Ecco come una donna forte guarisce il suo cuore spezzato

Just because she’s strong doesn’t mean that she can’t break under the weight of the world.

Even a strong woman can give her heart to a man who isn’t any good for her and all he does is pour acid into her after he opens her chest up to spezzarle il cuore.

A broken heart is never something easy to deal with…when you break down in the middle of the street because you remembered a beautiful memory and realise that you won’t have that ever again…when you stay up until four in the morning crying and thinking to yourself that love shouldn’t be this hard.

It’s seeing his face in every random passenger without being able to realise that you won’t get him back.

For every woman, a broken heart is the same experience. It’s the kind of pain that you wouldn’t want upon your biggest enemy.

Yes, that’s how hard it hurts and you’ve been through that, too.

Ma quando si tratta di una donna forte, per qualche motivo ci aspettiamo sempre che affronti le rotture e i colpi di fulmine in modo da scrollarseli di dosso come se nulla fosse. Invece no.

Ecco come una donna forte guarisce il suo cuore spezzato:

Piange. It’s no secret that it hurts like hell and no matter how strong a woman is, she will cry.

A broken heart isn’t something that will heal overnight, so it will continue on hurting.

She will remember him at night and she will dream of him before she wakes up crying because she has realised that he’s not by her side anymore.

Ne parla. There’s no need to keep it inside anymore. So much pain isn’t good and she knows that.

Going to the people closest to her is the best way to cope with the pain because they will have the right words to cheer her up and to be honest, she doesn’t have the strength to deal with all these feelings herself.

Ha bisogno di qualcuno che la abbracci e le dica che starà bene.

È una donna che perdona. Perdona se stessa e l'uomo che l'ha distrutta. Non c'è bisogno di serbare rancore e di incolpare qualcuno per quello che è successo.

She believes that everything happens for a reason and that her heart will feel much better if she forgives herself and the man who did this to her. It’s better this way. She deserves peace.

Trasforma il suo dolore in carburante. It isn’t a secret that pain makes the best artists. To una donna forteIl dolore è la migliore motivazione per apportare dei cambiamenti nella sua vita.

Every time there is an outburst of pain inside her, she won’t just sit around and wait for it to pass because that won’t bring her anything.

Uscirà a correre, andrà a prendere un caffè con le amiche. In questo modo non si accumula energia negativa dentro di lei.

Sta facendo le cose per sé. Quando il cuore si spezza, sarebbe una perdita di tempo non amare se stessi.

That’s why a strong woman loves herself and she knows that this way she will heal faster.

Si porta fuori per appuntamenti e cene, prestando sempre attenzione a fare le cose di cui ha bisogno per sentirsi meglio.

Mangia bene e si veste meglio che mai, per dimostrare a se stessa che è in grado di stare in piedi da sola.

Non tornerà mai dall'uomo che l'ha distrutta. Aspettarsi che l'uomo che l'ha spezzata la aiuti a guarire è la cosa peggiore che possa fare!

He can only deepen her wounds and that’s not something she wants to do – not now, not ever. There’s no need to give him a second chance if he blew his first one! It’s as easy as that.

Avrà paura di amare di nuovo. Whenever someone tries to come near her, to flirt with her or text her, she gets defensive and she doesn’t want to do anything with that person.

But that’s just her first instinct because it’s scary to trust someone so soon after she has been broken. She has made boundaries to keep her heart safe. There’s nothing wrong with that.

But she won’t throw her life away because of one broken heart. Si merita di meglio!

She won’t let a man be the reason she doesn’t love anymore. She won’t let someone who didn’t know how to love her keep her from someone who will.

She won’t rush into a new relationship. That would be irresponsible of her and there’s no need for her to do that.

She knows that her broken heart won’t survive another break down and that those pieces should come back together before she can fully give it to someone new. So she doesn’t rush anywhere!

She knows that true love will come when she’s ready to receive it.

Finché non guarirà completamente e finché non si assicurerà che il prossimo uomo di cui si innamorerà sia degno di lei, she won’t let herself fall in love.

Now, it’s time to love herself and show herself that it’s OK to treat herself with kindness, love and appreciation! This is her time and no one should interrupt it.

Si cura da sola. Un giorno si sveglierà e si renderà conto di essere riuscita a guarire il suo cuore spezzato da sola.

Non c'è bisogno di un uomo che l'aiuti, perché lei è abbastanza forte da portare le sue cicatrici e la sua stessa rottura!

È la donna forte che tutti dovremmo ammirare. Anche se è distrutta e danneggiata, anche se le fa male il petto, sta facendo un lavoro straordinario di guarigione.