This is a reminder. A reminder for all girls who think they aren’t worthy of love.
I know that you have been disappointed and broken-hearted so many times that it made you give up on love. I know it but that’s the biggest mistake anyone can make.
Giving up on love is the same as giving up on life. To love and to be loved is why life is worth living.
I know that you’re afraid. That’s okay. I’m also afraid sometimes. We all fear that we won’t ever find love or even if we find it, that we won’t be able to keep it.
I know that you still haven’t managed to gather together all those broken pieces and you think that they also make you unworthy of love.
Don’t worry. You don’t even have to try to gather them together and make your heart complete again. Each of those pieces is a part of you and that’s what makes you so special and unique.
One day, someone will come into your life and they will fall in love with that damaged but special and quirky heart of yours.
That person will bring you back your faith in love and they’ll help you heal.
Their love will be your motive to gather up all your broken pieces and glue them back together. You have to believe me, one day that person will come.
Your heart will shine bright again. You’ll understand how much you’ve missed since you made that decision to give up on love.
You’ll realize how wrong you were when you thought that your flaws and some unresolved past issues make you undeserving of love.
You’re also afraid of your imperfections and flaws.
You can’t embrace all of them and it makes you wonder how anyone could accept and love you with all of your flaws when you aren’t even capable of doing so yourself.
The thing you should be aware of is that there is no perfect human being. We are all damaged in some way and we all have something we aren’t proud of. That doesn’t make every person unworthy of love, does it?
Because trust me, if all people possessed that same way of thinking, then love wouldn’t exist. If we all thought that our flaws make us unlovable, then this world wouldn’t exist at all.
Believe in soulmates. Believe in faith. God has someone for you and that person will find you eventually.
That person will see the real you. They’ll fall in love with you, accepting every part of you, no matter how imperfect or damaged they may be.
Your belief that you don’t deserve to be loved is actually only holding you back from finding the one who’ll love you just the way you need to be loved.
If you’ve done something you aren’t particularly proud of in the past and you think that it also makes you flawed, you’re once again wrong; it only makes you human.
We all make mistakes. Sometimes, we do some wrong things and unintentionally hurt ourself or the people we love. That’s also a part of life and I repeat, we all make mistakes.
Let go of the past. Don’t hold grudges against yourself or anyone else. Forgive yourself and others who hurt you; that’s the only way you’ll find peace.
And when you do it, you’ll see how everything will fall into place.
That feeling of being unworthy is actually… well, it’s actually all in your head. You’ll overcome it.
You just have to find a way to quiet that annoying inner voice that only hinders you from finding pure and honest love.
No matter what that inner voice or anyone else says, you are good enough. You are good enough to be loved.
You deserve to be loved and treated right. Hell, you deserve to be treated like a queen and one day you will be. Just don’t give up or lose hope.