Come capire se piaci a una ragazza via sms: 30 segni evidenti

Vi siete chiesti Come capire se piaci a una ragazza via sms ? Admit it. You’ve been thinking about this question for some time now. 

It’s not that dating wasn’t already challenging enough without texting, right? But, here’s the thing: Conversazioni di testo sono un aspetto importante di ogni tipo di relazione al giorno d'oggi. 

Permettetemi una dimostrazione. You like a girl, so you text her. You’re dating, you text. You’re in a relationship, so you text each other! 

Almost every single romance starts with texting because this has become the main means of communication these days. So, once you dive into a “texting phase,” you will ask yourself many questions about that one girl you’re texting.

Uno dei più importanti sarà: Come faccio a capire se le piaccio via SMS? 

Yes, girls may seem complex and mysterious most of the time, but trust me, it’s not that hard to know if she likes you over text.

You just need to look for the right signs, and you’ll know if she likes you for sure! If you notice most of the signs below when you two text, congratulations, she’s TOTALLY into you!

How To Tell If A Girl Likes You Over Text: 30 Obvious Signs She’s Into You 

 

You’re not the only one initiating the conversation

Remember, guys: If you’re the only one initiating conversation ALL THE TIME, then there’s seriously something wrong with your (potential) romance. 

So, if the girl you’re texting makes sure to also initiate the conversation from time to time, this is a huge indicator that she likes you.

She wants to know what’s going on in your life, she wants to share things with you, and she wants to keep you updated on things that are happening in her life. 

If both of you initiate conversations, then your ‘texting phase’ is reciprocal, and there’s nothing you should worry about!

Risponde in pochi secondi o minuti 

You would be surprised how many girls refuse to reply the same second (or in a few minutes) after receiving a text because they don’t want to be seen as too available. 

Let me simplify it for you: We don’t want you to think that we’re sitting next to our cellphones the entire day waiting for you to text us. We want to appear busy, having an exciting life with minimal free time. 

BUT if a girl replies to you within seconds or minutes almost every single time, this means she no longer gives a damn about those unwritten rules and you’re really close to trovare una ragazza.

She wants to reply to your text the same second she receives it because she genuinely likes you and doesn’t care how anyone interprets her speedy responses (or lack thereof). 

However, note that things are slightly different if you’re uscire con una ragazza che ha una mente ansiosa perché la maggior parte delle volte ci pensa troppo e si preoccupa di tutto (anche di rispondere in pochi secondi).

Manda messaggi lunghi come romanzi con un sacco di domande di approfondimento.

Se ti manda messaggi lunghi come un romanzo, è un buon segno! Una ragazza che non è interessata a te non sprecherebbe MAI il suo tempo inviandoti messaggi lunghi. 

I’m a girl. I have friends who are girls. So, trust me on this one. If I don’t like a guy, I would never bother sending a longer text than necessary or keeping the conversation going.

If she sends you long texts accompanied by follow-up questions, this means she’s making an effort to establish a meaningful conversation with you because she CARES.

If it weren’t so, she would send you one short sentence or a one-word reply. Why? Because she obviously doesn’t care.

Apart from sending you long texts, she also won’t worry about doppio sms you. Whether it’s on WhatsApp, SMS, Tinder, Instagram, or Facebook Messenger, if she double texts you, know that she LIKES you.

If you aren ‘t familiar with it, I doppi messaggi sono considerati uno dei peccati più gravi nel mondo degli appuntamenti, quindi se una ragazza decide ancora di farlo, potete solo immaginare quanto le piacete.

Any change in your texting style doesn’t go unnoticed

In case you didn’t know, women notice EVERYTHING (and I really mean everything), especially when they like someone. So, if you usually send her a good morning text and one day, for some reason, you don’t, she will notice. 

Se di solito le inviate molti emoji durante i messaggi e poi smettete, probabilmente vi chiederà se va tutto bene. 

Una ragazza a cui piaci noterà ogni singolo cambiamento nel tuo stile di scrittura. Potrebbe entrare nella zona di sovrappensiero e iniziare a porsi le seguenti domande: Perché ha smesso di mandarmi messaggi all'improvviso ? Dovrei mandargli un messaggio o no? 

Si esprime in modo impressionante e interessante

Wondering how to tell if a girl likes you over text ? When a girl is not really interested in you romantically, she won’t care about being fun, interesting, or catching your attention. 

Ma se le piacete davvero, farà in modo di esprimersi in modo interessante. Che cosa significa? 

Ciò significa che eviterà di ripetersi e inserirà molti elementi nuovi nei suoi testi. Questo è uno dei segni evidenti che una ragazza vuole farsi notare da te. 

For example, when I text a guy I’m into, I sometimes include the teddy bear emoji into our conversation and add a colon next to it, so it seems like a teddy bear is texting him. 

Si presenta così: ? : “You can tell me anything you want. I promise I won’t tell her.”

La maggior parte dei ragazzi lo trova carino e insolito, quindi le nostre conversazioni sono sempre divertenti perché voglio che si diverta quando mi scrive e voglio esprimermi in modo divertente. Una situazione vantaggiosa per tutti, no?

Inviare un sacco di emoji è diventato il suo hobby per gli sms.

Girls LOVE all kinds of emojis because they help us express ourselves in a fun way. If you ask me, emoticons are body language signs in the texting world, so you should definitely pay attention to them if you haven’t so far.

Sai che le piaci se ti manda una molte emoji (in particolare faccine sorridenti) because this is an obvious sign that she’s having a good time texting you. 

Girls sending laughing emojis are always a positive sign when it comes to dating. It is proof that you’re doing everything right because if you weren’t, trust me, she wouldn’t care about sending you a single emoji, let alone a few of them in one convo.

Vi manda regolarmente messaggi

Is she messaging you frequently? Do your conversations ever stop, or do you have continued conversations? For example, when I text a guy I’m totally into, our conversations become continual, meaning there is no “Hi” or “Bye,” but we just continue writing from where we stopped off.

Questo accade quando si ha una forte chimica testuale, perché non si può mai rimanere a corto di argomenti. You have so much to share with them, and you can’t get enough of them sharing things with you. 

It’s truly one of the most special moments of every ‘texting phase,’ and that is how you know that you’re on the same page. Of course, not every conversation can be continual from the beginning, but if she texts you regularly, it’s a great sign that this girl truly likes you. 

A volte copia il tuo stile di scrittura 

Did you know that in face-to-face conversations, mimicking the other person’s body language means that you’re attracted to them? The same thing applies to texting but in a slightly different way.

So, if she copies your texting style, you know that she’s attracted to you. Questo è uno di quei segnali sottili a cui non tutti prestano attenzione, il che è del tutto comprensibile.

For example, let’s say that you really like to use the word ‘Certainly’ when texting her, and you know that she seldom uses it. So, if she suddenly starts using it more frequently, then she’s copying your texting style because she LIKES you.

She’s doing it on a subconscious level, meaning she’s not really aware of it. The more you text, the more you’ll copy each other’s texting style, which is really cute if you ask me!

She finds time to text you even if she’s busy 

I know for a fact that when I’m writing (read: working), I don’t respond to any messages or calls (unless it’s something urgent). Well, I’ve noticed that this rule is regularly broken when a guy I like texts or calls me.

I just can’t help myself but share a few words with him because he really makes my day, and no matter how busy I am at the moment, I will always find time to, at least, tell him that I’m busy. 

So, if you aren’t sure whether this girl likes you, pay attention to this. Does she text you when she’s busy, and does she also tell you that she’s busy, but you are a ‘wonderful distraction’?

Diventa un'esperta nello stuzzicarvi

L'aspetto che preferisco dei messaggi di testo è la presa in giro. Perché? Perché richiede impegno, un buon senso dell'umorismo e la volontà di prendersi in giro.

If her teasing efforts are really strong, then you know she’s totally into you. Vi stuzzica con foto e messaggi, emoji; si può dire.

So, if you’re wondering come attrarla con gli sms, just do what she’s doing. Reciprocate! Stuzzicarle la schienaessere divertente e farla ridere. 

But make sure not to overdo it. Always pay attention to her mood; how she’s feeling at the moment. There’s no point in teasing her when she’s feeling off. This would only make things worse, so remember this piece of golden advice. 

Ti fa un sacco di complimenti 

Wondering how to tell if a girl likes you over text ? Wonder no more. If she compliments you frequently, this is a huge indicator that she’s attracted to you. 

At some point, you might feel like you couldn ‘t be that handsome, cute, and adorable in her eyes, but trust me, you are. Se vi fa un complimento, significa che vuole che vi sentiate apprezzati, notati e desiderati (da lei).

Questo include anche i complimenti per le foto che pubblicate sui social media. Quando piaci a una ragazza, si complimenterà sia con la tua personalità che con il tuo aspetto fisico. 

If you’re a regular at the gym, prepare to receive a deluge of compliments because she will be amazed by your strong will and effort to work on yourself. 

Ti fa capire quanto sei speciale per lei

Sapete quanto è difficile per una ragazza aprirsi con voi e dirvi quanto siete importanti per lei? In tempi di giocatori, di fobici dell'impegno e di altri individui maschili impegnativi, ogni ragazza è cauta quando si tratta di incontrare qualcuno di nuovo.

Don’t expect her to tell you how special you are to her after a few texting sessions because it’s too early for that. She’s still testarti. Give her some time, and if she expresses her feelings for you, then you know she thinks you’re special and enjoys texting you.

Se si notano tutti gli altri segni, tranne questo, è un indicatore che piaci a una ragazza timida. If she’s shy, don’t force her to open up to you. 

Lasciatele un po' di spazio e di tempo e lo farà da sola. Continuate a farla ridere e a farla sentire speciale, e tutto il resto andrà al suo posto.

Condivide con voi le sue citazioni, i suoi meme, i suoi film o le sue canzoni preferite.

I don’t know about you, but when I like someone, I enter this I-want-to-share-everything-with-you mode, and I often overdo it because I obviously can’t help myself.

Quando mi piace qualcuno, voglio che conosca i miei gusti, le mie antipatie, i miei film preferiti, le mie canzoni e tutto il resto. Se notate che anche lei prova lo stesso sentimento (condivide tutte queste cose con voi), allora sapete che le piacete.

She might also propose watching some movies together, which is another great sign of her affection for you. Once she starts sharing all these things, keep in mind to reciprocate and introduce her to your likes and dislikes. That’s how you’ll trovare una ragazza di sicuro!

Ti riempie di attenzioni

You’re probably thinking to yourself: How does one shower another person with attention in a texting environment? Simple.

Dare attenzione a voi significa farvi dei complimenti, trovare sempre il tempo per rispondervi, anche se è impegnata in quel momento, ecc. 

But there’s one thing you need to pay attention to. Se vi riempie di attenzioni e poi si allontana (smette di farlo per qualche tempo), probabilmente significa che Le piaci, ma sta facendo il difficile.

Già. Alla maggior parte delle ragazze piace fare le difficili, perché vogliono che tu competa per loro, che faccia un passo avanti e che ti sforzi di corteggiarle. 

Don’t worry. This ‘playing hard-to-get game won’t last forever. After some time, she will stop doing it and start showering you with her undivided attention 24/7. Maybe we like doing this to help you appreciate our attention more than you usually would.

Vi tiene aggiornati su ciò che sta facendo

Oh, yes. If a girl likes you, trust me, you will know about almost everything that’s going on in her life. 

You will know what time she wakes up, when she comes home from work, what she’s up to in her free time, what her dog/cat is doing, etc. Forse ho esagerato con l'ultima, ma avete capito l'idea.

If you want to know why we like doing this, it’s because it helps us stay connected with you. It’s our way of allowing you to be a part of our lives.

When you know her schedule, it’s easier for you to understand her type of personality and the way her mind operates. So, embrace it!

She’s interested in your future plans

Honestly, if I don’t care about the guy I’m texting, I certainly won’t ask him about his future plans or anything of the sort. 

So, if the girl you’re texting asks you about your future intentions, plans, and so on, it means she genuinely wants to know what is and will be going on in your life.

Maybe she wants to be a part of your future, and she wants to know if she stands a chance. For example, if you were to move to another city, it wouldn’t be easy for you to stay in touch.

When they like a guy, girls think of everything in advance. We even go so far that we start imagining how our future kids would look (if we decide to have them), and we haven’t even been on a first date yet. 

Yes, a female’s brain is incredibly complex, and don’t even try to understand it. I’ve tried and failed. (Note the sarcastic intention behind the last statement because I’m female.)

Ride di quasi tutto quello che dici

I know this will probably sound stupid, but when a girl likes you, she can’t help but laugh at almost everything you say or text her. I’ll try to explain this phenomenon in the simplest way possible.

So, when we’re talking or texting a guy we like, the positive energy spreads through our bodies, and it feels like you’re high on what you’re doing at that moment. 

Evidently, feel-good chemicals like dopamine play a part in this, so don’t think that you’re a stand-up comedian.

Joking aside, if she keeps sending you  ‘ LOL,’ ‘ROFL,’ ‘ LMAO,’ ‘ haha, ’ and other laughing variations, then you know she’s having a good time texting you. 

But if the only thing she ever does is send you one-word replies such as ‘ LOL,’ ‘yes,’ or ‘no,’ you should ask yourself the following: Is she ‘bad at texting’ or just not that into me?

Avete una chimica testuale

Textual chemistry is one of the biggest signs a girl truly likes you! Do you know why? Because chemistry simply cannot exist if both parties aren ‘t on the same page. 

If she doesn’t like you and you’re into her, you won’t be able to establish textual chemistry. It’s as simple as that. 

But if she’s easy to talk to, open, reciprocating, compliments you, shares things with you, etc., it means she’s initiating a connection with you on a deeper level. If you’re doing the same thing, then chimica testuale è inevitabile.

Le conversazioni profonde sono una cosa che si fa

If you two have strong textual chemistry, you’ll never run out of deep and interesting topics to talk about. From alien invasion to the meaning of life, deep conversations will become your favorite activity.

Also, you won’t shy away from talking about real life issues. You will enjoy learning each other’s perspectives, contradicting each other and compromising, and so on.

È il vostro momento di brillare, uomini! Il modo più semplice per get a girl’s attention è esprimere se stessi in modo creativo. That means you shouldn’t be generic when it comes to both texting and real life conversations.

Don’t text or say the first thing that comes to your mind. Think about the topic and thoughtfully express yourself. If you’re able to do that, I can guarantee you that she will be more than impressed with your texting performance.

Manda messaggi flirtanti 

Ti stai chiedendo come capire se piaci a una ragazza via SMS? Un modo infallibile per capire che una ragazza è interessata a te è se diventa civettuola.

Ti manda testi seducenti e flirtanti where she teases you in a flirtatious way and displays her sense of humor like a true goddess? If she does, she’s doing it for a reason.

She wants to catch and keep your attention as you’re texting, and she knows that the easiest way to do so is by essere civettuolospiritoso e divertente. 

A flirtatious girl is a girl who is genuinely interested in you, so there’s no need to overthink it. You can trust me on this one.

Ti manda le sue foto

When girls like someone, they can’t help themselves but want to share everything with that person. This includes photos of themselves as well.

Se questa ragazza ti ama, riceverai un sacco di foto Snapchat, selfie e così via. Ti invierà anche un sacco di screenshot esilaranti perché vuole rendere la tua giornata indimenticabile!

Suddenly, she won’t really care about posting photos on social media for other people to see. Sarà più preoccupata di inviare le sue foto migliori a VOI. 

Why? Because she will be preoccupied with impressing you and not others. She will want you to be her man, and she won’t care about the others.

Ti fa molte domande personali

Qual è la vostra più grande paura? Lavorate per vivere o vivete per lavorare? Cosa pensa delle relazioni a distanza? Hai mai tradito una ragazza prima d'ora?

A girl who is into you will ask you these and similar questions because she’s interested in your personal life more than anything else. 

Memorizzerà ogni singola risposta, quindi assicuratevi di impressionarla. Per quanto possa sembrare buffo, abbiamo questo scomparto segreto nella nostra testa dove raccogliamo dati su qualcuno che ci piace.

Actually, this applies to every single person on earth and not only girls. So, if this girl asks you lots of personal questions, maybe it’s high time you fare una mossa con lei.

Condivide molti dettagli personali sulla sua vita

Oltre a farvi molte domande personali, si assicurerà anche di condividere molti dettagli personali sulla sua vita. Parlerà della sua infanzia, degli amici, del lavoro, della famiglia, delle cose che le piacciono, degli hobby e così via.

Farà tutto questo perché vuole che la vediate, la sentiate e comprendiate il suo stile di vita e la sua personalità. Se ogni volta che le scrivi un messaggio impari qualcosa di nuovo su di lei, eccoti servito!

She has probably developed a plan to give you info about herself bit by bit (so that she doesn’t overwhelm you and so you are left thirsty for more). Yup, that’s what we do when we really like a guy.

We REALLY want to share everything with you, but at the same time, we’re also scared of overdoing it. Quindi, se di tanto in tanto sembra essere riservata, sappiate che il motivo è questo. 

She’s interested in your love life

Does she ask you about your past romances or current ones (if there are any)? If a girl is interested in your love life, this is the surest sign that she hasn’t put you in the friend zone and that she probably genuinely likes you, yay!

This is pretty much self-explanatory. Why would she be interested in your life if she didn’t like you, right?

She wants to know if you’re single or dating anyone at the moment. Vuole sapere cosa è andato storto nelle vostre storie d'amore passate per potersi preparare (scherzo), ma comunque non è lontano dalla verità.

If she asks you any of these questions, be prepared. Accentuate and highlight, if needed, that you’re single and totally ready to mingle! (God, I love that phrase so much.)

I messaggi di buongiorno e buonanotte sono diventati parte della sua routine.

Se una ragazza ti manda testi del buongiorno and good night texts regularly, she wants you to know that you’re the first person she thinks of when she wakes up and the last thing she thinks of when she goes to sleep. 

Carino, vero? Recentemente un ragazzo a cui mando un messaggio mi ha detto: Mi piace molto quando mi mandi buona notte testi because it means I’m on your mind before you go to sleep. 

And, damn, he was right! I’m ashamed to admit that I think about him almost all the time. I’m even thinking about him when writing this because if I didn’t, I wouldn’t be mentioning him, right?

Il punto è che quando alle ragazze piace qualcuno, penseranno molto a quella persona (proprio come tutti gli esseri umani) e sarà difficile per loro resistere all'idea di augurare il buongiorno o la buonanotte.

Vi manda una foto di lei senza trucco

Here’s the thing with photos: A girl would NEVER, EVER send you a picture of herself without makeup on if she doesn’t feel totally comfortable around you. 

Se vi manda una foto senza trucco, è un ottimo segno che si fida di voi, che si sente a suo agio nel condividere la sua vera natura con voi e che è quella che è.

Inviare una foto senza trucco è di per sé un atto di coraggio, soprattutto quando si hanno quelle fastidiose borse sotto gli occhi (io le ho e le odio). 

If I’m willing to send such a photo to a guy, it means I like him more than he could ever imagine. 

I mean, we live in times when the majority of girls literally sleep with makeup on in case of an emergency ( LOL ), so appreciate the fact that this girl is not afraid to contradict society’s imposed standards. 

She sends ‘thinking of you’ texts

Come si fa a sapere se si piace a una ragazza over text? If she sends you those sentimental ‘thinking of you’ texts, then you shouldn’t question her affection for you!

The same thing goes for those random texts where she’s in a store and sees something that reminds her of you. Potrebbe essere la cosa più banale del mondo, ma lei ve la manda comunque perché questa cosa banale significa tutto per lei.

Remember when I said that when we really like someone, we think about that one person 24/7? Well, that’s exactly how we end up connecting the object of our affection with random things around us.

Più ci pensiamo, più diventano parte della nostra vita quotidiana e di tutto ciò che facciamo, dalla spesa alla passeggiata.

Vuole chiamarvi/videochiamarvi

If this is not the ultimate sign of her genuine affection for you, then I don’t know what is. If this girl wants to talk to you over phone or video call, it means she wants to hear your voice, see you and connect with you on a deeper level.

In questo caso, imparare a mantenere una conversazione con una ragazza is a must if you want to avoid awkward silences. If you’re a shy guy, video calls might be too much for you, but don’t worry. You can always tell her that, and I’m sure she will understand. 

Then make sure to compensate in face-to-face conversations for the lack of video calls, and she’ll be more than satisfied.

Manda messaggi sconci

Do you think a girl would ever send a naughty text to someone she wasn’t interested in? I thought so. Se le piaci davvero, anche i messaggi maliziosi faranno parte del suo stile di scrittura.

No, non vi invierà sempre questo tipo di messaggi, ma vi sorprenderà di tanto in tanto. Lo farà perché vuole scatenare il vostro desiderio e la vostra lussuria. 

Ogni Come capire se piaci a una ragazza via sms quiz vi farà questa domanda: Lei flirta mai con te? Anche i messaggi sconci sono un modo per flirtare, quindi se la risposta è sì, sapete che le piacete.

Lei propone un appuntamento 

Vuole contattarti via FaceTime nella vita reale? Ti ha detto qualcosa come: Penso che dovremmo incontrarsi e avere un faccia a faccia conversazione.

If a girl initiates a date (which is rare), then you’re a lucky guy! Prepare for plenty of deep eye-contact sessions and other magical moments of hanging out with someone you like.

If she doesn’t do it, don’t worry. There are plenty of modi brillanti per chiedere a una ragazza di uscire con un messaggio.

Questo è il mio preferito: “I’ve been gathering the courage for some time to ask you on a date, so I’d be grateful if you could be so kind as to put me out of my misery.”

Seriously, don’t mess it up!

Spero che la domanda di Come capire se piaci a una ragazza via sms no longer bothers you because you finally know the truth. If this girl likes you, don’t mess it up.

Don’t let her think: He only texts me when he’s bored or lonely. Don’t let her wait too long for your reply. Don’t play games with her.

Se provate disagio nel mandare messaggi, prendetevi una pausa e riprovate a mandarle messaggi il giorno dopo. Siate intelligenti, creativi e divertitevi!