Non fate del male a una brava donna solo perché avete paura di impegnarvi

Perché l'hai trascinata nel tuo mondo quando non avevi alcuna intenzione di restare? Lei non sognava tutti quei messaggi, quelle conversazioni, quegli sguardi dolci e quei caldi abbracci.

È stato reale. Tu eri lì.

Ti sei comportato come se la cosa stesse andando da qualche parte. Ti sei impegnato. L'hai fatta innamorare. Tutto andava alla grande e poi l'hai abbandonata. Nessuna spiegazione reale, niente di niente.

Are you even aware of how much damage you caused? There’s nothing worse than awakening a woman’s feelings without having any intention of loving her.

Ma tu ne avevi l'intenzione. La volevi nella tua vita. Ti piaceva. Eri così preso da lei. Hai solo avuto paura.

You saw that things between you were getting a bit more serious and you were afraid her love would cage you. You felt like you couldn’t breathe. You felt like you were losing your freedom.

Così hai fatto quello che sai fare meglio, hai corso. Sei scappato da lei invece di affrontare i tuoi problemi. L'hai lasciata senza sapere nulla e le hai fatto chiedere se fosse stato qualcosa che aveva fatto a farti andare via.

You made her wonder if there was something wrong with her. You made her question if she was enough. And that’s unforgivable. She didn’t deserve to be treated like that.

Se volevi separarti da lei, meritava almeno una spiegazione. Meritava un addio adeguato. Meritava la tua onestà.

But it was easier this way, wasn’t it? You got used to these kinds of scenarios. You pull away every time you get too attached. You freeze your heart when you are in front of the real deal.

You would rather lose her than be vulnerable. You try to convince yourself that she didn’t mean a thing to you when you know that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Non ti permetti mai di sentire troppo. You try to block those emotions because you think you are safer that way. You keep repeating the same scenario because you feel that you don’t deserve to be loved.

Ma se c'era qualcuno che ti guardava come se fossi l'uomo migliore del mondo, era lei. Ti ha messo su un piedistallo e in cuor suo sapeva che meritavi il suo amore.

You were the last one who she thought would hurt her, but you did. She still isn’t herself. The wounds are too deep. But she is fighting and she’s not giving up—that’s what makes her even more special.

By pushing a good woman out of your life, you only end up hurting yourself. You will realize what you had when it’s already too late.

You will wonder what would’ve happened if you had been a bit braver. If you got out of your comfort zone and took the risk, maybe you wouldn’t be so caught up in your thoughts now.

You wouldn’t be wondering if there’s anybody in her life who is enjoying her smile like you once did.

You wouldn’t be wondering if there is a way back to her heart. You never thought that she would be strong enough to ignore all your calls and texts. You thought she would be waiting for forever.

But even the best and the kindest of women give up when they exhaust all their strength. When they see that there is no point holding on to somebody who didn’t want to stay.

If you had enough courage maybe you would see that your fears were misplaced. Maybe you would find out that love doesn’t trap you, it makes you free when you are with the right person.

Se smettessi di scappare e rimanessi per sempre tra le sue braccia. Quel per sempre con lei ti spaventava così tanto e ora sai che il per sempre senza di lei è ancora più spaventoso.