16 cose che aprono gli occhi da sapere prima di uscire con un vedovo

Dating a widower is one of the most challenging and, at the same time, rewarding things you’ll ever experience.

Will it all be moonlight and roses? No! Will this be the hardest test of your love? Yes. Will you pass it? It’s up to you.

You see, dating a widower comes with many bumps in the road, especially if you’re the first person he’s let into his life after his late spouse passed away.

Ma se l'amore è reale, voi due potete superare ognuno di questi problemi. Ecco come fare!

7 consigli indispensabili per uscire con un vedovo

When you’re dating a man who lost his wife, you can forget almost every piece of consigli sulle relazioni you’ve ever heard. Trust me: this situation is completely different and has an entirely new set of rules.

Ecco alcuni consigli professionali per avere una relazione con un uomo vedovo.

Essere consapevoli della situazione

Before you start your new love with a widowed man, you have to be fully aware of what you’re getting yourself into.

So cosa state pensando: tutti abbiamo avuto degli ex, e ogni partner con cui vi mettete in gioco avrà un passato.

After all, you’re both grown-ups, and you wouldn’t like being with someone who has absolutely no history in the dating world at all.

Ebbene, questo è il vostro errore numero uno: pensare che stare con un uomo divorziato and a widower is the same thing. Trust me when I tell you that these two situations can’t be compared.

This might sound like a harsh truth, but the fact is that your new boyfriend probably would have never divorced his late wife. He didn’t decide to continue his life without her.

Their marriage didn’t end because they stopped loving each other, because someone found new love, or just because they chose it was better to part ways.

Therefore, you can’t expect this man’s emotions to shut off overnight.

He doesn’t hold grudges against her, he didn’t get tired of this woman, and he doesn’t resent her for anything.

I’m trying to say that she didn’t become a part of his past because of something either of them did – this was nothing more than fate.

Also, if the two of them have kids, he is the only one taking care of them now. This is especially important if we’re talking about smaller children.

The full responsibility for their upbringing is on the back of this man only. Among other things, it means that you’ll be living with them if you two plan to have a serious relationship.

So, you have to ask yourself if you’re ready for all of this. It’s okay to have second thoughts because getting involved with a widower is nothing like any of your previous relationships.

Remember one thing: it’s way more honest to back out timeously if you feel like this is too much for you than to torture both of you for years.

Permettetegli di elaborare il lutto

I’ll be deadly honest with you: just because this man decided he’s ready to go out in search of new girls or made a dating profile on a dating site, it doesn’t mean that everything will be perfect for him from the start.

In fact, there will be good and bad days. I’m not referring to your relationship here only: I’m talking about his grieving process.

It doesn’t matter how long it has been since the love of his life passed away – there will still be moments when he’ll think of her and even miss her.

Quello che dovete fare è dargli la possibilità di elaborare il lutto della perdita del coniuge.

No, this doesn’t mean that you should allow your entire relationship to be dedicated to her. After all, you need a fully devoted partner and not someone who will constantly cry over his deceased wife.

Tuttavia, vi prego di avere un po' di comprensione per questo ragazzo, soprattutto nelle date importanti.

Give him some space and time to visit his wife’s grave on the anniversary of her death or to see her relatives or friends on her birthday.

This isn’t a sign that he doesn’t love you. It’s not a sign that he hasn’t healed or that he lives in the past, either.

On the contrary, it is just a confirmation that you’re in a relationship with a human being – not a robot who can shut off his emotions whenever he feels like it. Trust me: this kind of behavior is completely normal.

Dovreste essere felici che condivida i suoi sentimenti con voi. È chiaro che quest'uomo si fida abbastanza di voi da mostrarvi le sue vulnerabilità.

On the other hand, if he sees that you’re bothered by his occasional grieving episodes, they won’t stop – he’ll just start hiding them from you. He’ll shut this part of himself off, and he’ll continue mourning in silence.

Di conseguenza, si creerà una profonda frattura tra voi due, e questa è l'ultima cosa che volete ottenere.

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Siate gentili

Let’s be clear about one thing: it’s not your duty to go around riparare gli uomini distrutti. You’re in no way obligated to heal their wounds or to glue their shattered hearts back together.

This would be what I’d tell you if you got involved with a toxic manipulator who tries to justify his evil actions with his emotional unavailability. But this is not that kind of scenario.

Yes, this man is crushed into pieces. I won’t lie to you: a part of him is broken beyond repair.

Tuttavia, nulla di ciò che è accaduto è colpa sua. Inoltre, lei ha riflettuto bene e sapeva benissimo cosa aspettarsi.

He didn’t deceive you into this relationship. Therefore, you were familiar with his entire situation.

Quindi, avete scelto consapevolmente un uomo che è sopravvissuto alla morte di un coniuge. Quando lo avete fatto, avete scelto anche il suo bagaglio emotivo.

Therefore, you have to go especially easy on this guy. He is not like any other man you’ve met before.

He has wounds you can’t even grasp, and his pain is beyond your reach. So please, be super gentle with him.

When you two fight, pick your words carefully. Don’t dare hit him below the belt and use his loss of a spouse as a weapon against him.

Soprattutto: ricordate che quest'uomo soffre di un trauma da abbandono. Che vi piaccia o meno ammetterlo, una delle persone più importanti della sua vita lo ha abbandonato senza volerlo.

So it’s natural that he’s terrified of something similar happening again.

So, please, don’t threaten to break up with him when you’re in the middle of an argument unless you really plan on doing it.

Siate curiosi

There will be moments when your partner will have the desire to talk about his late spouse. Don’t see this as an attack on you or your relationship – see it as something completely normal.

If you see that he is willing to share a few details about his marriage or his wife – let him. Not only that: show curiosity.

Dimostrate a quest'uomo che volete conoscere tutte le sue parti, comprese quelle che riguardano il coniuge defunto. Fidatevi: ha bisogno del vostro incoraggiamento.

He needs to see that you’re genuinely interested in his stories and don’t feel threatened every time he mentions her.

Once again, your entire relationship shouldn’t be an elegy to this woman. But if you want for you two to create a deep bond, be prepared to hear about her, as well.

Rispettare la memoria della moglie scomparsa

Just because this man’s wife is dead doesn’t mean she died from his memory, as well. Whether you like it or not, he’ll always remember her one way or another.

It doesn’t mean that he still sees her as the love of his life. He might miss her as a friend, the mother of his children, and as a life partner.

Either way, it’s your job to respect the memory he has of her without trying to erase it.

You’re not here to take this woman’s place. As much as you try, you could never fill the enormous void she left behind.

Tuttavia, significa che potete creare nuovi ricordi senza toccare i loro.

It doesn’t mean that you can’t build a new relationship with this man without disturbing his past relationship.

Siate onesti sulle vostre aspettative

Cosa si aspetta da questa relazione? Vede un futuro con quest'uomo? Quali sono i suoi obiettivi principali per quanto riguarda la sua storia d'amore?

First and foremost, you have to give yourself the answers to these questions. You have to be clear about what you want and how much you’re capable of taking.

Once you get to the bottom of your desires, talk to your boyfriend honestly about them. You’re a part of this relationship as well, and, naturally, you want to know where you stand.

Please, don’t be scared to speak your mind. You have to be clear about whether you’re wasting your life with him or if you’re getting closer to something you truly want.

This is especially significant if you’re not a widow or a divorcee and, more importantly, if he has kids and you don’t. Don’t get me wrong: these differences are not signs that you two can’t make it work.

Tuttavia, possono essere fondamentali per il vostro futuro insieme.

You don’t have to tell him about them on the primo appuntamento. Nevertheless, as soon as your romance starts to get a little more serious, it’s time for both of you to put all the cards on the table.

La cosa più importante è che voi due siate sulla stessa lunghezza d'onda.

It doesn’t mean that all of your expectations will be realized when you talk about them – but if you have similar goals and aspirations, you’re good to go.

Considerati fortunato

I won’t lie to you: you’re in a tricky situation. You’ll probably go through some hard times you wouldn’t experience otherwise.

Tuttavia, nonostante tutto questo, la verità è che dovete considerarvi fortunati.

Out of all women in the dating scene (including the ones he met in person or through online dating apps), you’re the first person who managed to break the shield around this man’s heart.

You’re the only one who was strong enough to really get to him and to make him understand that he l'amore ritrovato. L'unica con cui si è aperto senza la paura di essere ferito.

You already know that this guy is extremely fragile after everything he’s been through. But not only that: he is also incredibly careful.

He can’t afford another loss. He doesn’t plan to jump from one relationship to another, exposing himself emotionally to every girl who comes along.

Invece, darà una possibilità solo a una donna di cui sa di potersi fidare.

Metterà il suo cuore nelle mani di una donna abbastanza potente da portarlo in grembo e che ha le carte in regola per affrontare i suoi demoni.

Così ha scelto te per il lavoro. Ha visto il tuo animo gentile e si è fidato abbastanza da darti la possibilità di fargli del male.

If that doesn’t make you special, I don’t know what does. Please, don’t take this privilege for granted.

Cherish the trust this man gave to you, and don’t waste it!

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5 Don’ts Of Dating A Widower

Here is a list of things you shouldn’t even think of doing while in a relationship with a widowed man. The things that will only chase him away from you and make you feel miserable.

Don’t compete with his late wife

The number one thing you shouldn’t think of doing, no matter what is to compete with your partner’s late wife. I’ll be honest with you: even if you try, you’ll lose.

This might sound harsh, but it’s only the truth. Why? The answer is pretty simple: because she is not among us anymore.

I’m sure you heard the famous Latin proverb: “De mortuis nil nisi bene; de vivis nil nisi verum.” It means, “Of the dead, (say) nothing but good; of the living (say) nothing but the truth.”

Well, the fact is that your boyfriend’s wife was just human. Even though you should, under no circumstances, think, let alone talk bad about her (after all, you have no right to do so), she had her set of flaws, just like the rest of us.

Tuttavia, fidatevi di me quando vi dico che he doesn’t remember her imperfezioni.

Nel momento in cui è morta, il suo ragazzo ha dimenticato tutto ciò che lo infastidiva di lei, e ha dimenticato ogni suo piccole stranezze e le cose che lo facevano impazzire.

Per quanto il loro matrimonio fosse straordinario, litigavano come tutte le altre coppie. Tuttavia, nel momento in cui lei è morta, lui ha dimenticato tutti i loro disaccordi.

Invece, ricorda solo le cose belle. Quando pensa a lei, pensa a quanto fosse bella, intelligente e straordinaria.

Ricorda come lo ha fatto sorridere o come si è presa cura di lui. Ricorda le piccole cose: quanto era felice il giorno del loro matrimonio e come lei gli preparava la colazione preferita.

Ed è così che dovrebbero andare le cose. Questa è la donna accanto alla quale ha trascorso anni e, naturalmente, pensa con affetto a lei.

However, on the other hand, here you are – alive and well. There you are, with all of your imperfections and traits he doesn’t like.

So, if you start comparing yourself with this woman’s ghost, who do you think would win?

Don’t rush things

We’ve already discussed the importance of expressing your expectations timeously and having similar goals. Nevertheless, I didn’t point out how crucial it is for you to be patient with this man.

The worst thing you can do is rush things. I’m not talking about sealing the deal here only – I’m talking about seemingly little things every relationship consists of.

I won’t lie to you: this man will need more time than any other guy to give himself to you completely. Don’t expect him to commit to you overnight.

Most importantly: don’t expect him to let you in all the way just like that. He’s spent a lot of time grieving, and during that time, he’s built thick walls around his heart.

Quindi, ci vorrà un bel po' di tempo per abbatterli. Invece di spingerlo troppo, procedete per gradi.

Trust me: if this man feels that you’re forcing him into something he is not ready for, he won’t run into your arms. Instead, he’ll get cold feet, and he’ll run away from you.

This is exceptionally important when it comes to his kids if he has any. Just because you think it’s time to meet them and become a part of their life, it doesn’t mean that you’re right.

You are not the one who makes these calls – he is. Maybe he thinks that his children are not prepared to meet his new partner just yet.

Or he isn’t sure about your relationship. After all, he can’t introduce them to every woman who enters his life without being certain that it’s the real deal.

In ogni caso, dategli la possibilità di decidere da solo, senza che voi possiate interferire.

Don’t be too nosy

Remember how I told you to show curiosity when it comes to the topic of his late wife? Well, that doesn’t mean that you should be nosy about her and their marriage.

Mentre ci sono persone che guarire le loro anime by talking about their loved ones in heaven, there are also those who don’t enjoy talking about them at all.

Beware that this is an extra tricky situation. You’re this man’s new girlfriend, and he might feel uncomfortable talking to you about his late wife.

Maybe he feels like he’d be betraying her if he shared some information with you, or he just doesn’t find that subject appropriate.

Either way, it’s your job to respect his wishes instead of intruding.

I bet that you want to find out as much as possible about this woman. You’re eager to know who he loved so much and who was such a huge part of his life.

But I’m begging you: do not snoop around. You might not see it as being nosy but trust me – he will.

Don’t put effort into finding more about her behind his back. Don’t ask around about her life, and don’t put the pieces of the puzzle together in your head.

Lasciatela riposare in pace.

Don’t disregard your feelings

Until now, we’ve mostly been focused on your boyfriend’s feelings. I told you that you should be careful around him, advising you to be patient and understanding.

All of that is great, but it seems that you forget one thing: YOURSELF. You’re an equal partner in this romance – please never forget this.

Quindi, per favore, don’t spend all of your time being at his service. Naturally, you want attention, effort, and love as well.

Non c'è nulla di cui vergognarsi. Voi amate quest'uomo e volete che lui ti amo di nuovo.

Not to love you as a second-best, but to treat you as his girlfriend. Sometimes, you’ll be tired of this entire situation, and as harsh as this might sound, you won’t care about his late wife.

You respect her, but you just want a “normal” relationship and a chance to enjoy some time with your boyfriend without having to walk on eggshells around him. Well, that is right.

Yes, you signed up for this, but it doesn’t mean that your feelings should be disregarded in the process.

Don’t be intimidated by his late wife

The final ‘don’t’ of dating a widower is feeling threatened by his deceased spouse. I bet you know the feeling: it’s like whatever you do, it will never be enough, and you’ll never be like her.

Well, guess what: you shouldn’t try being her. You’re a woman with your own set of qualities, and you have a place in this man’s life, regardless of his late wife.

The worst thing that can happen is for this entire situation to ruin your self-esteem. This won’t only be catastrophic for your relationship but your entire being and life as well.

Potreste lasciare la relazione, ma il vostro fiducia di base will be permanently ruined. And you don’t need that.

You don’t need to impose some unnecessary insicurezze on yourself just because you’re threatened by some woman’s ghost – as crazy as this might sound.

I’m not saying to think poorly of this woman. I would rather advise you not to think about her at all, but I know that is utterly impossible.

Instead, I’ll just ask you not to idealize her. She wasn’t better than you, and there is no reason for you to think of yourself as not good enough only because she existed.

Fidatevi: il vostro uomo lo sentirà. Percepirà che voi don’t respect yourself enough, and he’ll start treating you with disrespect.

He’ll see that you don’t love yourself the way you should, and he’ll follow your lead.

If you show him that you don’t deserve much from him, he’ll give you breadcrumbs just because you settle for them – it’s as simple as that.

Believe me when I tell you that you’re worthy. Besides, despite what happened before, this guy is by your side – he chose you, and you chose him. And that’s what matters!

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Come avrete capito fino a questo punto, stare con un uomo vedovo non è tutto rose e fiori.

Instead, you’re likely to run into numerous problems you never experienced in your previous relationships.

There are some most common issues most couples in these kinds of romances tend to face daily. I’m not here only to name them: I’m here to give you a solution to each one of them!

He hasn’t introduced you to his loved ones

Forse il problema più comune delle donne che escono con un vedovo è che l'uomo si rifiuta di presentarle ai suoi cari, soprattutto ai figli.

Let’s face it – in a regular relationship, this is a huge step ahead.

It is a sign that your relationship is serious and a guarantee that it’s going somewhere. You’re not some nut job who expects her boyfriend to involve her in his life right away.

Tuttavia, dopo un po' di tempo, vedete questo come un corso naturale degli eventi. Avete attraversato tutte le fasi della frequentazione, ma sembra che lui vi nasconda a tutti quelli che lo circondano.

In some cases, that is exactly what he is doing: it’s not just that your widower hasn’t introduced you to his family and friends – they don’t even know that you exist.

You can be full of understanding as much as you want but come on, what woman wouldn’t be offended by this treatment? What woman wouldn’t see it as a bandiera rossa?

The first thing that goes through your mind is that he isn’t uscire con te in modo esclusivo. He’s probably seeing someone else besides you, and that’s why he is keeping you a secret.

Or is he ashamed of you? Maybe this man doesn’t see you as a good fit, or he thinks that he can do better, so he doesn’t want the people around him to look down on his choice.

Se si trattasse di un'altra relazione, questa sarebbe una spiegazione valida per i vostri problemi.

Nevertheless, since you’re dating a widower, neither of the provided options are necessarily true.

Come si risolve il problema?

Ricordate che vi ho detto di non affrettare le cose? Come ti ho consigliato di essere paziente con quest'uomo?

Ebbene, ora è più che mai il momento di seguire il mio consiglio.

I’m not here to tell you to barge in on his family gatherings uninvited. I’m not giving you a guide on how to stalk and “accidentally” run into and introduce yourself to i suoi migliori amici.

Come on, let’s come back to solid ground. You’re not a stalker, and you shouldn’t appear where you clearly are not wanted.

Il punto fondamentale è che il vostro ragazzo non vuole che voi facciate parte della sua vita e questo può avere numerosi significati.

It is possible that he just doesn’t feel ready for this huge step. Or you think your relationship is more serious than he does. Maybe he is still testing the waters to see where the flow takes you two.

On the other hand, this isn’t necessarily a sign that he doesn’t love you enough. Forse sta solo facendo molta attenzione e si sente più a suo agio nel fare piccoli passi.

Come si fa a sapere qual è la verità? Innanzitutto, se avete dei dubbi sul suo comportamento, dovete parlarne apertamente con lui.

It’s not enough to throw hints that you would like to meet his loved ones. Disregard your ego and express your wishes.

Tell him that you would like to be more included in his life and that you think it’s time he introduces you to those closest to him.

Forse se ne è completamente dimenticato e la situazione cambia dopo la vostra conversazione.

If this doesn’t work out, tell him that you suspect that he is hiding you from the rest of the world. Don’t accuse him of doing so (unless you have firm evidence) – just talk to him frankly about the way you feel.

I promise you that he’ll give you a valid explanation.

Animosità dell'ambiente circostante

But what happens if the man you love makes you a part of his new life, but that doesn’t go as planned? What when he introduces you to those closest to him, they end up not liking you?

Non preoccupatevi perché si tratta di uno scenario comune in questa situazione. L'astio di solito proviene dai figli, indipendentemente dalla loro età.

Look, as painful as this is, you need to understand them, especially if we’re talking about little kids.

They see you as a threat, as an evil stepmom trying to replace their mother whose loss they haven’t processed, and as a woman trying to steal their dad’s attention from them.

But it’s not unusual for others in his surroundings to dislike you without ever actually putting any effort into getting to know you.

They might feel like they’re betraying the memory of this man’s late wife if they become friends with you.

Anche se si capisce la situazione, bisogna comunque risolverla in un modo o nell'altro. Questo è il modo più sano per farlo.

Come si risolve il problema?

Tutti i consigli sugli appuntamenti vi diranno la stessa cosa: non prendete questi attacchi sul personale.

This man’s kids, friends, or even his in-laws don’t hate you because of your traits – they hate the fact that you’re the new woman.

La loro animosità nei vostri confronti non ha nulla a che fare con il vostro senso di autostima. It shouldn’t devalue you or ruin your self-esteem.

Secondly, please, let time do its magic. Don’t go around trying to make them get to know you or begging them to love you.

They all just need time to get used to the idea of your presence. After a while, they’ll all realize what an amazing person you are.

Finally, don’t intervene in your man’s relationship with these people and don’t even think of coming between him and his kids.

What matters is that he loves you, and at the end of the day, they have no duty to like you at all – they just have to respect you and the role you have in his life.

Lasciate che sia lui a risolvere il problema e fissate un termine entro il quale deve iniziare a lavorarci.

However, if you get the chance to talk to his kids, please make it clear that you don’t have the intention of replacing their mother.

Instead of trying to impose authority or demand respect, offer them your friendship – that will be more than enough.

Essere il suo psicologo

A volte, quando un uomo vede che può rivolgersi a voi per ogni singolo problema che gli passa per la testa, inizia ad approfittare delle vostre buone capacità di ascolto.

He doesn’t do it deliberately – he just sees you as his shoulder to cry on and the only person who will never hang up the phone on him.

Well, in your case, this can become an issue. Before you know it, you’re no longer this man’s girlfriend.

Suddenly, you’ve become his comfort, a friend who helps him heal his wounds and who is only there to give him a hand while grieving.

Per quanto tu sia di buon cuore e per quanto tu voglia che lui stia meglio, questo approccio alla vostra relazione rovinerà la tua salute mentale.

It will make you feel miserable and unloved. Besides, this shouldn’t be your primary role in this man’s life.

Come si risolve il problema?

I’m trying to tell you that dating a widower isn’t equal to being his psychotherapist. Yes, you should be supportive – nobody can argue against that.

Dovete essere presenti per lui e aiutarlo a guarire, ma mai a scapito delle vostre emozioni e, soprattutto, a costo della vostra salute mentale.

If this man has a hard time processing his late wife’s death, nobody can judge him for it. But in that case, he is non è pronto per una nuova relazione.

If this sounds familiar, it’s time to talk to him about this problem. He may change his attitude once he realizes his mistakes.

Either way, it’s pretty obvious that he still hasn’t processed his loss. Nobody’s asking him to forget that his wife ever existed, but the trouble is that he hasn’t healed.

In questo caso, sarebbe meglio chiedere un parere professionale. Chiedetegli di andare in terapia.

Se questo è troppo per voi da gestire, rompere con lui and tell him to try and contact you when he is better. Don’t worry.

This is not a selfish thing to do. You’re just giving him time to recover, so there is no place for feelings of guilt.

If you’re single and still interested in him after he’s healed, you can always rekindle your romance. If not, you two were never anime gemelle.

Even in that case, you’ll forever remain the person who gave him the push he needed towards recovery.

Voi due avete aspettative diverse

Let’s picture a situation: Il tuo fidanzato vedovo ha già dei figli. Ha avuto un matrimonio e, quindi, si è lasciato alle spalle quell'esperienza personale.

So, now, he wants to enjoy his widowhood, as brutal this might sound. His biological clock isn’t ticking, and he doesn’t see himself getting married again anytime soon.

Maybe he doesn’t plan on having any more children. Or he doesn’t want his young kids to have a stepmom and doesn’t want to think about marriage until they’re all grown up.

On the other hand, unlike him, you’re not a young widow or a divorcee.

You can’t wait to have a family. You see yourself as a wife and a mother and don’t plan to waste years with someone who has a completely different life perspective.

Come si risolve il problema?

Of course, this is just one possible scenario of every widower and widow dating, and your relationship doesn’t have to go in this direction at all.

But I’m sure that you get my point and understand why you need to come clean about your expectations.

In questo caso, potete trovare una via di mezzo o separarvi. Credetemi: rimanere in questa relazione e aspettarsi che l'altra persona cambi atteggiamento sarà del tutto inutile.

It will lead you both to resentment, and you’ll just waste your precious time.

Abel Keogh

Abel Keogh è un esperto di incontri con le vedove. Nei suoi libri parla per esperienza personale, Uscire con un vedovo, vivere con un vedovo e sposare un vedovo, dà consigli per gli appuntamenti a chi è sopravvissuto alla perdita di un coniuge ma vuole tornare a frequentare la scena.

Quando è il momento giusto per voltare pagina? Come si fa? È meglio creare un profilo su un sito web specializzato in incontri per giovani vedovi e vedove o uscire davvero e incontrare nuove persone?

Come presentare il nuovo partner alla famiglia e agli amici? Come si preparano i figli giovani ad accogliere una nuova donna nella loro vita?

Queste e altre domande trovano risposta in questi libri.

Anche se è rivolto principalmente ai vedovi, questo libro può aiutare anche le giovani vedove in lutto per la perdita del marito defunto.

Dopo tutto, le donne affrontano gli stessi problemi dopo la perdita del coniuge, tra cui gli appuntamenti con le vedove, i sensi di colpa durante la ricostruzione della loro nuova vita, i problemi durante la ricerca di una relazione sana e le bandiere rosse da evitare sulla scena degli appuntamenti.

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In conclusione:

I’ll be honest with you here: dating a widower is not easy. Besides all the issues every romantic relationship brings along, this one offers a range of other possible difficulties.

Trasformare questa storia d'amore in una relazione sana richiederà ancora più pazienza, tempo, impegno, devozione e, soprattutto, amore del solito.

People say that only a widowed woman and a widower can make it work. But don’t let this discourage you if you don’t fit the description because I promise you that you too can have a successful relationship.

All you have to do is follow my lead, and everything will be as perfect as possible. The only question is: “Do you think that you and your partner have what it takes to succeed?”