7 modi efficaci per sgonfiare intenzionalmente l'ego di un uomo
Ladies, let’s be honest. We were all once in love with an egocentric. You know, that kind of guy who likes to talk only about himself. Quello che pensa che tutto giri intorno a lui.
Il tipo di uomo che ama vantarsi di se stesso. Un uomo che vede le donne solo come trofei, qualcosa di cui vantarsi davanti agli amici.
So che l'ego è importante per un uomo ma questo tipo di il ragazzo è davvero pieno di sé. However, the thing most women don’t know is that we actually have so much power over their ego.
Possiamo influire notevolmente su di essa ed ecco alcuni modi comprovati per farlo. It’s up to you to decide whether you’re going to use it or avoid it.
Metterlo in imbarazzo davanti ai suoi amici
Questa è probabilmente la cosa peggiore che si possa fare ad un ragazzo. He wants his friends to respect him and if you embarrass him in front of them, that’ll hurt his ego for sure.
I guarantee your man will be so angry that he won’t speak to you again for days, if at all.
His friends will tease him as it’ll seem like he is inferior in your relationship. This is a great way to hurt a guy who doesn’t respect you o di trattarvi bene.
Confrontatelo con il vostro ex
If you’re in a relationship with a man you love and that love is reciprocated, then you should really be careful and pay attention to the things that may hurt his ego (because we all know that a man’s ego means everything to him).
Questa è una di quelle cose. Trust me, you shouldn’t even mention your ex, let alone compare your present partner with him.
If you make a comparison even unintentionally while fighting, your man won’t be able to forget it. Even after you make up, that thought of you comparing him with your ex and you still thinking about him will haunt him.
Flirtare con altri ragazzi davanti a lui
Se ti vede flirtare con un altro guy, his ego will definitely suffer because he can’t stand the fact that you can like someone else or flirt with them.
It’ll be very hurtful to him but he’ll also be frustrated by it. If his friends see it, it’ll be even worse because they will tease him about it all the time.
Uscire con qualcuno che odia
Men always think that they can talk and hang out with whomever they want but when it comes to their women, they should hang out only with people they’re good with.
If he sees you out with someone he hates, it’ll hurt his ego for sure because he’ll think that he and his choices aren’t important to you.
Correggerlo davanti agli altri
Se avete bisogno di correggere il vostro partner per qualcosa che ha fatto o detto, dovreste aspettare un momento in cui siete soli e approfittarne per dirglielo.
You shouldn’t say it to him in front of others because he’ll feel humiliated.
Tutti commettiamo errori, però, giusto? Correggere il vostro uomo davanti ad altre persone danneggerebbe la vostra relazione e abbasserebbe il suo ego.
Ricordategli che guadagnate più di lui (se lo fate).
Il denaro può causare seri problemi in una relazione. If you insult his job or rub his nose in the fact that you earn more money, it’ll hurt his ego so much that your man will feel like he is not man enough.
Who’s more successful or who has a bigger salary shouldn’t be important for a healthy relationship.
Tell him he isn’t good in bed
This is the fastest way you can bruise a man’s ego. Essere bravi a letto è qualcosa di sacro per tutti gli uomini.
Se avete obiezioni su questa parte della vostra relazione, Dovreste trovare il modo migliore per dirlo al vostro partner e poi trovare insieme una soluzione. Qualsiasi altra cosa danneggerebbe il loro ego.
If he deserves to be punished for not treating you well, this is going to hurt him. If you’re curious about the things you should avoid in order not to hurt his ego, this is one of them.
As we already said, it’s up to you how you’re going to use these tips, whether you want to deflate your man’s ego or not.
