Smettetela di spezzare il vostro cuore: non cambierà mai

So che vi siete convinti che le cose andranno in un altro modo.

I know you believe it from the bottom of your heart, that you actually want things to change. But unfortunately, we don’t always get the things we want in life.

So che il tuo amore ti ha legato a quest'uomo. So che l'amore che provi a volte ti mette le ali, ma più spesso ti mette in catene.

So che tutto il tuo corpo si paralizza quando pensi di lasciarlo.

Il vortice della tossicità vi ha trascinato troppo in profondità e uscirne è ormai una missione impossibile per voi.

I also know you go through hell on a daily basis and that you handle it all with a smile. The love you feel isn’t healthy.

The love you’re feeling is breaking you because he’s playing the love card just so he’ll be able to use you.

But it’s not love when all you get are crumbs of affections, words without actions and tears rolling down your face each night.

God, how can you not see that love is so much more and you’re worth so much more?

I hate to break it to you but you won’t be able to live like this for long now.

You don’t notice it because you are refusing to open your eyes but even if you don’t want to see it, the fact that your soul is getting drained more and more each day stays.

And the worst part is you have nothing to refill it with because the one person who should do that is the one who’s killing you. And you call it love.

Believe me when I tell you that being alone is always a better decision than being with someone who’s sucking the life out of you.

He’s taking everything and he’s not giving anything in return. That’s quanto è egoista. E pensa a quanto tempo gli hai permesso di farla franca.

How long will you be the only one dragging your relationship forward and sacrificing everything for someone who isn’t worth it?

You’re holding on by a thread. All your hopes are stuck on this picture you have of your future and how things could be but unfortunately it’s only you who sees that.

And it’s just an illusion. It’s a mirage only you see and trust me when I say that it won’t take long before it disappears, before he does something to shatter it into millions of pieces.

After all this time, why won’t you open your eyes?  Why can’t you realize what is happening in your life?

Perché avete permesso al vostro cuore di ingannarvi così a lungo?

Perché avete bisogno che qualcun altro vi dica le cose che già sapete da soli ma che vi rifiutate di accettare?  He isn’t worth it and he will never be.

Alcune persone sono così egoiste, egocentriche e crudeli che nessuna quantità di amore sarebbe in grado di cambiarle, e mille occasioni diverse o la persona più gentile di questo mondo non le farebbe cambiare.

Darling, you’re just breaking your own heart. Stop pretending your illusions are real.

Smettere di vedere le cose meglio di come sono. Smettete di sprecare la vostra vita. Meritate molto di più. Meritate di vivere al meglio la propria vita.

Meritate di ricevere almeno tanto amore quanto ne date.

You deserve to be treated with respect and you deserve a man who’ll take you seriously, who’ll plan his future with you and who’ll make promises he actually intends to keep.

And what you don’t deserve is a manipulative asshole who’s just going to take advantage of your feelings and use you.

I know you can’t picture your life without him but I swear you will hate yourself when you realize what kind of man you chose to be your life companion or if you stick by this man who did nothing but take everything you had to offer and gave nothing in return.

No matter how much love you give him, no matter how many chances he receives, no matter how much time passes or what you do for him, he isn’t going to see your worth.

He isn’t going to appreciate you. He isn’t going to respect you or bother to give you what you deserve.

And I know it breaks your heart but you need to make this stick in your head and it’s better to do it sooner than later.

The sooner you accept the truth, the more time you’ll have to react. The more time you’ll have to heal your broken heart.

The less time you’re going to be investing in someone who isn’t worth a second of your time.

Stop breaking your own heart by giving all of yourself to someone who doesn’t deserve you.

Stop hoping that a man who did nothing but hurt you will be able to make you happy in the future. He isn’t the man you’re looking for.

Tieni la testa alta, asciuga le lacrime dalle guance e ringrazia Dio per la lezione che hai ricevuto.

Ora sapete cosa non cercare in un uomo. E potete fare tutte le cose che facevate per l'uomo sbagliato, per l'uomo buono.

Trust me, there is someone who’ll kiss the ground you’re walking on. Stop settling for less than you deserve.