Going through the moments of breaking off an almost relationship, no matter who left whom is anything but easy.
Nevertheless, it is something most of us have gone through and something we all deal with in a different way.
This is how you handle an almost break-up, according to the zodiac sign you belong to.
1. Aries
If you belong to this zodiac, you get over every failed relationship, including the ones that were almost that, by jumping to someone new right away.
Even though some might say that this is not healthy and that it is not the right way to move on with your life, the truth is that this method works for you just fine.
Once you meet a new person, you simply don’t have the time to think about your heartbreak and before you know it, you forget it ever happened.
You see relationships as a journey, and if one ends, it’s just a signal to keep moving forward. Instead of wallowing in self-pity, you take charge of your emotions and throw yourself into the thrill of meeting someone new. This way, you keep the spark of excitement alive and dodge unnecessary introspection.
On top of that, your adventurous spirit doesn’t allow you to stay stuck in the past for too long. You’re always looking ahead, confident that the next chapter will be even more exciting than the last. To you, life’s too short to dwell on the “almosts.”
2. Taurus
Being as stubborn as you are, you consider every suffering as your personal defeat. You repress your emotions and you don’t allow yourself to be sad because you think of it as a sign of weakness.
You have as your goal to get back on your feet as soon as possible and to prove to yourself that nobody can conquer you.
Deep down, though, you’re not immune to the emotional turmoil of an almost-relationship. While you mask your sadness with determination, you quietly process your feelings on your own terms. Whether it’s through music, journaling, or simply taking long walks, you have your own private way of healing.
As someone who thrives on stability, your biggest goal after a break-up is regaining control over your emotions and life. You’ll invest your energy into creating a safe and secure environment for yourself, whether it’s reorganizing your home or focusing on your long-term plans.
3. Gemini
Instead of seeing the end of your almost relationship as the end of the world, you try your best to learn from it and to see it as a valuable lesson.
You start thinking of this relationship as good practice for something serious that will come along in the future.
For you, every connection—no matter how brief—is a story worth telling. You share your experiences with others, turning your pain into entertaining anecdotes or thoughtful insights. It’s your way of processing the emotional chaos while keeping things lighthearted.
Moreover, your curious mind won’t let you dwell on one ending for too long. Before you know it, you’re off exploring new ideas, new places, or even new people. The way you see it, life is too dynamic to let a single “almost” define your happiness.
4. Cancer
When it comes to the way you get over an almost relationship, you do it the old-fashioned way. You don’t sleep, you don’t eat and you beat yourself up about everything that has happened.
However, this is not a bad thing—you give yourself time to grieve and an opportunity to kick all the sadness out of your system.
Though the pain can feel unbearable, this period of mourning helps you reconnect with your inner self. You often channel your emotions into creative outlets like art, writing, or music, which not only brings healing but also helps you make sense of what you’re going through.
Once you’ve cried it out and processed every detail, you emerge stronger and more self-aware. Your ability to feel so deeply becomes your superpower, as it allows you to love even more authentically in the future.
5. Leo
If you are a Leo, you get over an almost relationship by cutting all ties with your ex. You delete all of your pictures together, you block them everywhere and you avoid all the places in which you might possibly encounter them.
Once you’ve cleared them out of your life, you focus on reconnecting with your own inner confidence. You throw yourself into activities that remind you of how amazing you are, whether it’s hitting the gym, pursuing a hobby, or simply spending time with people who adore you.
Being the fiery and vibrant person you are, you don’t let heartbreak dim your light. Instead, you treat it as a stepping stone to becoming an even more radiant version of yourself.
6. Virgo
Similar to everything in life, you rationalize things when your almost relationship ends. You put all of your ex’s negative characteristics on a piece of paper and you force yourself to realize why things between the two of you would have never worked out even if you’d stayed together.
This practical approach helps you regain clarity and control over your emotions. After analyzing the situation, you often turn your focus inward, setting new personal goals or improving yourself in small, meaningful ways.
Even though you might seem overly logical to others, this method keeps your emotions in check. By creating a clear plan for moving forward, you ensure that you’re always progressing, even when life throws you emotional curveballs.
7. Libra
Once your almost relationship ends, you immediately start blaming yourself for things going downhill. You reread all of your old texts and you replay your entire relationship back in your mind, trying to figure out if there was something you could’ve done differently.
While your overthinking might seem counterproductive, it also gives you a deeper understanding of your own needs in relationships. Once you’ve processed everything, you’re able to approach future connections with a clearer sense of what works for you.
At your core, you’re a hopeless romantic. So even in the face of heartbreak, you never lose your belief in love. Instead, you use these moments as stepping stones to finding a connection that truly fulfills you.
8. Scorpio
The way you try to get over your almost relationship is by turning to partying, alcohol, and meaningless hook-ups.
Instead of assuming that this toxic lifestyle will help you heal, be aware that this is not a way to fill the void that your almost ex has left behind.
Beneath your tough exterior, you’re deeply introspective. After the initial haze of distractions fades, you often find yourself diving into your emotions to understand what went wrong and what you truly want moving forward.
This process of self-discovery helps you rebuild stronger emotional walls, ensuring that only the right people can get close to your heart in the future.
9. Sagittarius
When your almost relationship breaks apart, you look for comfort in work. Even though self-improvement is always a good thing, it is not a way of running away from your problems.
Your optimistic outlook on life pushes you to seek new adventures and experiences as a way of healing. Whether it’s planning a trip, trying something new, or simply saying “yes” to spontaneous opportunities, you keep yourself inspired and forward-focused.
By the time you’re done, you’ve not only healed but also grown in ways you didn’t think possible. For you, every ending is simply the start of an exciting new chapter.
10. Capricorn
You are not someone who laments the way things ended or the fact that you could never reach a real committed relationship with your ex.
Instead, you feel sorry for ever letting them in, in the first place. You blame yourself for not knowing better and you can’t forgive yourself for allowing the wrong person to break your walls.
As you work through these emotions, you channel your energy into practical solutions. You refine your boundaries and reassess your standards, ensuring that you never repeat the same mistakes again.
Though it’s a tough process, it strengthens your sense of self-worth. You emerge with a renewed focus on your own goals, determined to build a life that aligns with your values.
11. Aquarius
If you are this zodiac sign, you seek comfort in friends. You go on and on about your ex and about your past relationship to the point where you bore the heck out of everyone.
However, if these are the people who really love you, they’ll understand that this is your way of healing and kicking out all of your sadness.
After venting, you often turn to intellectual pursuits to distract yourself from your emotions. Whether it’s diving into a new book, exploring a creative project, or engaging in deep conversations, you use your sharp mind to process and heal.
Your independent nature ensures that while you lean on your support system, you also carve out time for self-reflection. By the end of it all, you’ve gained new insights and a clearer understanding of what you truly want in a partner.
12. Pisces
No matter what type of romantic relationship we’re talking about here, the biggest problem you have with break-ups is that you don’t accept them.
At first, you live in denial and you expect your ex to come back and then for a long time, you continue living in the past, thinking about all the ways you could get back together with them.
Eventually, though, your emotional depth becomes your saving grace. You use your rich inner world to express your feelings, often channeling your pain into art, poetry, or music that resonates deeply with others.
While it takes time, you eventually allow yourself to dream of a brighter future. Your romantic heart never loses hope, and it’s this optimism that helps you move forward.
