A tutte le donne che pensavano di essere già sposate

Do you feel disappointed that your life isn’t going the way you planned? Did you always imagine that you’d be a happy wife at this point in your life?

Do you constantly feel like you’re missing something because you’re still single? You’re probably losing faith in true love, but at the same time, you’re afraid to grow old alone, right?

Believe me, I’m not trying to indulge you right now, but I feel obligated to point out how wrong you truly are.

You’re only wasting the precious time of being single. Because, trust me, one day, you’ll have regrets and long for these days of your single life.

I know that you’ve dreamed about your wedding ever since you were a little girl, just like we all did.

You dreamed about saying ‘yes’ to your anima gemella indossando un bellissimo abito bianco.

Don’t worry. You won’t disappoint that little girl because there’s still time to do that. One day, you’ll have the wedding of your dreams, and you’ll be the happiest bride alive. But, until then…

Godetevi la vita al massimo

Questo è un periodo bellissimo della vostra vita e dovete approfittarne ogni secondo. Godetevi appieno la vostra condizione di single.

Usate questo tempo per fare la maggior parte delle cose che avete nella vostra lista di cose da fare. Lavorate per raggiungere i vostri obiettivi e realizzare i vostri sogni. Costruite una vita per voi stessi.

Visitare nuovi luoghi, scoprire nuove culture e incontrare nuove persone. Come diceva sempre mia nonna, “use this time of your life wisely because you’ll never be younger than you are now.”

Ricordate che le cose belle arrivano a chi aspetta

Don’t think that God has forgotten you. He’s with you always, and He has something planned for you that is far better than what you dreamed of.

You just need to be patient. Don’t lose faith in love, or even worse, don’t lose faith in Him. He knows all of your wishes and your soul’s desires, and He’ll make all of them come true.

Being single doesn’t mean you’re alone

You’re single, but you aren’t solo. Molte persone vi amano e si preoccupano per voi. Queste persone sono quelle che contano di più.

So che a volte vi sentite soli, ma il fatto è che lo siamo tutti. Sì, anche le persone sposate si sentono sole a volte.

But you still have people who truly care for you and who’ll never allow you to feel like you’re all alone in this not so perfect world.

Smettete di cercare l'uomo giusto

There is no such thing as a perfect man. He doesn’t exist. There is the right man for you, but the truth is, he won’t be perfect.

If you’re waiting for the perfect man, you’re only wasting your precious time. Even worse, you might be missing out on some great opportunities and some really good and valuable men.

Don’t compare yourself to others

There is no point in comparing yourself to other people. You’re a unique human being, and your life could never be the same as someone else’s.

Just because most of your friends are married now doesn’t mean you should be too. It was simply their destiny, and yours is different from theirs.

Don’t think that their life is somehow better than yours just because they aren’t singolo anymore. Trust me, just because they’re married, it doesn’t mean they’re happy.

Tenete sempre presente che un buon matrimonio, in cui due persone si sono frequentate per un po' di tempo e hanno avuto il tempo di conoscersi e di instaurare un rapporto di fiducia, è molto meglio di un matrimonio affrettato.

Don’t wallow in self-pity

Why should you have regrets for something that hasn’t happened YET? It doesn’t mean it won’t ever happen.

Don’t feel sorry for yourself because your life isn’t going the way you planned. It’s going in some other direction, a direction that God thought was better for you.

Dovete fidarvi di Dio, accettare la vostra situazione, riporre in Lui le vostre speranze e sperare che la destinazione finale sia ancora migliore di come l'avete immaginata.

L'amore è ovunque intorno a voi

Just because you haven’t found love up to now doesn’t mean you should stop believing in true love. True, real love exists and it’s everywhere around you.

L'amore è nelle persone che si prendono cura di voi, nelle persone che vogliono far parte della vostra vita. Anche il vostro animale domestico, che a volte è anche il vostro migliore amico, è amore.

Love is in fulfilling our dreams and goals. The relationship you have with yourself is also love, and it’s probably the most important kind of love in your life.

Il punto fondamentale è che love is everywhere you look… True love is within you.

La vostra anima gemella è là fuori da qualche parte

The person who is meant for you is out there somewhere, and he is also waiting for you. One day, God will find a way for you to cross paths, and you’ll meet the one you’ll marry.

That day, you’ll feel sorry for ever doubting God’s timing and true love. All this waiting will pay off because that person will be everything you ever hoped and prayed for.

In the end, to all of you fabulous single girls out there… Be patient. Don’t lose hope.

Your soulmate is coming, and he’ll make you so happy that you’ll forget that you were ever even worried about this. Just wait and believe in the most powerful force called L O V E.