change. Before you know it, you and this guy will have “your” places, songs, dates, and symbols.
Everything is just like in the most typical romantic comedy. But somehow, all of the things you would usually consider tacky no longer seem corny next to him.
All of a sudden, you start feeling like you’re back in high school. You’re in love for the first time all over again.
Well, that’s called Gemini magic. Let’s not forget that this man is a forever boy who will teach you how to love in the purest possible way – as if you never experienced something like this before.
Guess what – you haven’t because romance with a Gemini man is truly one of a kind.
For him, love is talkative passion
Being an air sign, Geminis are the biggest blabbers of the entire zodiac – nobody can argue about that. Even though this might annoy others from time to time (because they really do know how to exaggerate), let’s be honest and admit that their talkative nature is part of their charm.
So, if you’re looking for clear signs that this guy likes you, pay attention not just to the way he talks to you but to the frequency of your conversations.
This guy just can’t help it. Even if he tries to hide his feelings, he won’t be able to control the urge to talk to you. It’s simply stronger than him, and there is nothing he can do about it.
If he is into you, he’ll send you text messages all the time – and let’s not forget the phone calls. In fact, there will be moments when you’ll catch yourself chatting with him on different apps and social media platforms at the same time.
Being ruled by Mercury, he has the need to share everything with you. He wants you to know every detail about his day as well as to see every little meme he found funny that day.
But don’t worry – he’ll never bore you. To be honest, if any other guy would try talking to you this much, you’d probably feel suffocated, and he would be getting on your nerves.
Nevertheless, let’s not forget how unique and one-of-a-kind a Gemini is. The truth is that you’ll catch yourself anticipating his next call even if you two just hung up.
His conversation starters and icebreakers are anything but usual. He won’t try to engage in ordinary small talk.
Instead, when a Gemini man is interested in you, you won’t have trouble keeping the conversation alive with him.
Deep conversations and Gemini man secrets
But just because you can casually chit-chat with this guy doesn’t mean that he isn’t cut out for deep conversations as well. Trust me: he is.
If this man is in love with you, he’ll want to get to the bottom of your personality. It’s not that he’ll suddenly become nosy – he just wants to talk to you about literally everything.
The cosmos? The meaning of life? Religion? Music? Theatre? Literature? Psychology?
Your inner childhood traumas? Your personal lives? Your past love experiences? Your biggest dreams and fears?
He’ll want to know more about each one of these things and even more.
If he stands by you during bad times, he deserves to be there during the good ones
Geminis are considered to be commitment-phobes. Everyone will tell you that they have a hard time remaining in one place and that they don’t know the meaning of the word fidelity.
I can’t stand in their defense here. The truth is that they’re primarily responsible for their nasty reputation.
Nevertheless, let me tell you a little secret. They’re like this only until they find the woman they really want something serious with.
Once that happens, their behavior drastically changes. In fact, this is when Geminis turn into one of the most loyal signs of the entire zodiac.
First and foremost, let’s get one thing clear: to a Gemini, loyalty and fidelity are two different notions. If you look at things realistically, they really are not the same.
Therefore, just because a Gemini likes you doesn’t mean he won’t look at other girls. Of course, I’m talking about the situation where the two of you are still not a couple or haven’t made things official yet.
But that doesn’t mean he won’t be loyal. This guy is a loyal friend before anything else.
He won’t betray you or backstab you, no matter what. Despite what you might do to him, he’ll always stick to his principles, and he’ll never do something he finds to be dishonorable.
Instead, this is the man you can always count on – especially if he feels something more for you. He’ll turn the world upside down to help you out, and he’ll never leave you hanging.
A guy belonging to the Gemini zodiac sees his loyalty as the strongest proof of his love for a woman. After all, isn’t he right?
He is not flirting – he is just extra friendly to someone he finds attractive
There is no doubt about one thing: Geminis are the biggest flirts of the entire zodiac. It’s like they have an innate talent for seducing women.
This guy doesn’t have to do much. He doesn’t have to put all of his efforts into making you interested – in most cases, it will be enough to just look at you in his own, special way.
Geminis don’t only flirt with their mouths. Even though this guy is known for his remarkable verbal skills, when he is seducing you, he does it with his entire body.
Eye contact, a smile, hands – they all work together in his favor. His body language is so powerful that you feel like he is the biggest man in the room while he is clearly knocking you off your feet.
Compliments
Since Geminis are so good with words, it shouldn’t come as a surprise that they are also excellent with compliments. You won’t get a typical compliment from this guy.
He won’t just tell you, “You’re beautiful.” Instead, he’ll make poetry out of this seemingly simple sentence.
And he’ll make sure you know he genuinely means it. He is not paying you a random compliment every guy does to every single girl he runs into – this man is complimenting YOU and is paying special attention to your distinctive features.
Teasing you in a flirty way
The best part about flirting with a Gemini is, once again, his child-like and fun-loving personality. This man practically teases you all along. He plays with you in the most charming way ever, and without even being aware of it, you start taking part in his amusing game.
At the end of the day, you’re not even sure what happened. Were the two of you even flirting? Was he serious about anything he said? Was he playing you?
That’s the beauty of it all. All of these questions consume you, and before you know it, you can’t get him out of your head. Well, that was his plan all along.
You two will talk like lovers and laugh like best friends
For both Gemini women and men, friendship is one of the most important things in life. Therefore, if a Gemini likes you, he doesn’t see you only as a (potential) lover – he also thinks of you as his (potential) friend.
In fact, sometimes, it’s quite hard to tell whether a Gemini is into you or if he is putting you in the friendzone. He is so open and honest in front of you that you can’t decide whether he is hitting on you or wants to make you his girlfriend.
Don’t be annoyed by this. Instead, see it as a good sign that he has serious plans for you.
Trust me: if this man looked just at your appearance, he wouldn’t bother putting effort into becoming friends with you. He wouldn’t give a damn about your opinions and values, and he wouldn’t care less about your advice.
Nevertheless, when he genuinely cares about you, he wants more than to sleep with you. He wants to spend quality time with you, to know what you think regarding different life issues, he cherishes your points of view.
Therefore, don’t be surprised when you notice that this man doesn’t court you all the time. In fact, there will be moments when he’ll treat you like his best buddy just to move on to acting like you’re the woman of his life.
These are not mixed signals, nor is it a part of some game. It’s just that he sees you as much more than his romantic partner – he hopes that you have what it takes to become his life partner.
Every time you laugh, he falls in love even more
For a Gemini, it’s incredibly important to see that he can make you – the girl he likes – laugh. That’s exactly what he’ll be doing all along – trying to brighten your day and do his best to put a smile on your face.
But I have to warn you – this guy’s jokes can be inappropriate from time to time. It’s not that he disrespects you – it’s just his sense of humor.
Don’t worry because it is enough to tell him that he’s crossed a line. He won’t get offended or anything. He’ll just tone down his jokes and continue making you laugh in some other way.
The best way to see this behavior as a sign a Gemini man likes you is when you two are not alone. He can be telling jokes to a room full of people, but he’ll always wait for your approval that he is funny.
Every time he says or does something comical, he’ll secretly look for your reaction and wonder if he managed to make you laugh.
It’s not about having time – it’s about making it
How do you know if a Gemini man likes you? Well, the answer is pretty simple: he’ll always find time for you.
You know what they say – if someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. Well, that’s precisely how a Gemini male behaves when he is interested in someone.
I don’t care how busy he is. He might be dead on his feet, but he’ll always be delighted to see you. In fact, if necessary, this man will adjust his entire day and all of his responsibilities according to your schedule.
He’ll never turn you down when you ask him out. He’ll never be too busy to decline your phone call or to leave you on read.
I know what you must be thinking right now. This guy is a social butterfly. He’d accept invitations to hang out with just about anyone.
Let me tell you that you couldn’t be more wrong. He knows how to get out of seeing people he doesn’t give a damn about, and you’re certainly not one of them.
Introducing you to his friends
Another way for him to make time for you is to include you in his life. Has he already got plans with his friends when you suggest a fun activity?
Don’t worry. He won’t bail on you. Instead, he’ll ask you to tag along. Trust me: letting you into his clique is one of the biggest compliments you can ever get from a Gemini male.
No, he doesn’t need their approval or assessment. He just wants you included – that’s all.
So, don’t be surprised if this guy asks you to accompany him to a wedding he’s invited to or to be his plus one at some other important event he has scheduled.
For him, love is going the extra mile – together
Unlike some other men, a Gemini will never feel threatened by having a strong woman by his side. Instead, he’ll empower you to become even better and more successful.
Even though he is not so prone to commitment (at least, that’s what most people think of him), unity is everything to him. If he is in love with you, he sees the two of you as a team of two people who should join forces in every aspect of life.
This guy sees you as a team that can’t be defeated so long as you are together. How romantic is that?
He doesn’t plan on going in front of you or behind you. His dream is for the two of you to walk shoulder to shoulder, next to each other through life.
Therefore, if you have a Gemini male pushing you forward, looking forward to your achievements, and inspiring you to do even better, there is no doubt about it: he sees you as his forever person.
In fact, he’s likely thinking of spending the rest of his life with you.
He’s planning your future together, even though he keeps silent about it. This man doesn’t want to go through new experiences in life all alone – he has the desire to share each one of them with you.
He can’t keep calm – he is a Gemini
Finally, if you don’t see the hints and all the obvious signs a Gemini man likes you, he will straightforwardly confess his emotions. He is in love with you, and he sees you two in a romantic relationship. As much as he enjoys playing cat and mouse, he will soon get tired of these signals he keeps sending you.
You don’t see a hint? No problem – he’ll come clean about it.
You probably won’t get a massive declaration of love or a love poem, but he’ll be very open about his feelings, even if he seemingly jokes about it. Come on. This is Gemini we’re talking about – do you really think he can keep calm for much longer?
See also: How To Make A Gemini Man Regret Losing You: 5 Sure Ways
Gemini Man Compatibility:
Compatible with: Aries, Leo, Libra, Aquarius, Virgo, Sagittarius, Gemini
Not compatible with: Capricorn, Scorpio, Cancer, Taurus, Pisces
To Wrap Up: How To Tell If A Gemini Man Likes You
After seeing all these signs a Gemini man likes you, it turns out that reading him isn’t as impossible as it seems. Of course, it’s not enough to only see one sign and conclude that he is crazy for you. But if more than half of them are there, you can be sure of his feelings.
Forget about any prejudices you might have for this sun sign and just pay attention to his behavior towards you.
Trust me: you’ll see that all the hints are there, and you won’t have to do anything to get him to fall in love with you. He is already head over heels for you. All you have to do is play along and enjoy the ride.