La miglior vendetta è andare avanti
He did this to you. He turned you into an empty shell, with eyes full of tears and a scream in your throat that you’re not able to let go.
He made your thirst for revenge bigger—so big, in fact, that no reasonable conversation could change your mind. You have made your decision.
Ma basta! Per favore, smettetela con questi pensieri che vi stanno mangiando vivi. Non vi permettono nemmeno di dormire bene.
Those thoughts are turning you into the monster that he wanted to make out of you, but don’t let him. Believe me, the best revenge is to move on.
The best revenge is self-love. Don’t give him the pleasure by showing him that he made you doubt yourself.
Walk around with your head held high and your heart in its place. Take care of yourself and don’t ever make the same mistake again of thinking that you’re not good enough or that you are unworthy of love.If he wasn’t able to love you, it doesn’t mean that you are unlovable.
Amare pienamente se stessi. With everything you’ve got. Forget about getting even and forget about having the upper hand.
Forget about all those times you figured out a strategy to show him what he lost. Just don’t. He will be more than sorry when he sees you happy, like he never meant a thing to you.
La miglior vendetta è lasciarsi andare. Let go of everything that has happened because you can’t change your past now. You can’t influence what happened and you can’t hold on to something that’s not there anymore.
So, learn to let go. Learn to free yourself from everything that doesn’t serve you—and your past probably doesn’t, does it?
La miglior vendetta è essere felici. Quando vi ha lasciato, vi ha ingannato o qualsiasi cosa abbia fatto per farvi crollare, probabilmente voleva vedervi crollare. Ora lasciate che vi veda prosperare! Sorridete, ridete, ballate e divertitevi.
You only have one life and this one is yours, so don’t spend it dwelling over someone who doesn’t even care about your tears because if he did, he wouldn’t have done this to you.
Siate felici e dimostrate al mondo che potete rialzarvi dopo essere stati gettati a terra.
You can rise and become wiser from your mistakes. There is no one holding you down anymore except yourself. Don’t let it continue this way.
La miglior vendetta è il perdono. Potreste pensare che sono pazzo a dirlo, ma il perdono è qualcosa di così sacro che non tutti hanno la capacità di praticarlo.
If you forgive, you will be better than most of us, so forgive. Don’t hold grudges because they will poison your mind and your heart, and you will become just like him. I’m pretty sure you don’t want that.
Non siete un persona tossica. You are a wonderful human being who needs love and affection. He wasn’t able to give you that and that’s why you need to forgive him. He didn’t know better.
La miglior vendetta è prendersi cura di se stessi. To know when you’ve had enough and when you want to take a day off from all the chaos in this world is a blessing.
You need to have time for yourself in which you’re going to relax and forget about the rest of the world because no one is more important than you now—especially in this time when avete bisogno di rimettervi in piedi.
La miglior vendetta è guarire. When you show him that the wounds he inflicted are healing or already healed, then there’s nothing more that will bother him.
Voleva spezzarti e tu gli hai mostrato com'è fatta un'anima più pura e quanto sia importante per te guarire correttamente.
La miglior vendetta è andare avanti. Per andare avanti e non guardarsi mai indietro.
Ricordate che si trattava di una lezione preziosa che doveva accadere per farvi diventare più saggi e per dimostrarvi che siete molto più forti di quanto abbiate mai pensato prima.
