When you see a girl like this, know this.
She is a girl who gives her soul. She tears it apart into millions of pieces and she gives them away.
She has so much love and understanding inside.
She’s selfless and caring. She’ll sacrifice her own happiness to make someone else happy.
But what no one knows is that she is coming to an end. She has no strength left.
She needs someone just as badly as you all need her. She is hurting and she’s wounded.
She needs someone by her side to help her heal, to help her build up the amount of love she’s giving to everyone else.
But it doesn’t happen every time. Usually, she is left alone to the mercy of this cruel world.
Usually, she finds herself picking up the pieces of her broken heart. She is trying to heal by herself.
When there’s no love or someone brave enough to love her, she looks for love in other things.
You know, it’s not easy to be that strong to love a girl who is even stronger than you. It’s not that easy to be able to carry that amount of strong emotions, that many feelings. It’s intense, it’s hard.
That’s why I am saying it’s fucking hard to find someone brave enough to love her.
That person has to be ready for when she’ll give her heart and her attention to anyone who needs it. She’ll drop everything to go and help someone who needs her help.
She’ll come home tired and torn to pieces because she has exhausted herself. She won’t be an ideal partner all the time.
Sometimes, you won’t be able to understand her. Sometimes, you’ll think that she is cold and distant.
She isn’t any of that. She is too good and she needs someone to be by her side.
She needs someone she can trust. She needs unconditional love.
She is pretty down to earth and she doesn’t spend her days dreaming of a knight on a white horse to come and save her. She wants that but she doesn’t want only that.
When unconditional love is far away, when she has no support from anyone, she distances herself. She retreats to someplace quiet, all alone with her thoughts. All alone with her feelings.
She daydreams, she feeds herself positive thoughts and energy, so she can go on. So she can continue making everyone happy.
So, in those lonely days, she puts herself back together. She convinces herself that she doesn’t need anyone to save her.
She tells herself that she is self-sufficient, that she has the strength and determination to pull through all by herself.
Those are all lies. She really needs someone.
You know, that girl needs to hear that she matters. She will comfort you and tell you that you are good enough but when she comes home, she’ll feel like crap, she’ll feel unloved.
She will comfort you and wipe the tears from your face and then when no one sees her, she’ll cry a river.
She needs someone to tell her that she is great, that she’s beautiful. She needs someone who’ll be everything to her like she is to everyone else.
If you’re like her, you have to know that you are one of only a few. You heal sad minds and broken hearts. You give your love and attention to people who need it. You’re making the world a better place.
You give purpose to their lives and you do it with such ease. You do it because you want to and because you feel it’s right. Your love is pure and selfless.
But there is one thing you need to remember. You are not almighty. You don’t have an unlimited supply of energy and you need rest.
Your heart needs time to charge back up. Remember that you are limited and sometimes you need to take a break.
You can’t save the world and you can’t carry the troubles of everyone you meet on your shoulders. You can try but it will destroy you.
It will suck you dry and you won’t have anything left to give.
Remind yourself that you are human. You don’t have to be strong all the time.
It’s okay to ask for help. You can’t and you don’t have to always do everything by yourself.