Believe it or not, guys don’t fantasize about sex 24/7. I am not saying there aren’t horny jerks that will always be ready for action but most of the guys will need a ‘reason’ good enough to feel this way.
Here is a list of the 10 most common cravings that all guys feel. You better watch out—this is a hot topic!
He likes it when you are direct
If you want him to please you totally, you will have to go an extra mile and explain some things to him. So, don’t be afraid and be direct.
Tell him what you like and what you don’t like. Guys like when their women tell them what they exactly want in bed.
If a guy loves his lady, he will do everything to make her satisfied and what is better than actually telling him what to do?
He loves all the visuals
Guys are visual human beings. What they see is what they get and that turns them on instantly.
If the two of you seek extra adrenaline, you can make love in front of the mirror to actually see all your moves.
I am sure only moments are dividing you from an orgasm.
He wants you to feel confident about what you like in bed
If you like kinky games, speak up. If you like soft sex, tell him about it.
The real truth is that your man wants to hear your side of the story but he is too ashamed to ask.
If you are in a long-term relationship, there shouldn’t be any shame between the two of you.
If you can’t be yourself with him in a bedroom, you can forget about your life together. As simple as that!
There is nothing as bad as a routine in a relationship. So, be spontaneous. Don’t be afraid to express your thoughts about sex.
Do something new that will spice up things in your relationship. This effort that you are doing right now will pay off eventually.
He wants change
I know how couples feel good in their skins when they are together for so long and having sex is a piece of cake for them.
There is no drama, no anxiousness, no strong heartbeating. It almost feels like you are dead, right? Guys want you to make an effort and show them who is fucking queen in the bedroom.
They want to see your desire. They want to see you craving to have them, right here, right now. Keep that in mind if you want to sweep your guy off his feet!
He sometimes wants to act like an animal
I am not saying he is going to hurt you during sex, but tearing your T-shirt can be a fun and passionate way for him to be primal.
So, if you are okay with that, let him act naughty. You can try new poses, tear each other’s clothes and have wild sex while the rest of the world is asleep.
Sometimes, he just wants to do nothing at all
Which is fine to some extent. Just remember how you acted at the beginning of your relationship.
You were a starfish, lying on your back and doing nothing. At that time, he was the one going an extra mile for your sex life to work out. It is payback time now!
See also: 7 Tell-Tale Signs You’re Good in Bed
He wants you to be dominant
Maybe he wants to play some 50 Shades of Grey kinky game. You are the dominant one and he is the submissive.
Just tell him that he can’t touch you, kiss you or lick you until you say so. Make him crazy by touching the most delicate parts of his body.
Tie his hands and blindfold him so he feels totally powerless. Be dominant and handle this situation. I am sure your guy will know how to repay you for this!
He wants it kinky
Guys are sometimes just too shy to admit to their partners that they also want to try some kinky stuff in bed. So, don’t act like you don’t know this.
When adrenaline gets high enough, do something kinky and blow his mind off. I am sure he will feel like he’s in heaven.
He wants to talk about his fantasies with you
Guys don’t talk so much about their fantasies with their partners because they are afraid it may make them seem vulnerable and weird.
If you think the two of you have a strong bond, there isn’t anything you should be ashamed of. Talk about every fantasy that you have.
Discuss things that you would like to try in bed. If you don’t say it, you will never know what he really wants in bed.
Who knows, maybe the two of you are totally the same, so it won’t be difficult to make your dreams come true! Enjoy!