Getting a man’s attention is not an easy task, especially because you are scared that he might give you the cold shoulder because he’s simply not interested.
He could ignore you completely or even worse, he could discard you in a very ugly way.
This means confidence suicide for you. This will rip your heart from your chest, make you feel undesirable and unwanted but in reality that is far from the truth.
He might just be the wrong guy for you. Him ignoring you and rejecting you doesn’t mean you are broken and unlovable.
Rejection hurts, whether it is justified or not. It hurts like hell and it wipes out your self-esteem.
But you can put an end to that. You can become a pro at winning a man’s heart.
There is something called rules of attraction and once you understand and practice it, guys will fall for you—hard.
You just have to learn a few tricks and up your game and you won’t be rejected again.
Here are some tricks to make him obsessed with you and avoid feeling unwanted and rejected:
This is the first and most important thing. If he doesn’t like you for who you are, then don’t even try to make him obsessed with you because you’ll get sick of pretending to be something you’re not and your relationship will fail, sooner or later.
You have to show him all of your sides, the good ones and the bad ones.
Well, you don’t have to shove everything bad about you right in his face but if it comes up, don’t hide it. Be honest about it.
If you stay true to yourself, you’re going to attract the right kind of men to you.
Stand up to him
Sometimes, when you think he has crossed the line, stand up to him and put a stop to his aggressiveness. Be brave and show him that no one can mess with you.
This will either scare him because he is a coward, in which case you don’t need him, or it will make him realize that you know how to stand up for yourself, which will make him respect you even more and hopelessly fall in love with you.
Shine with confidence
There is nothing sexier than seeing a woman who is bursting with confidence but just the right amount of it.
No one likes women who walk with their heads way up in the skies.
Too much confidence can hurt you. Find the middle ground. Feel good about yourself but not too good, if you know what I mean.
Try to be humble, grateful and confident at the same time. Your confidence will attract him because you will shine with a light that is invisible to you and others but somehow men who are interested in you will see it and recognize it.
Tell him you respect him
The most important thing to men is that they need to feel appreciated and respected.
He has to know that you don’t see him as unimportant but on the contrary, rather a very essential part of the community.
He needs to know you respect his job and everything he does. In today’s world, it is so easy to feel unappreciated because most of us mind our own business and focus on the things that are important to us.
So acknowledging someone’s hard work means a lot, especially to a man.
Be generous and kind
Let’s say that you two just met. Be kind to him, smile and laugh at his jokes even if they are not that funny.
Don’t come off too strong or he might get scared and run away—yes, like a lost puppy.
Believe me, guys are way more delicate than we think. At least the ones that are sane, and not the manipulative d-bags in disguise.
Anyway, pay attention to the first impression you’re going to leave because even if you fuck something up and start all over again, that first impression won’t ever go away; it will stay remembered.
Get his heart pumping
Other than getting his heart pumping with love, try to get it pumping for another reason. Give him an adrenaline boost.
Take him somewhere, make him do something exciting with you.
Most guys are daredevils and they want to test their limits, so the best way to enchant or impress him and make him see you in a completely different light is to do something crazy with him, something that will get your blood running and your heart pounding hard. You see, this is kind of a trick. It may be a bit sneaky, but shhhhh….
While he is with you doing something completely crazy, he feels excitement because of the thing he is doing but his brain feels arousal and it makes him think it’s because he is spending time with you.
That’s the trick and it should work like a charm every time.
Use body language
No one can stay cool when being seduced with body language. When you use body language, you are sending messages that are indirect but they will stay carved deep in his mind.
They roll around in his subconscious, subtly telling him that you are interested in him.
You may lean forward to him, touch him accidentally, look deep into his eyes or play with your hair in his presence.
Believe me, he’ll get the hint and once you start wandering around in his mind, you’re in.
All of these ways will help you but only if the guy you’re interested in shows any interest back.
If he really doesn’t want to have anything with you, it’s better to leave it alone.
He is not the man for you and by chasing him, you’re only wasting your time, which you could spend searching for the right one.
But if he is interested then these bulletproof ways will definitely make him obsessed with you and love you even more than before.