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Disorganized attachment style is probably the most difficult and unhealthiest attachment style of all. Fortunately, like all others, this insecure attachment can be overcome and healed with proper treatment. These kinds of attachment patterns develop in our early childhood, most likely because the parents aren’t able to respond appropriately to their child’s needs. It can…
Out of all attachment systems, the ambivalent attachment is likely to cause you the most trouble. It is characterized by insecurities, trust issues, and abandonment trauma, which all source back to your childhood. When you have an ambivalent attachment style, you’re taught to be unsure of love. You never got the support, acceptance, and safety…
Having healthy and strong boundaries in relationships is essential to make any kind of relationship work. You have to draw the line somewhere and define things that are beyond compromise. No matter how much you love your partner, there are some things you should never compromise on. Those things are called your personal boundaries, and…
As December comes along and the year is slowly coming to its end, all of us think of the things and the people we won and lost in the past year. You put all of your achievements and failures on a scale and can’t help but think of all the different paths you should have…
I’ve learned a lot this last year. I won’t be making the same mistakes anymore. I let you into my life. I was so naive and foolish and I didn’t understand that you never intended to love me. I’m not saying that I regret everything that has happened because it’s not true. I don’t regret…
Being left behind by the person you love the most is heartbreaking and one of the most painful things you can go through—there is no doubt about that. But what is even more devastating is accepting that the reason this person walked away from you was because he simply didn’t love you. Because let’s face…
You are everything that I’ve always wanted and now that I have you I’m terrified that I’ll lose you. I’m afraid you will figure out that you are better than me. I’m afraid that at some point you will realize I am so damaged I can’t be loved. Even though you are everything I have…
Do you know what undying love truly means? It’s so much more than what we watch on TV shows or read in romance novels and books. I searched for its meaning in an English dictionary and it explains it as ‘having strong feelings for another person that are unlikely to change’. Would you agree with…
Do you think you have some toxic family members who simply don’t care about you and your needs? Here are some signs that your family doesn’t care about you, which will help you figure out whether you’re living in a dysfunctional, toxic environment or not. Growing up in a nice, healthy and functional family positively…
When you’re grieving over a shattering break-up, all you want is for this seemingly endless emotional pain to go away. It’s not that finding love after heartbreak only looks like mission impossible – it is also the last thing on your mind right now. You’re convinced that you could never love anyone again and that…