Una volta che mi sei costato la mia tranquillità, dovevi andartene.

There is a lot I am prepared to take for love. If it’s the real deal, there is not much I wouldn’t do, and nowhere I wouldn’t go. But there is one thing I would never sacrifice for ANYONE, and that is my inner peace.

I’ve been in enough relationships to know that if there is one thing you should never tolerate, no matter how much in love you are, that is somebody disturbing your inner pace . That is the one thing I’m not giving to anyone. And you shouldn’t either.

It is totally normal to expect certain trials and tribulations in a relationship. It is also normal to feel an array of emotions, some that you don’t even understand yourself, but it’s never okay to not have your peace of mind due to your significant other.

How do you know when you’ve had enough? How do you know when to call it quits? That is a difficult question. Everyone has their boiling point. But in my opinion, if it even comes to that, I have no more patience for you.

La pace interiore è qualcosa di incredibilmente difficile da raggiungere. È difficile persino spiegarla. Bisogna allenare la propria mente a non farsi turbare da qualcosa che normalmente ci darebbe fastidio. Bisogna dire a se stessi che nulla vale la pena di perdere la propria sanità mentale.

So, what do you do when a guy comes in like a storm, crashing your sunny day and making you question everything you’ve been telling yourself thus far?

It’s easy to just throw everything in the water, and let yourself be consumed by an individual that you feel like you’re falling hard for, more and more with every waking hour. It’s easy to let yourself enjoy it when it’s good, and just accept that he comes with some downsides as well. In other words – make excuses for him. You know better than that.

Ma se questi aspetti negativi sono il fatto che lui ti costa la pace, non è una cosa a cui dovresti pensare nemmeno per un secondo. Quanto tempo vi è servito per tornare a stare bene? Quanto tempo vi è servito per ritrovare finalmente le vostre emozioni e la vostra identità dopo la vostra ultima relazione? Per quanto tempo sei stato un disastro? Quanto hai sacrificato di te stesso?

Dopo averci pensato a lungo, chiedetevi una cosa. Vale davvero la pena di affrontare di nuovo tutto questo? È davvero l'uomo che vale la pena di affrontare pazzo for at times? More often than not, the answer is going to be ‘NO’, so listen to yourself. Learn to spare your mind. You owe yourself that much.

Siate gentili con voi stessi. A volte bisogna essere i migliori amici di se stessi.

Let me be your voice of reason. I’ve had a few guys in my life who made me feel like I was depressed at times. Like I could just scream and throw something sharp at them. Like I couldn’t have one sane thought in my mind, and I thought I would completely lose it. I was frightened of myself at times. That’s how far I let it go.

But the thing is, it wasn’t me. It was them. Now I know it, and nobody can tell me otherwise.

Tutto dipende dalle persone di cui ci si circonda. Le persone che non hanno a cuore il vostro benessere non si preoccuperanno MAI di quanto vi costano nella vita. Ricordate che.

Non si preoccuperanno mai del fatto che state lentamente scoppiando, senza sapere quando vi spezzerete del tutto. Queste sono le persone che dovete evitare a tutti i costi.

It’s easy to think that there must be something wrong with you. But ask yourself this. Do you feel this way at all times or does it only occur when you are around HIM? And that should answer your question.

You are okay. You are fine. We all lose it sometimes. It’s normal to feel like you’re not in control sometimes. But if that feeling is only evident in the presence of that certain someone, than you know what to do.

Nobody is worth your peace of mind. And when you feel like he’s costing you that – he’s got to go.