Cómo conseguir una novia: La guía más completa que existe

Not so long ago, I remember my introverted male friends having a discussion on how to get a girlfriend in GTA 5. For those of you who aren’t familiar with this, it is a video game.

So, basically, to get a girlfriend in this video game, you need to find a strip club, choose a stripper, pay for her private dances (to increase her love interest), keep flirting with her, and keep forking out cash. Then, eventually, she’ll agree to be your girlfriend.

Vaya.

Worry not… things are not that simple in real life (for the majority of regular guys, of course).

From going on a first date, making a few mistakes, and escaping the friendzone like a boss, to improving your flirting game… the process of getting a girlfriend requires a special set of skills.

Or, at least, that’s what you’ve been taught.

Hoy es el día en que todo cambia. Nos hemos reunido hoy aquí para desmontar el mito de conseguir novia pasando por sus 4 etapas (acercándose a las chicas, dating, making a move, and making it official). In addition, we’ll also talk about meeting girls online.

If this is something that might interest you, I encourage you to keep reading because I’m sure we’ll have plenty of FUN together!

¿Cómo puedo enamorar a una chica?

Here’s the uncensored truth: Todos los chicos son capaces de conseguir novia si están dispuestos a esforzarse. Permítanme que me explaye.

This means that you don’t have to look like Johnny Depp, Robert Pattinson, or Liam Hemsworth in order to seduce a girl you like.

Also, you don’t need to have a six-figure salary (in most cases) in order to win a girl. I hope you noticed my sarcastic attempts in the previous sentence.

¿Qué tienes que hacer para que una chica se enamore de ti?

Invítala a salir. Ten una cita. Mantener la conversación. Make a move on her. CLICHE ALERT: Make her feel special. And, the most important of all… be the best version of yourself.

Basically, winning a girl is not about pretending to be something you’re not, or reaching perfection. It’s about using all your potential and redirecting it into becoming the best version of yourself.

Reevaluar su perspectiva puede ser necesario

What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you see a cute or a hot girl with some ordinary guy? I bet it’s the following: Este tipo debe ser rico o extremadamente talentoso seduciendo chicas.

Seriously? Why do we have to make everything about money or some superhuman seducing skills? Why can’t a regular guy attract a good-looking female just because he CAN?

If you’re one of those guys wondering how to get a girlfriend with minimum effort, then I’m sorry to disappoint you, but you’re in the wrong place.

Here’s the truth.

Si puede catch a girl’s attention and impress her, there’s no doubt that you can win her. Getting girls is not quantum physics, even though many guys perceive it as such. I daresay that this is closely connected with their insecurities.

Desde los enamoramientos del instituto hasta las citas de adultos, algunos chicos nunca se libran de la idea de que no son lo bastante buenos para ninguna chica.

So, they give up on pursuing a girl before they even try. Beautiful women are human beings, too, so there’s no need to over idolize them.

Antes de decidirte a acercarte a una chica, tienes que reevaluar tu perspectiva, aumentar tu confianza y confiar en tus habilidades para las citas. Todo esto te ayudará a acercarte a las chicas sin miedo al rechazo.

Cómo conseguir novia: 4 etapas para convertirte en su novio

Getting a girlfriend is often easier said than done, but it’s not impossible. Following the right tips and boosting your dating skills is a must. Below, you’ll find four stages on how to get a girlfriend that consist of simple steps and lots of dating tips.

STAGE 1 – Approaching girls (the right way)

Acercarse y atraer al sexo opuesto tiene que ver con la ACTITUD. However, remember that if you fake it, you won’t make it. Focus on accentuating your trademarks, personality, self-esteem, and other things that differentiate you from the rest.

Don’t try too hard. If you want to attract women like a boss, then be playful and thoughtful. Here’s exactly what you need to do:

1. Deja de esforzarte DEMASIADO.

En serio. Este es el mayor error del que casi todos los hombres son culpables cuando se trata de hacer un movimiento en una chica. When they really like a girl or when they’re determined to get a girlfriend, they turn into a chico-que-está-listo-para-hacer-lo-que-sea-por-una-chica-que-le-guste.

I’m not saying that you should generally reduce your efforts or stop using deodorant. Instead, stop trying TOO hard (read: constantly going out of your way for a girl) because that’s neither hot nor healthy.

Si una chica te dijera que hicieras algo extremadamente estúpido por ella, ¿lo harías? Lo más probable es que lo hicieras porque te gusta.

Bueno, ten en cuenta que esto grita baja confianza en sí mismo, que es un gran turn-off y no un rasgo impresionante para tener (Créeme en esto).

Stop trying too hard, but also don’t be a careless douchebag. Instead, be classy, stand up straight, show some style, and let her know that you know what you’re doing (even if you have no idea).

2. 3. Imponga su propio estilo (añadiendo algunas marcas).

Okay. So, if you want to get a girlfriend, you need to make sure that women notice you, right? What is the best way to catch anyone’s attention? Let me help you with this one.

If your style and overall appearance give off the vibe that you’re not taking good care of yourself, or not even trying to match colors (even though this is less important), you won’t intrigue anyone.

I’m not saying that you should wear only suits 24/7 or have the perfect hairstyle even when you sleep, but you should definitely work on presenting yourself in an interesting and appealing way.

Recuerda que el objetivo es ser más atractivo para las chicas en centros comerciales, gimnasios, cafeterías o dondequiera que vayas. Tu aspecto es lo primero en lo que se fijan de ti otras posibles novias, así que causar una buena impresión es la clave a la hora de aprender cómo conquistar a una chica.

And, don’t forget the importance of trademarks. This is something that differentiates you from the rest. It could be a unique piece of jewelry, a tailor-made leather jacket, you name it. The more original, the better.

3. Acércate a ella como un jefe.

Antes de acercarte a una chica, te sugiero que repitas las siguientes frases unas cuantas veces:

“She won’t reject talking to me. She won’t make fun of me. She’s not out of my league.”

Nunca insistiré lo suficiente en la importancia de sentirse cómodo en la propia piel y tener confianza en los propios pensamientos y acciones. ¿Por qué?

Because everything starts from your mindset. If you’re wired negatively, chances are you’ll be more nervous than you usually are, and you’ll attract more negativity into your life.

Approaching girls with a positive vibe and confident body language is a surefire way to impress them. Most importantly, you’ll impress the universe to reward you with more positivity.

La confianza es uno de los rasgos más atractivos que uno puede tener, y todo se deriva de ella. You could be the hottest guy on the planet, but without confidence, you’ve got nothing. Ask any girl out there, and they’ll confirm the mentioned.

And, please do yourself a favor and avoid cliche approaches that start with an attraction killer known as “Excuse me”.

Instead, try to be more original. Start with a simple “Hi…” and accompany it with a thoughtful question in accordance with the situation you’re in.

And, yes, don’t forget to use your second strongest weapon after confidence, which is mantener un contacto visual profundo. En realidad, la confianza y el contacto visual son casi lo mismo, en mi opinión.

Consejo profesional: Tenga cuidado al utilizar frases cursis para ligar. No a todas las chicas les gustan.

4. Sé auténtico.

¿Te preguntas cómo conseguir una chica o cómo hacer que una chica se sienta atraída por ti?

Repite esto después de mí: Don’t be generic. Be genuine. Congratulations, you’ve just learned the most valuable lesson of your life (I mean dating life).

Do not ask her generic questions straight away because if you do, you’ll be classified as an ordinary, boring guy. (A lot of girls consider this as one of the biggest dating sins.)

Tú mismo sabes que puedes hacerlo mejor. Puedes decir algo como:

“Hey, I know this is totally random, but I couldn’t resist approaching you. I hope you’ll forgive me for that.”

I swear to you, with this sentence, you can catch the attention of any girl you want. Why? Because this approach is witty, playful, and thoughtful. Who wouldn’t want to be with a guy like that, right?

Esto la hará sonreír y la intrigará, que es exactamente su intención. Para ganar puntos extra, hazle un cumplido sincero sobre su bonita sonrisa, peinado, ojos o cualquier otra cosa.

Te sugiero que vayas sobre seguro y te limites a piropos ligeros pero efectivos sobre sus ojos, su estilo general y su ambiente. El siguiente paso será el arte de la provocación.

5. Mímala como es debido.

Cualquiera puede burlarse de una chica, pero no todo el mundo sabe cómo provocar a una chica de la forma correcta. La mayoría de los chicos exageran y consiguen un efecto contrario. Lo más importante es que lo hagas de forma sutil.

Don’t be too direct or arrogant. Be witty in a playful and cute way. If you notice that she’s a little bit confused, then you can add that famous “Just kidding”.

So, how will you know that you’re doing it the right way?

Watch how she reacts to your teasing. Does she look amused or like she regrets meeting you? It’s not that hard to differentiate between the two; I can tell you that.

Si le gustas a una chica tímida, she’ll laugh at all of your jokes (including the corny ones) and teasing endeavors.

Además, las bromas alivian el estrés y evitan los temidos silencios incómodos. Te ayudará a relajarte y a conectar de la forma más natural. Te sugiero que provoques a las chicas con regularidad para que te conviertas en un profesional.

6. La atención debe centrarse en ella.

I know that you’re overly concerned with presenting yourself in the best possible light, but you shouldn’t make this only about yourself.

The focus should be on her because she’s the one whom you want to impress, right? Also, when a girl really likes you, quiere que te fijes en ella.

So, what if I tell you that the less you do, the more you’ll impress her. ¿Cómo? Simplemente escuchándola.

A lot of guys don’t understand that this is a gift from God, and the easiest way to impress her is by simply doing nothing.

Míralo de esta manera. Cuando le prestas atención, tienes menos margen para cometer errores. Still, this doesn’t mean that you should only listen to her the whole time.

Talk, but talk in a wise, interesting, and entertaining way. And, add some teasing to the equation as well. And, yes, don’t forget to get her phone number or follow her on social media so that you can ask her on a date in the near future.

STAGE 2 – The dating game

Now that you have successfully approached a girl, it’s time to focus on the dating game and boost your knowledge on how to get a girl (and keep her). Of course, before going on a date, you need to ask a girl out.

Learning how to get a girlfriend is all about giving her enough reasons to desire your presence. Here’s how you’ll ask her out on a date and impress her:

1. Pídele una cita (en el momento adecuado).

Okay, so now, you have her number or you follow her on social media. Do not (ever) come to the temptation to ask her to go out on a date when it’s too soon.

¿Qué es demasiado pronto? Definitivamente, la primera vez que le mandas un mensaje o la llamas. Pedir una cita a una chica shouldn’t feel like a chore. As a matter of fact, the more you rush it, the chances are you’ll ruin it.

Girls don’t like to feel pressured to date anyone (the same thing applies to men). This should happen naturally; preferably after a few days of texting, teasing, and getting to know each other better in the virtual world.

Or, until you see that the girl is totally relaxed and she enjoys your virtual company. Making her laugh will surely help you with that. So, when that happens, it’s the right time to ask her out on a date.

Le sugiero que lo haga de las tres maneras siguientes (o de cualquier otra que le parezca interesante):

• Ask her out in person

• Ask her out via text

• Ask her out through a letter

I know. You’re probably not that fascinated with my vintage suggestion of sending her a letter to ask her out. However, if you’re anxious about doing it in person, and texting her is too basic for you, then sending her a letter is a brilliant idea.

Whichever option you choose, don’t overcomplicate it. Make it as simple as you can: “Would you like to go on a date with me? Yes or no?”

2. Las ideas creativas para las citas deben ser una prioridad.

Hooray! Let’s assume that she agreed to go on a date with you. Well, if you followed all of the steps above, why wouldn’t she, right?

So, now we have other “problems” to deal with. Una de ellas son las ideas para citas. ¿Eres fan de citas nocturnas ¿o prefiere las citas diurnas? Espera, ¿qué prefiere?

You’ll have to find out, so make sure to ask her a few questions about her dating preferences because you don’t want to disappoint her. You want her to enjoy spending time with you.

Para ayudarle, aquí tiene algunas ideas para la primera cita puedes sugerir:

• Cook together (or cook for her)

• Go hiking

• Take a walk

• Go bowling

• See a drive-in movie

• Go to the beach

• A bike ride

If you’re both indecisive, you can write a few date ideas on a piece of paper and choose one. That would be really fun.

3. Boost your ‘gentleman skills’.

Girls love feeling special (I mean, who doesn’t, right?). So, that is why you need to be a true gentleman. That’s one of the most important pieces of consejos para la primera cita, so don’t forget it.

Entiendo que conocer a una chica por primera vez puede hacerte sentir ansioso porque quieres que todo salga lo mejor posible.

Still, there’s no need to hyperventilate too soon. Instead, focus on boosting your gentleman skills. What does this mean?

Significa que debes ser cariñoso, atento y protector con ella, no sólo en la primera cita, sino siempre.. And, yes, don’t forget to felicitarla porque Dios sabe que probablemente pasó varias horas eligiendo su atuendo y maquillándose para esa cita.

No tienes ni idea de lo mucho que significa para nosotros que alguien alabe nuestros esfuerzos (todos los entrenadores de citas te lo dirán).

Now, don’t get me wrong. Being a gentleman is not only about complimenting. It’s about listening to her, opening doors for her, making her laugh to help her relax, and being thoughtful. Basically, it’s about caring about how she feels when she’s with you.

And, trust me, if you genuinely care about her, she’ll notice it.

4. Elige bien los temas de conversación.

Conversaciones en la primera cita are probably the second most important thing on first dates (after your confidence) because they are the main indicator of compatibility. Everything stems from your vibe and the way you connect (or don’t connect) with one another.

Entonces, ¿cuáles son los mejores temas para hablar en una primera cita? Podéis hablar de vuestros intereses comunes, vuestro estilo de vida, preferencias, planes de futuro, etc. Además, asegúrate de aderezarlo todo con sentido del humor.

El acento debe ponerse en expresarse de forma interesante, lo que le ayudará a no quedarse nunca sin temas de conversación. Esto incluye preguntar preguntas interesantes para la primera cita en lugar de las aburridas que la dejarán boquiabierta.

Dicho esto, aquí tienes algunas preguntas que la intrigarán y te ayudarán a mantener una conversación fluida:

¿Qué hay de interesante que deba saber sobre usted?

Si el dinero no fuera una preocupación, ¿qué haría cada día?

¿Cuál es su principal obstáculo en una relación?

Si pudiera repetir un año de su vida, ¿cuál sería y por qué?

¿Suele seguir su cabeza o su corazón a la hora de tomar decisiones?

También hay algunos temas que deberías evitar definitivamente en una primera cita:

• Bragging about your financial status

• Complaining about your job

• Politics

• Money

• Religion

• Your exes

Remember to keep things light, and don’t reveal too much information about yourself. Guárdate también algunas cosas para otra cita. Además, a las mujeres les vuelven locas los hombres que tienen esa vibración misteriosa que flota a su alrededor.

5. Coquetea con ella de forma eficaz y sutil.

Don’t make the mistake of being too pushy or too direct when it comes to flirting. El arte de seducir a las chicas should be treated as such, which means you shouldn’t rush things.

Céntrate primero en el flirteo verbal. Bromea con ella, elige palabras juguetonas, hazla sonreír. Repite esto unas cuantas veces y luego, poco a poco, pasa a la siguiente fase de flirteo, que es el flirteo físico.

Cuando se trata de este tipo de flirteo, tienes que ser lo más sutil posible (al menos al principio). Los toques sutiles son tu mejor amigo porque a las mujeres les encanta el tipo de chico que está a medio camino entre chico malo y chico bueno.

Así, puedes tocarle el hombro cuando le explicas algo, cepillarle algo del pelo y tocarle accidentalmente el cuello mientras lo haces, o puedes apartarla ligeramente de ti cuando te toma el pelo.

There are multiple moments in which you can use the power of a subtle touch, so do it wisely. If you notice that she’s reciprocating, then you know you’re doing it right. Then, you know she’s comfortable with physical contact.

However, if her response is negative, then you should pull away and perhaps try again later. Maybe she’s just shy or needs more time to relax around you.

Una cosa es segura, que ella disfrute de tu compañía es una de las mayores señales de que has acertado en tu primera cita.

STAGE 3 – Making a move

After asking her out on a date to subtly flirting with her on a date, we’ve come to the main fun part, which is making a move on a girl, a.k.a., closing the deal.

At this stage, you either go all in or you go home. Okay, there’s also something in between, and it’s called being stuck in the friendzone. So, let’s see.

1. Escapar de la friendzone (si es necesario).

Here’s some of the most valuable humble advice by a female species (me): Si ella te llama, hermanoentonces piénsatelo dos veces antes de hacer un movimiento. If you don’t trust me, you can ask your female friends about this.

Have you already been on a few dates with her and you still haven’t kissed? Do you keep texting her, but she seems hesitant to text back sometimes?

Then, I can surely confirm to you that you’ve been stuck in the most dreaded place of one-sided romance, known as the friendzone. It’s when you’re going out of your way to impress her, help her with things, and be there for her, but sadly, she sees you only as a friend.

I’ll be honest with you. Once a girl starts seeing you as her friend instead of a potential lover, chances are really low that this will change anytime soon.

Aun así, no se han perdido todas las esperanzas. Salir de la friendzone todavía es posible, pero requiere mucha paciencia. Si quieres que empiece a verte como un amante potencial, tienes que volverte desafiante y misterioso.

Lo más importante es que dejes de llamarla y enviarle mensajes de texto. Céntrate en tu propia vida, sal de tu zona de confort y conviértete en lo mejor que puedas ser.

In other words, you need to give her the opportunity to miss you. Once you do that, she’ll reconsider her decision of seeing you only as a friend.

2. Bésala de verdad.

Pero, antes de decidirte a besarla, debes asegurarte de que realmente quiere que la beses. ¿Cómo lo sabrás?

Does she keep looking at your lips or playing with her hair while giving you that “kiss me” look?

Is it evident that she’s having the time of her life with you (okay, maybe I over exaggerated it a bit, but you get the idea).

¿Se inclina cuando le hablas?

Si tu respuesta es sí, entonces estas son algunas de las principales señales de que una chica quiere que la beses. Still, don’t force it. Wait for that special moment of comfortable silence when you’re both looking deeply into each other’s eyes and slowly leaning toward one another.

When that happens, kiss her like you really mean it (and, I really mean it). Don’t do it just for the sake of doing it. Express your ultimate affection in that first kiss and every single one after it.

3. Don’t force another date.

¿Eres uno de esos tipos que tienen el impulso incontrolable de repetir después de cada primera cita lo siguiente: “I want to see you again.” What’s actually wrong with this sentence?

It’s undertone. It’s like saying to a girl: “Hey, I want to see you again. I don’t ask you whether you want to see me.”

Una alternativa mejor sería algo más neutral como: “I really enjoyed the time spent with you, and I think we should do this again sometime.”

Después de eso, esperas a que diga algo como: “Yeah, I really enjoyed it, too, and I can’t wait to make more memories with you.”

Remember that there’s a fine line between a nice guy who is trying to get another date and a guy who is indirectly forcing a girl to go on another date with him.

Be the former type of guy and you’ll keep her interested. Actually, do you know what’s the best of all? It’s the last part of your sentence; “we should do this again sometime”. This indicates that you’re not quite sure when this will happen, and also you’re casual about it.

Esto es exactamente lo que toda chica necesita oír porque te hará parecer un reto. Mantendrá la emoción de la persecución y su interés en ir a una segunda cita o cualquier otra cita contigo.

Esto se llama psicología inversa, y funciona siempre.

4. Mantén la emoción entre una cita y otra.

By keeping things exciting between dates, I don’t mean texting her every second to send her funny memes or corny jokes. Instead, you should choose a more subtle method that is always more effective.

Don’t share every single second of your life with her, but make her curious. Don’t text her all the time, but allow her to miss you first. Be busy sometimes, but don’t forget to text her back later.

Encuentra el equilibrio entre hacerte el duro y estar a su lado. I know it’s easier said than done, but I’m sure you can do it. I believe in you, so there’s no need to doubt yourself.

Here’s another worthy piece of consejos sobre citas: Don’t rush with preguntas sucias and other “spicy tools”. Espera al momento adecuado para lanzarte al sexting. Lo mejor es dejar que ocurra de forma natural.

You don’t want to be one of those guys who are only interested in hooking up with her. You’re here to learn how to get a girlfriend, so there’s no need to ruin your future meet-ups with impulsive decisions.

Just listen to your intuition and you’ll definitely know when the right time to do certain things is because our guts never lie.

STAGE 4 – Making it official

So, you’ve been dating for some time now, and you’re finally ready to make things official. You want to call her your girlfriend, and you want to be her boyfriend.

Perhaps you already introduced her to your friends, but you still haven’t had the talk about your relationship status. Here are a few things to pay attention to at this stage.

1. Don’t force a relationship.

Don’t make the same mistake as half of your fellow male species have. Don’t force a relationship with the girl of your dreams only for the sake of reassuring yourself that she’s yours. Don’t rush with those apodos adorables para una novia porque podrías alejarla.

First, you need to make sure that you’re on the same page. Does she want to be in a relationship? Have you ever talked about it in the first place?

If yes, then you can slowly start making things official and feel free to act as a legit couple. You’re free to Netflix and chill with your new girlfriend for the rest of your life without feeling guilty about it.

¡Es broma! Es algo a lo que debes prestar especial atención. Evita caer en la trampa de la rutina porque, si lo haces, tardarás algún tiempo en salir de ella.

2. Deja que fluya (y sigue ganándola).

Don’t overthink things… give her space, be independent, be available (but not too available)… and the list goes on and on. No, you won’t need to memorize all those dating rules and relationship advice by heart in order to get a girl and keep her. I say: Let it flow.

Keep going on fun dates, and keep winning her. Just because you’re a couple now, this doesn’t mean that you should stop trying to impress her.

That’s another mistake many guys make. Si quieres conservarla, sigue luchando por ella. La parte de aprender a conseguir novia es también aprender a conservarla.

RELACIONADO: 9 señales de que te está poniendo a prueba para decidir si eres un buen novio

¿Cómo encontrar novia?

Basically, you can find a girlfriend anywhere in real life, of course. From grocery stores, coffee shops, and museums, to parks… every place is an opportunity to meet someone new.

For example, if you’re going to the gym, you’ll meet girls who also value physical activity and a healthy lifestyle. Sharing similar interests is always a plus when it comes to compatibility.

Furthermore, you can always meet girls online, and below, you’ll find valuable tips on how to get a girl in the virtual world.

Cómo conseguir novia en Internet

¿Te preguntas cómo conseguir una chica online, por ejemplo, en Tinder u otras aplicaciones y sitios de citas? Claro que sí, porque conocer gente online es la forma más fácil de ENCONTRAR una chica.

Still, this doesn’t mean that it’s the easiest way to WIN a girl (but, you can always try). Here’s how you can meet girls online, and a few things you need to pay attention to:

1. Únete a sitios de citas en línea, sitios de intereses especiales o sitios de juegos en línea.

Seguro que hay más tipos de sitios de citas, así que asegúrate de investigar. Aun así, la forma más popular de conocer a posibles parejas online es a través de sitios de citas en línea como Tinder, OkCupid y similares.

Lugares de interés especial are also a great way to meet people who are interested in the same things as you (hobbies, sports, TV series, music) and so on. If you’re looking for a girl who shares your passions, then this is the best way to meet her.

If you’re a gamer, sitios de juegos en línea are your savior. Talk to other players, ask them if you could add them on social media, and voilà, you have a potential date.

Y, sí, siempre puedes encontrar chicas en redes sociales como Facebook o Instagram.

2. Haz que tu perfil de citas (o redes sociales) destaque sobre los demás.

En el mundo de las citas online (y en las redes sociales), lo primero en lo que se fija la gente es en tu perfil. Así que la primera impresión depende en gran medida de cómo te presentes en tu perfil.

Por supuesto, querrás acentuar las cosas positivas de tu estilo de vida y tu personalidad. Quieres que tu perfil sea auténtico, INTERESANTE y divertido.

A sense of humor is more than welcome because a girl needs to know that she’ll have plenty of fun texting you. Don’t forget to highlight one thing; that you’re looking for a relationship.

De ese modo, las chicas te tomarán en serio y sabrán cuáles son tus intenciones en cuanto a citas. Además, asegúrate de utilizar las mejores fotos tuyas.

If you have photos of yourself where you’re doing fun things (visiting interesting places), then stick to those. Si quieres impresionar a las chicas, no te olvides de hacerte buenos selfies.

Tu perfil debe reflejar lo esencial de tu personalidad, que puedes expresar a través de tu forma de vestir, tus actividades, aficiones y similares.

3. Read a girl’s profile before sliding into her DMs.

So, once you find a girl whom you would want to approach online, make sure to “get to know her first”. There are so many things you can learn simply by observing her profile.

Presta atención a sus gustos/disgustos, su forma de expresarse, su estilo de vida y otras cosas que resumen su personalidad en general. Puede sonar hilarante, pero esto te ayudará a idear una estrategia antes de enviarle un mensaje de texto.

If she has visited the same place as you, this is the perfect conversation topic for the two of you. Or, if you notice that she’s a shy girl, you shouldn’t be too direct. Instead, give her a few days to accept you as her new online friend (and potentially something more).

As you’re reading her profile, don’t forget to complementar su foto, but please don’t write something like: “Beautiful”. Instead, be more authentic and pay attention to details.

4. Impresiónala con tu original planteamiento.

Don’t be one of those guys who can’t think of anything more original than saying “Hi”. If you ask me, this is the biggest online crime you can commit in online dating.

Sea más específico y único cuando se trate de temas de conversación. Siempre puedes hacer un comentario ingenioso sobre algo relacionado con ella, o hacerle una pregunta reflexiva que la haga pensar.

Céntrate en impresionarla con tu enfoque único y tu sentido del humor. Don’t type the first thing that comes to your mind, but make an effort to make it sound fun and inviting.

No one wants to hang out with a person who isn’t even trying to make things interesting in the texting world. Also, don’t forget to aderézalo todo con emojis coquetos ¡porque a las chicas les ENCANTAN!

Aportan esa sensación hogareña a cada conversación y también tienen el poder de potenciar la coquetería de tus textos. Todo depende del contexto en el que los utilices.

5. Evalúa sus señales de mensajes de texto.

I strongly suggest evaluating a girl’s texting signs before asking her out. Why? Because girls will literally let you know if they’re interested via their first text.

They won’t tell you directly, but there will be some mensajes de texto señales de que le gustascomo las siguientes:

• Replying immediately

• Sending you novel-length texts

• Sending lots of emojis

• Expressing herself in an interesting way

Si notas algunas o todas estas señales en sus patrones de envío de mensajes de texto, entonces tienes luz verde para llevar las cosas a otro nivel.

And, worry not… invitar a salir a una chica por SMS no es tan difícil como parece, sobre todo si sabes que le gustas de verdad y querrá conocerte mejor en persona.

Here’s one cute and fun way to ask a girl out over text: “I’ve been gathering courage for some time to ask you on a date, so I’d be grateful if you could be so kind as to put me out of my misery.”

6. Keep up the effort and don’t give up.

I know. The virtual world can be cruel at times, and success in dating is not guaranteed. However, this doesn’t mean you should pull away instantly after a bad experience.

Ten en cuenta que la chica adecuada (tu alma gemela potencial) también te está buscando a ti. Así que lo único que tienes que hacer es seguir buscándola.

“Only the absolutely determined people succeed.” – Audrey Hepburn

Sometimes, you’ll meet a girl who will seem unrealistically awesome on dating profiles and online conversations, but when meeting her, you might go home disappointed. That is why you need to lower your expectations when you start dating.

Nunca se puede saber el resultado de conocer a alguien por Internet, pero siempre se le puede dar una oportunidad. La determinación y la paciencia son más que deseables cuando se trata de todo esto.

¿Cómo hacer feliz a una novia?

Ser un buen novio se trata de querer hacerla feliz. If you want to make her smile, you’ll find a way to do it. If you want her to trust you, you’ll never make her doubt your words or actions.

Las relaciones no consisten en unas reglas impuestas que las parejas siguen ciegamente y viven felices para siempre. You’re bound to experience constant ups and downs, but what matters is your willingness to fight for your relationship.

Así que, déjate llevar y disfruta de cada segundo de tu nuevo capítulo vital con tu novia. Disfruta de todos esos momentos románticos cogidos de la mano, enviándole cuentos románticos para dormirhaciendo cosas por primera vez juntos, y muchas risas.

Always be on the lookout for new ways to make her feel special and strengthen your bond. Also, don’t forget to ask her to join your group of friends and close people. If you want to haz feliz a tu noviaentonces hazla parte de tu vida.

¿Cómo se consigue una novia?

Es la pregunta, “How to get a girlfriend?” ¿todavía en tu mente? Entonces, te aconsejo que lo leas todo una vez más. Vale, ha sido una broma floja.

Here’s what I wanted to say, actually: Don’t wonder, but start doing. Don’t overthink, but think positively.

Don’t be overly self-critical when it comes to meeting new girls. Your vibe greatly depends on how you feel about yourself. The truth is, you don’t even have to say anything to a girl because your vibe is the biggest indicator of your personality.

Bueno, cuando se trata del mundo virtual, tu perfil se parece a tu onda, así que asegúrate de presentarte de la mejor manera posible.

Y, recuerda: “If you can hacer reír a una chica, you can make her do anything.” – Marilyn Monroe