Rompete l'illusione che sia un ragazzo perfetto, perché è tutt'altro che tale

Ti conosco.

Attualmente siete in una relazione in cui date il massimo per farla funzionare.

You think you love your man and that you wouldn’t be able to live without him.

Yes, I know, I wrote that you think you love him because that’s actually true.

You only think you love him because you created an illusion of him and you’re actually in love with that illusion, not the real him.

You can’t tell me that you honestly love someone who never showed you that he really does care for you and that you mean to him as much as he does to you.

You can’t tell me that you love a man who has done nothing but hurt you the entire time you’ve been dating.

A man who has never respected you or showed that he’s afraid to lose you. Because that’s the only real truth.

Per favore, smettetela di prendervi in giro.

L'unica verità è che quell'uomo non ha fatto altro che usarti e fingere di amarti per ottenere ciò che voleva da te.

Tutto il resto è solo qualcosa che avete creato nella vostra mente. It’s how you tried to comfort yourself.

He’s far from the perfect guy e dovete ammetterlo a voi stessi. Prima lo farete, meglio sarà per voi.

You’ll feel pain and anger. You’ll feel pain because understanding all of this suddenly, understanding that he never really loved you, will break your heart.

You’ll be angry at yourself più per aver creduto che lui ti abbia mai amato.

So che fa male, ed è giusto che sia così. So che volete piangere e dovreste farlo.

Ci sono molti di sentimenti sinceri, purtroppo solo dalla vostra parte, e dovete avere a che fare con tutti loro.

You’ll start feeling overwhelmed because you won’t know how to leave a man who you love but at the same time, you know is not good for you.

Then, you’ll feel nothing. Your heart will be completely empty. You’ll be left only with the memories. You’ll be free.

That’s when you’ll start living again because you have been a prisoner of that man and your own mind for so long.

One day, you’ll realize that I’m telling you the truth.

One day, you’ll understand that he doesn’t deserve you, that the love he gives you, those tiny bits of love, isn’t the kind of love you deserve.

You deserve a man who’ll love you with his whole heart and his whole being. Someone whose heart will beat faster every time he sees you.

You deserve the most honest, pure and unique kind of love and don’t you dare settle for anything less than that.

When the right man comes and starts loving you this way, the right way, you’ll see how ‘wrongly loved’ you were.

Sì, vi conosco perché una volta ero come voi. Ho imparato la lezione e la imparerete anche voi. Le persone imparano meglio dai loro errori propri and that’s a fact.

At least you will know that you are safe from letting someone use you or letting someone who doesn’t deserve you to enter your life and stay there for a long time.

Almeno ora sai che, per quanto doloroso sia, devi essere sempre onesto con te stesso e accettare le cose per come sono realmente.

You’ve learned that you are worth so much and that one day someone will come who’ll know how to appreciate you and give you everything you deserve.

You now know that you have to separate your mind and your heart when you’re in a relationship.

E che nella lotta tra la mente e il cuore bisogna lasciar vincere la mente. Avete bisogno della vostra mente per proteggere il vostro fragile cuore.

Siate pazienti. Rompete l'illusione che sia un uomo perfetto, perché non lo è mai stato. Lasciatelo. Poi dovete guarire.

Datevi il tempo di guarire adeguatamente. Poi aspettate.

Attendere l'uomo giusto. He’s on his way, I’m sure of that and your paths will cross sooner than you think. Just wait patiently.