1. It is okay to fall but you need to stand up as well
Throughout your life, you will be confronted with so many decisions and some of them won’t be the best ones for you. But even if you fall down and even if everything you have been working for falls apart, you need to learn to stand up, dust yourself off and move on. Life isn’t about how many times you fall but about how many times you stand up with your head held high.
2. People will disappoint you but you have to live with it
You will meet people of different profiles during your lifetime and some of them will only want to take advantage of you. Some of them will be toxic while pretending they are your best friend. And they will show you what it means to suffer and to never want to trust anyone again. But whatever you do, don’t close your heart. Just because one person hurt you doesn’t mean others will do that as well. Always keep your heart clean and pure—it is for your own sake.
3. Love hurts but it is up to you if you will accept it
You will meet guys who will only want to take advantage of you, pretending that they love you. And I know you will fall in love with them because they will be masters of manipulation. But what you need to remember is that once they hurt you, you can’t just give up. You have so much to offer so don’t build walls around your heart because you never know when the right one will come along. Don’t close your heart but make sure that you open your eyes.
4. You are perfect just the way you are
Just because some immature jerk told you that you are not beautiful or hot enough doesn’t mean that it is true. You are beautiful and unique just the way you are and if someone can’t cherish you because of what you have to offer, you don’t need them in your life. Focus on your life, your happiness, and your peace. Respect yourself so others could respect you and never, ever settle for less than you deserve.
5. Life is short so live every day like it is the last one
Don’t save your new dress for a special occasion because every new day in which you open your eyes is special enough. Don’t plan life in advance because you never know what God’s plan with you is. Live your life to the fullest and don’t let anyone hold you back. Don’t be like those women who, once they get older, regret not living the life they wanted. Do whatever makes you happy but make sure that you don’t hurt anyone in that process.
6. Don’t let a man take away your independence
It is nice to rely on a man in your life but always show him that you are good on your own and that you don’t need him to complete you. You are already complete, a totally designed force and you don’t need anyone to tell you that you are worthy or enough. You know it already so don’t put your head low because of a man. Don’t satisfy him just because you are scared he will leave. If he does leave it means he is not the right one. Instead, be happy because the right one is on his way to you.
7. You are in charge of your happiness
There isn’t a person in this world who can make you happy because you are responsible for your happiness. If you feel good in your own skin, people will recognize that and you will attract only the good things to your life. And even if things are not like you wanted them to be, don’t cry. Because if you cry, nothing will change. You will just have an ugly image of yourself. Instead, get up and fight for what belongs to you and if you want happiness, create it. You don’t even know what power lies inside of you.
8. Always listen to your gut
Women are blessed to have what is the so-called sixth sense and you should use it as much as you can. If you believe that something is correct and others don’t agree with you, listen to yourself. Because if you don’t try your way, you will never know whether it was the right choice or not. Listen to your heart and your conscience because they never fail you. And they never will.
9. Always have faith
You will be confronted with so many problems in your life but you need to have faith that things will be good in the end. Because if they are not good, it is not the end. Don’t sweat the small stuff and don’t cry over your sad destiny because that won’t change anything. Be a warrior in every situation and believe that if you do good things, it will pay off eventually. Listen to what others have to say but always make your own decisions. At least you will know that you messed up on your own.
10. Be responsible for your actions
You will make a lot of bad decisions in your life but the thing is that you need to stand behind every one of them. If you messed up something, don’t let others pay for that. Correct the situation the best way you can and always be responsible for the things you do. You wouldn’t like it if others passed their problems onto you so don’t do the same to them. Be strong and admit if you made a mistake but also do your best to save what can be saved.
I started writing just as a hobby, but in the end, I decided that it is something that fulfills me. I find inspiration in life’s everyday problems and every article that I write tells something about my past. In this way, I want to tell women all around the world that even though we are miles away, our pain makes us close. My articles were written to comfort those who need it the most and to tell them that they are not alone. I am a full-time mom, and I like spending time with my son, good people, sunny days and beer.