25 señales de que tu ex está esperando a que vuelvas
Siempre queremos que nuestros ex nos quieran de vuelta.
If you’ve been reminiscing about those parts of your relationship that worked and you’re wondering why it was again that you broke up in the first place, discovering señales de que tu ex te está esperando must be what you’re hoping for.
Sometimes it’s just our ego that needs to know they’re in pain and that we’re the best they ever had.
So us wanting them is irrelevant, but them still thinking about us… that’s sure as hell good news!
1. Se mantiene en contacto
One of the biggest signs that your ex wants you back is if they stay in touch after your breakup. Even if they don’t want to admit it right now or they need time to think, if your ex doesn’t care about the no contact rule, they’re not trying to get over you.
If your ex can’t resist calling or texting you and they always have something to tell you, it’s clear that they still consider you a part of their life and want you in it. This is an obvious sign that they don’t see your breakup as final.
2. Te sigue en las redes sociales
When your ex is following you on social media, they either want to keep up to date with your life because they still care or because they want to make sure you haven’t moved on yet. Tratando de llamar su atención sobre redes sociales es una forma de establecer contacto que de otro modo sería imposible, por ejemplo, si bloquearas su teléfono.
Your ex would have unfollowed you if they didn’t want anything to do with you. Unless they’re a very petty person who is checking what you – their ex – is doing to make sure you’re not ‘winning the breakup,’ it’s a sign that they’re not ready to let you go.
3. Siempre está disponible cuando necesitas algo
A clear sign that your ex still has feelings for you is if they’re available when you ask for something. When you reach out because you need help or a favor or if you’re used to having them around in certain situations, and they always say yes, quieren formar parte de tu vida.
If you were together for a long time, you learned to rely on each other. Still, even if it seems like it’s just a habit from the past, if they didn’t want to show you that you can still lean on them, they wouldn’t answer when you needed them.
4. Te busca cuando necesitan algo
La inversión del punto anterior es otra buena señal: if it’s you your ex reaches out to when they need something, it shows you that they think of you as someone who has a place in their life.
Incluso si te distanciaste inmediatamente después de romper, esto podría ser una señal de que tu ex vuelve a interesarse y quiere acercarse. Ser abierto acerca de la necesidad de que es la forma en que su ex le está dejando saber lo importante que eres para ellos.
5. Habla de ti y sólo tiene cosas buenas que decir
When your mutual friends or your ex’s friends can’t help but mention the good things your ex keeps saying about you, your breakup isn’t final.
Algunas rupturas son amistosas y otras terminan en amargura, pero siempre acaban con un cambio de perspectiva sobre la persona que una vez fue importante para ti.
En una relación, miras a tu pareja a través de la lente del amor; después de romper, la ves a través de la lente del fracaso, angustia, o indiferencia.
If your ex still sees you as if you were in a relationship and never becomes disillusioned, it’s clear they still want you. Even the kindest person doesn’t feel like praising an ex to others if they don’t want them around any longer.
6. Admite que te echan de menos
How do you know your ex still wants you? They’ll find a way to tell you. Even if they’re still not ready to try again, when su ex misses usted, they won’t be able to hide it.
They might text you something romantic, then pretend nothing happened. They might not say it to you directly, but they’ll mention it to other people. They might want you to know, but they don’t have the courage to tell you, so they make sure you find out somehow.
Si su ex misses you and wants you back, you’ll hear about it one way or another.
7. He isn’t dating anyone
They might have gone through a rebound relationship or haven’t dated anyone at all since you broke up, but either way, cuando tu ex decida que quiere volver contigo, perderá el interés en nuevas relaciones.
If they break up with someone they were seeing while showing more signs from this list, it’s an especially good sign that they want you back and are planning to do something about it.
8. Intenta darte celos
Así que habéis roto y habéis decidido ser sólo amigos, pero tu ex lo está llevando demasiado lejos.
They’re flaunting other people’s interest, making sure you know that they could have someone else. Maybe they’re dating someone, but they always bring this person somewhere you or your friends show up.
Este comportamiento suele significar que tu ex te está poniendo a prueba or that they’re trying to make you jealous. They would keep things private if they didn’t care about your reaction.
9. Le interesa tu vida amorosa
A veces, tras una mala ruptura, la gente intenta calmar su dolor asegurándose de que lo tiene mejor que su ex. Por otro lado, si a tu ex le interesan todos los detalles de tu amar la vidapuede ser algo más que competitividad.
If they can’t help but keep asking about who you’re dating, since when, how close you are, and whatever else comes to their mind, they’re waiting for you to break up. If your new partner becomes your ex’s most hated person, it’s a clear sign tu ex quiere que vuelvas.
10. He ‘accidentally’ bumps into you
You feel like you’re seeing your ex as often as when you were together because they keep showing up wherever you are. It’s not by accident, of course – tu ex aparece donde estás porque quiere verte.
Tu ex sabe dónde te gusta comer y dónde te gusta salir. Conoce tu rutina y sabe cuándo esperarte en algún sitio. If they wanted to avoid you, as everyone who’s done with their ex would, they’d know exactly what places to stay away from.
11. Se mantiene en contacto con tus amigos
If your mutual friends haven’t picked sides after you broke up and your ex is in touch with them, they’re not trying to cut ties with you.
When you’re done with your ex, being friends with the same people they are is the last thing you want – all you want is for them to be as far away from you as possible. Hanging out with mutual friends without trying to convince them to choose your side only makes sense for someone who’s interested in keeping their ex in their life.
12. Sigue preguntando por ti
Uno de los señales de que tu ex se siente desgraciado sin ti is when they can’t help but ask everyone who’s in touch with you about what you’ve been up to, how you are, and, of course, if you’re dating anyone.
Interesarse abiertamente por ti es una buena señal que su ex te quiere de vuelta because it means that they’re not hiding that they still care about you.
13. Nunca te devolvió tus cosas
Your ex might not have returned your stuff either because they threw it out or they’re hoping you’ll use it again. You’d know if your ex was hostile and wanted to be rid of you, so guardar tus cosas por si acaso vuelves es una buena señal que quieren un segunda oportunidad.
14. Pone excusas para verte
Una de las señales más evidentes de que tu ex está esperando que vuelvas es si constantemente pone excusas para quedar, venir o salir contigo. They might not be ready to admit it yet, but if your ex wants you in their life, they’ll try to make you a part of it any way they know how.
Si desea recuperar a tu ex and you’ve noticed many of these signs in their behavior, don’t be afraid to make a move because they want the same thing.
15. Coquetea contigo
A veces, los ex coquetean por costumbre o porque aún hay sentimientos entre ellos. If your ex is still into you and wants you back, they’ll flirt to give you a sign of interest.
Flirting between exes who are still interested in each other isn’t much different than flirting between people who have never been together but feel powerful attraction towards each other. If you’re interested in them, too, accept their flirting and have fun.
16. Te manda mensajes borracho
Una de las señales clásicas de que tu ex no te ha superado es si dial de borrachos you or send you impulsive text messages when they’ve had too much to drink. This happens when your ex thinks about you a lot but doesn’t have the courage to contact you when sober.
As their inhibitions disappear, drink after drink, they’ll become more and more daring and decide to tell it like it is. Drunk texts might not reflect their true feelings but an exaggeration of them.
Aún así the fact that they feel the need to contact you when they drink is a sign that there’s still something going on between you.
17. Responde inmediatamente cuando te pones en contacto con ellos
Los mensajes de texto en las citas y las relaciones dicen mucho de cómo te sientes. Hacer esperar a alguien para parecer guay o contar el número de mensajes que envía cada uno son algunos de los juegos a los que a la gente le gusta jugar para controlar el poder en la relación.
If you text your ex and they reply right away, they don’t care about keeping their cool. They want you to know that they pay attention to you and that they don’t want to keep you waiting. This is a great sign that your ex wants you back.
18. Habla de los viejos tiempos
There’s still something between you and your ex if you like recalling happy memories together, such as your first date, the first trip you took together, or that one time when you did something that was only funny to the two of you.
¿Por qué pasarían tiempo juntos si no hubiera nada entre ustedes? Si usted aún te sientes unido a tu ex, be careful that you’re not only hanging on to the past but that you can imagine a future with them.
Unless they’ve shown you they’re working on changing, don’t forget the bad things that happened when you were together, either. You want to be sure that your relationship will be different this time before giving them your heart once again.
19. Habla de lo que podría haber sido
El mero hecho de que mantengas conversaciones con tu ex dice mucho de vuestra relación. Los ex que han terminado sólo se ponen en contacto si es necesario. If you’re having deep conversations, there’s still a bond between you.
Si tu ruptura se produjo por las circunstancias, puede que sientan que tienen que alejarse de un ser querido, so it’s no wonder they feel like this.
Talking about how your relationship might have moved forward had you stayed together shows that your ex isn’t trying to forget your relationship. Instead, se preguntan qué habría pasado si hubierais seguido juntos porque creen que teníais algo especial.
20. Parece realmente arrepentido
Your ex wants you back if they’re not afraid of showing you that they lamentar perderte.
Disculparse por su comportamiento y tratar de compensarte, hablar de lo que aprecia de ti y desvivirse por compensarte son algunas de las señales de que tu ex se arrepiente de las cosas.
They might want to repair the relationship between you so that you can stay friends, but it’s much more likely that they want you to take them back.
21. Está trabajando para mejorar
If your ex is serious about your relationship and wants to fix things, when they decide to pursue you again, you’ll notice that they’ve become a better person than they used to be.
This is a great sign that they mean it and that they’re making an effort to do better this time around. Trabajar en tu propia salud mental, tus logros y tus habilidades para relacionarte es de gran importancia cuando quieres estar en una relación sana, y tu ex lo está haciendo.
On the other hand, this also might be a sign that they’ve decided to move on, in which case you must supéralos para siempre. You’ll know for sure if you observe their behavior for other signs and decide whether they’re waiting for you to come back or trying to get back in the game.
22. Asume la responsabilidad
Asumir su parte de responsabilidad en los problemas de tu relación anterior y comprometerse a cambiar es un signo de crecimiento personal, pero también demuestra que quiere que vuelvas con él.
If they did something to hurt you that led to your breakup, they know you won’t take them back unless they fix their mistake. Even if your relationship ended because things simply stopped working, an ex who wants you will know where they went wrong.
Asumir la responsabilidad y hacer todo lo posible para no repetir los mismos errores es un signo inequívoco de interés.
23. Está trabajando en sus asuntos
¿Qué hace falta para entablar una relación con alguien por segunda vez? La convicción de que esta vez las cosas irán mejor. The only way your ex can make you believe this is if they choose to deal with their issues and show you that they’re interested in trying again.
This is especially important if it was their issues that caused your breakup. If your ex is doing all they can to fix what didn’t work on their part, such as talking to a therapist or a relationship coach, they’re letting you know that they want you back.
La determinación de hacerlo mejor es un buena señal that they’re willing to change for you.
24. Se esfuerza por estar cerca
Cuando tu ex te quiere de verdad, incluso después de todo lo que pasó, they’ll do everything they can to be close to you, even if you can’t be in a relationship together. Someone who genuinely loves you will be content with being your friend if that’s the only way to be around you.
El periodo posterior a la ruptura es difícil: ambos pensáis en vuestros errores y en lo que podríais haber hecho de otra manera. If they still keep in touch, find a way to see you, and show you that they think of you, it’s a signo seguro que tu ex te necesita en su vida.
25. Se muestra abierto a volver contigo
Si tu ex te dice sin rodeos que aún te quiere, tienes que tomar una decisión.
Las relaciones terminan por problemas entre las personas implicadas o por razones externas sobre las que no tienes control. La razón por la que rompisteis juega un gran papel a la hora de decidir si debes o no recuperar a tu ex.
Maybe you broke up but didn’t want to: issues such as the inability to maintain a long distance relationship or family problems can lead to the end of a serious relationship that would otherwise be successful.
En este caso, if those reasons don’t exist any longer and you still have feelings for each other, getting back together could make you happy.
Tu corazón está en juego, así que ten mucho cuidado.
