It’s no lie that actions speak louder than words.
And when it comes to relationships, feeling the love through your partner’s everyday actions is the most reassuring feeling of them all.
We’ve all been in situations where we just didn’t know how he truly feels.
He says he loves you, but what does he actually do to back that up? How does he show you he means it?
Saying it is too easy. It doesn’t mean it’s not the case… but love takes more than just those three coveted words.
One needs to prove it as well, otherwise it’s just empty talk.
If your man isn’t one to shout it from the rooftops, don’t worry.
Some men are more inclined to show their love with sweet romantic gestures and with the way they conduct themselves around you!
Love can be found in all those little things that he does on a regular basis, and at the end of the day, that’s what really matters.
When you feel it and you never have to wonder where you stand, you’re without a doubt with the right man.
Here are all the ways in which your man shows you how much he loves you, without actually saying the words!
1. When you talk about things that are really important to you, he makes an effort to listen and understand
Anyone can just pretend to be listening to you but really be wishing for you to be done, so they can go back to their shit.
But a real man will listen to what you have to say because he cares about the things that matter to you and he wants to help you if he is able.
He will pay attention because he wants to, not because he wants something in return later.
He cares about your emotions, and it’s not just some ploy to make him look like a good boyfriend so he can get lucky later.
2. He actually makes plans with you of his own volition
He doesn’t just wait around for you to decide where you’re going to eat that day, or to tell him what time you need to be at your work function.
He takes action, makes plans, and takes his time to make the best choice that you’ll be actually happy about.
He cares enough to show you’re not the only one thinking about these things.
He knows that a little effort goes a long way and that it takes two to tango. He’s in it all the way, and his effort to make plans is a sign of just how invested he is!
3. He’ll move his schedule around if you need him in a heartbeat
Work is important to him, but you’re more important. If something comes up and you really need him, he’ll make necessary arrangements and he’ll be there.
There won’t be any excuses, nor will he wish to make them.
He will want to be there for you and he’ll simply make it work. Anything else is out of the question.
That is love right there! He is available to you whenever you need him and he will never make you feel guilty about it. He loves you too much.
4. He wants to know every little thing that goes on in your life
You know you never bore him when you talk about Sally from work and her newest love interest or go into great detail about your project proposal that you’re so excited about.
He is genuinely interested in everything that makes you happy!
Talking to him is so good for your soul; you could literally talk to him for days on end and feel like the happiest gal on earth.
5. He is honest with you and he is true to his word, no matter what happens
He will never try and lie to you about anything. He values you too much.
He knows that by being honest, he is being the best partner he can be, and he’d never risk losing you over a stupid lie.
When he says something, you know he means it.
He’s going to come through, no matter what. It’s truly an amazing feeling and you know how lucky you are to have a guy you know you can always count on.
He’s honest, he’s genuine, and he does exactly what he says he will. No bullshit, no excuses, just raw and honest love and dedication.
6. He is your biggest cheerleader in life, pushing you towards your goals and dreams
Even if you feel like you may dream too big, he’ll encourage you to go for it.
He makes you feel like you could actually pull off stuff that you don’t really think is possible.
He knows that if you don’t try, you’ll never know and you’ll always wonder “what if.”
You know that he’ll have your back and catch you if you fall, and that makes your life so much more meaningful.
Because even if you fail, you know he’s going to be there, smiling at you and admiring you for trying your best.
Then he’ll kiss you like he means it… and the whole world will cease to exist.