Come amare una ragazza distrutta e come lei vi amerà a sua volta

Amare una ragazza distrutta sarà difficile. I don’t want to lie to you.

Loving her, in fact, will be the hardest thing there is. It will require a lot of effort and many times you’ll wonder if it’s even worth it.

The beautiful part about loving a broken-hearted girl is that only those who think it’s worth it get to see a butterfly born from the cocoon.

Solo chi rimane abbastanza a lungo, riesce a vedere la bellezza che si cela dietro l'amore. una ragazza distrutta.

Amare una ragazza distrutta sarà pieno di insicurezze e dubbi.anche, ma non solo, da parte vostra.

She’ll have a hard time believing you’ll stay.

She’ll have a hard time trusting you because her past made her insecure; because her past made her doubt every single thing there is.

Ha un cuore fragile, il cuore di una bambina, insicuro e innocente come un fiore delicato.

The easiest thing you could do right now is break her. She’d snap like a twig, aching silently…in peace…all alone.

Even if you say you’ll stay, even when you promise you’ll be different, even though you do your best to hug and kiss out each and every doubt she has from her bones, there will always be a small dose of fear that you might turn out to be the same as the person that broke her.

Un tempo bellissima dimostrazione di una donna forte, ora si è trasformata in una ragazza timida e spaventata.

Il dolore cambia le persone e questo l'ha certamente cambiata nel profondo.

Doubt will be haunting her, and she’ll fight it, but there will be days when she won’t be able to be brave anymore, and even though you do make her happy, she’ll end up lying on her bedroom floor, crying her soul out because of the fear she feels.

Nessuno potrà mai capirlo, ma il suo mondo è un mondo crudele e freddo in cui vivere.

Few are those who could find the courage to live with and survive the emotional pain she’s feeling every minute of every hour of every day.

Sometimes, when you’re with her, she won’t be able to give you all she has. Sometimes, she’ll fail to be the best version of herself.

A volte she won’t be able to take it anymore . Sometimes, she’ll forget to smile. Sometimes, she will want to be alone. And then you’ll know what’s she thinking about.

You’ll try to fix her. Ma come riparare una ragazza distrutta? È possibile?

You’ll try to make her do things that she isn’t sure she wants, thinking you’re helping.

You’ll try to make her be another version of herself, and you’ll do your best to fix what broke her.

Don’t. That won’t help. You’ll only push her away. You can’t fix her—only she can do that.

È l'unica che può prendere la sua fragile vita e ricostruirla dalle ceneri per diventare più forte che mai.

Instead of wasting your energy on fixing her, why don’t you try and love her? Use your words to make her believe you’re staying.

Then turn your words into actions, and actually show her you’re staying.

Show her you love her. Give her more than words. Give her hope. Give her hope in tomorrow. Give her hope that one day, she’ll be complete again.

Fatele credere che le sue cicatrici svaniranno. E quando fai tutto questo,   don’t let her go.

Make her a part of the story of your life—a story with a happy ending for the both of you, especially her.

Se le dimostrate che vi fidate di lei e se le date spazio per fidarsi a sua volta, vi amerà come nessuno vi ha mai amato prima. Vi amerà in modo diverso.

Sa cosa si merita.

Despite everything she’s been through, she is still a ragazza romantica in profondità.

And although she’s still a bit scared to sail on the sea of love, she will try once again because she’s not a quitter.

Solo che questa volta i suoi occhi saranno spalancati e tutti i suoi sensi saranno pronti a percepire il pericolo.

At the first sign of possible heartbreak, she will be out! This time, this lucky broken girl knows how much she’s worth.

This time, she’s aware of how strong she is.

She won’t allow tears of pain to touch her face anymore. She won’t cry because she’s helpless, alone, and hurt!

Non può che piangere di felicità e di orgoglio. È riuscita ad alzarsi, a raccogliere i pezzi della sua vita distrutta e ad andare avanti. Non aveva mai pensato di poterlo fare.

If you want her to love her, you’ll have to respect her strength and her stubbornness. She was once burnt because she trusted someone.

She has lost her strength because she gave herself to someone else. Don’t expect her to do the same this time, too.

È guardinga.

Her shields are up all the time because she’s not quite sure what to feel. She can hold you up one moment and move you away from her the other.

She only does this because she’s scared you’ll hurt her, so she tries to jump ahead of you by ‘removing’ you from her life before something bad happens to her.

She’s not lying about why she does it. She is very honest when it comes to her feelings and her reasons.

She is keeping her guard up for one simple reason—she’s been hurt like hell before and she’s not hiding it.

Combatte le sue battaglie.

Honestly, it’s pretty challenging to keep up with her. It’s challenging to understand her all of the time. But, it’s all worth her love.

She isn’t needy, and she’s not annoying.

Al contrario, non vi disturberà mai con i suoi problemi perché combatte le sue battaglie da sola.

Sometimes her independence will bother you because she will keep everything to herself. You’ll have to drag everything out of her because she won’t say it to you all by herself.

When she’s hurting, she backs down.

Maybe her hurting has nothing to do with you, so don’t make a big deal out of it.

Don’t pressure her into confessing what is wrong with her, never get her in that situation because you’re only going to make things worse.

Quando si oscura e si ritira, bisogna fare attenzione. In queste situazioni, La pazienza è la chiave .

Lasciatela stare. Lasciatela piangere quelle lacrime che stanno uscendo a forza.

Don’t let her keep her pain inside her, and don’t force her to open up to you. She will do that all by herself. There is no need for you to pressure her into doing anything.

Non ti lascerà mai andare.

She has found love in you after a devastating heartbreak. Do you really think she’s going to give up on you at the first sign of trouble?

She would never do that because you already know she’s a fighter, and she doesn’t give up.

Farà tutto il possibile per trattenervi, ma potreste leggere le sue intenzioni nel modo sbagliato.

È diversa da chiunque vi abbia amato finora. Fa le cose in modo diverso e ama in modo diverso.

Maybe you won’t recognize her fighting for you in the beginning, but believe me, she is.

Non rinuncerà mai all'amore.

She will always have faith in love. Whether she’s left with just a few pieces of her broken heart, she will use them to love someone again.

She will be scared, she will be terrified to the bone, but she will go for it anyway. It’s because she has faith and she believes. She will never stop believing.

Rimanete abbastanza a lungo per vedere il bozzolo trasformarsi in una bellissima farfalla. Rimanete abbastanza a lungo per vedere la bellezza che c'è dietro l'amore per una ragazza distrutta.

Perché ogni donna ha un'enorme bellezza, ma quelle distrutte nascondono la loro bellezza.