Ecco perché l'hai fatta innamorare di un'altra persona

“I was told not to hurt the heart of whom I care. But when I was so busy taking care of that heart, I didn’t notice my own was bleeding…” ~ Sconosciuto

Hai commesso un grave errore.

You’ve lost the most precious thing in the world. And it’s all your fault.

L'hai data per scontata.

You weren’t paying attention to anything she said. L'hai tenuta con te solo per divertirti—you were bored so you decided to have ‘fun’ with her. You wanted someone to occupy your thoughts. You were never serious about her.

E il fatto è che lei era seriamente interessata a te. Voleva darti il suo cuore su un piatto d'argento. Il fatto è che non ti ha mai dato per scontato. Era lì per te ogni volta che avevi bisogno di lei.

Non c'eri mai quando aveva bisogno di te.

You gave her zero emotional support. The thing that makes your ‘love story’ even sadder is that you knew what she had been through. She told you her life story and when you heard it, you cried your eyes out. Perché quelle forti emozioni sono sparite all'improvviso? They weren’t gone—they never existed.

You told her you will take care of her—you will cherish her. But, somehow, your words faded away as your relationship grew. Although you knew she went through hell and back and she’s finally happy now (at least she thought so) with you, you betrayed her.

Avete commesso gli stessi errori di chi vi ha preceduto..

L'hai trascurata e hai messo i tuoi bisogni al centro della tua vita. SEMPRE before hers. You never compromised. Your word was the final one. She cried so many times because of you. She cried so many times because of the guy before you—and she left him. You did the same thing—you drove her into the arms of another man.

Le hai fatto amare qualcun altro.

She is a strong woman—nulla può abbatterla. She still hopes she will take that hopeful leap with someone into a happy future together. She never lost hope—she will always keep trying. She is a fighter.  

That’s why you didn’t break her. She is much more than you thought.

You made her love someone else because you made her think she’s not important.

You made her think she was just a casualty—something along the way, something that kept you occupied. You made her think she is just a small spectacle of dust in the large and vast universe—at least you tried to make her think that. You failed.

You see, she is the kind of person that will put up with you and give you a lot of second chances—but only to a certain point. Then, she will cross you out like you never existed and she will move on.

To her, you will become a shadow—someone that she used to know but forgot. And she is not sorry. She doesn’t hold any grudges. She understands you are the way you are and it’s not up to her to change you. Only you can do that—but you are too weak to admit it to yourself. You will never change.

You’ve lost lei perché hai ignorato il suo cuore e le hai negato la possibilità di essere felice.

You’ve lost her because she is not afraid to take what she wants and needs—and she needs someone with which to share all the love she has.

Le hai fatto amare qualcun altro ogni volta che l'hai delusa.