La gentilezza non era la sua debolezza, era la sua forza

L'avete scelta perché aveva successo, era socievole ed empatica per natura. Lo stesso livello di altruismo che mostrava verso gli altri era lo stesso che lei aveva per te. Sapevate che era speciale, sapevate che era unica, eppure avete scelto di approfittare della sua natura di nutrice.

Your perception of her compassion and kindness as some sort of personality flaw or deficit drove you to pass up on what could have been the ‘real deal’. Instead, you settled for much less.

Quando sarete nel vostro letto, da soli, sarete infestato by the innumerable acts of kindness bestowed upon you. Those ‘no-strings-attached’ acts of kindness will eco nel vostro cervello e vi tormentano la mente.

· You will remember SHE was the kind of girl who gave of herself endlessly and who expected nothing in return.

· You will remember Lei era lì per te quando avevi bisogno di una spalla su cui piangere.

· You will remember SHE was the girl who nursed you back to health when you were sick.

· You will remember SHE was the girl who gave you late-night back rubs because she knew you needed them.

· You will remember SHE was your number one cheerleader, who constantly motivated you with her fiery spirit.

· You will remember even after working long hours and after taking care of others, SHE always made sure dinner was ready for you when you walked in the door.

· You will remember the time SHE purchased Mother’s Day flowers for your mother because you could not be bothered.

· You will remember those sweet letters SHE hid in your suitcase when you traveled on business.

· You will remember HER inspiring words and speeches she shared with you prior to your job interviews.

· You will remember how SHE listened to your every word and how she would try to understand your outlandish behavior—never being judgmental but instead gracious and understanding.

· You will remember SHE knew her kindness was rare in this world of selfishness—she was selfless.

· You will remember how SHE told you how handsome you were and you responded by telling her she wore too much make-up.

· You will remember the many nights SHE spent crying on the bathroom floor out of frustration for you. Frustration that you could not understand what it meant to be kind.

· You will remember SHE knew that in order to make relationships work, kindness, a simple act of humanity, should be practiced daily.

· You will remember SHE was kind because she loved you.

· You will remember how ti sei approfittato di lei gentilezza e l'ha trattata come uno zerbino.

· You will remember SHE encouraged you to show kindness to others.

· You will remember her face when she told you she loved you and you said nothing in return.

· You will remember what healing powers come from kindness.

· You will remember after a long day at work you were happy to see her face and hear those words of encouragement.

· You will remember SHE was never disrespectful when responding to your negativity.

· You will remember that you are so misguided for seeing la sua gentilezza come una debolezza.

Succederà quando la incrocerete per strada e lei vi sorriderà. Vi ricorderete che non siete altro che un pietoso spreco di spazio per aver trovato piacere nel mettere in difficoltà una persona genuina come lei. Vi accorgerete di non essere altro che una scusa pietosa per un essere umano. Lei, invece, sarà più comprensiva e vi vedrà come qualcuno che ha ancora un potenziale di bontà.

Ricordate che non troverete mai un'altra come lei. È una razza rara in questo mondo egoista in cui viviamo oggi. Le persone come lei mostrano forza, grazia e compassione. Le persone come lei meritano il MEGLIO in una partnership paritaria. Le persone come voi che vedono la sua gentilezza e la sua compassione come debolezze non hanno assolutamente il diritto di far parte della sua vita.