I bet nobody warned you about the aftermath of losing a good girl. If someone happens to do that, they’d tell you to be smart and to pay attention to her and everything she does for you.
They’d tell you to never take her for granted because she is a one of the kind girl and you get to have her once in your lifetime.
So if you gamble that away, it’s something you’re bound to regret for the rest of your life.
But you did your thing and never listen to others anyway. Who knows what was happening in your head or what kind of reasons or excuses you came up with to make you feel better for mistreating her.
The one thing you weren’t counting on is that there is only so much a human being can endure.
You never counted on her self-love or that she’ll walk away once she gets tired of giving you all of her but never getting anything in return. You never thought you could lose her until you actually lost her.
When you take a good girl for granted, that’s exactly when you lose her.
When you don’t give her the love she deserves, when you disrespect her, when you let her efforts go unnoticed and when you let her feel alone even though she’s supposed to have you is when you lose her.
When you lose a good girl, you don’t just lose this one person, but you lose much more.
You lose all the opportunities you two could’ve been and all the things she was doing for you. And when reality finally hits you, it can get a bit overwhelming—truth be told.
When you lose a good girl you lose someone who believed in you
See, she was always there to cheer for you. She was the one who put all her faith in you and who would never let you give in.
She believed in you, she pushed you forward and she was always there to catch you when you fell.
She never let you lose faith in yourself and you could’ve been so much more with her, but you gambled that away.
When you lose a good girl you lose someone who trusted you with all of herself
She gave you all of herself. She trusted you blindly and she never thought you could betray her.
She never for a second paused or stopped to think you could actually just use her.
It’s because she always believed that people are as good as she is. But you weren’t good—at least not for her.
All you ever did was play with her emotions. And all she ever did was trust you with all of herself. This cost her too much, but she eventually managed to see you for who you are.
When you lose a good girl you lose someone who was ready to give you her unconditional love
This type of love is nothing you see on a daily basis. A good girl’s love is something different, you know. And when a good girl chooses to love you, she does it wholeheartedly.
She loves you unconditionally and without ever holding back. She was ready to do the same for you.
But she stopped herself before you got the best of her. Because she saw you aren’t worth it.
She realized you’ll only break her and you’re only going to take her love and use it but never give anything in return.
She was ready to love you unconditionally, but you never gave her the chance. You gambled it away too soon.
When you lose a good girl you no longer have someone who was always there for you
Now, when you look around, you won’t have someone you can count on day and night.
You won’t have someone who was ready to listen to you regardless of what you did to her.
You won’t have someone who would forget about her needs because she was too busy focusing on the things you needed.
Because when you lose a good girl, you simultaneously lose a girl who was always there for you when you needed her.
When you lose a good girl you no longer have someone who would never give up on you
She actually planned to stay. She wanted to be there for you and never in a million years could she picture herself giving up on you.
You know how hard she tried and she stuck by your side even when any sane person would’ve walked away long time ago.
She kept finding faith in you in places where nobody ever thought of looking. But she got tired of constantly getting broken by someone she was trying for this hard.
She got tired of being the only one who never gave up. So eventually, she gave up, too.
When you lose a good girl you lose your best friend
When you lose a good girl, you don’t only lose your lover, but your best friend as well.
You lose your buddy, your life companion and someone who you could always count on.
You know well she was the one, but you’re too proud or scared to admit it now.
It doesn’t matter because life will make you admit it at least to yourself eventually. And life will make you regret losing a good girl, too.
When you lose a good girl you eventually end up wondering was everything you lost her for worth it
After some time passes and when reality sinks in, when you lie awake at night unable to sleep you won’t be able to help yourself wondering if all of it was worth it.
If all the things you did wrong, if all the selfishness and carelessness, your dreams and goals were worth losing a girl like her.
You’ll wonder if she’s the same girl she used to be. You’ll ask if she has someone who treats her right and does all the things you didn’t do but should’ve done for her.
Your instincts will tell you to pick up the phone and call, but something will stop you from doing it.
That something will be the realization that girls like her don’t get to be alone for a long time.
You’ll realize that she won’t be waiting for her because someone else has done everything in his power to win her over and keep a girl like her.
By the time you realize what is it exactly you lost, she’ll be with someone who actually appreciates and deserves her.