In our modern world, we’re constantly bombarded with the notion that we need to be in love to be truly happy. From the media to the film industry, glossy magazines and music videos, we’re taught to believe we have to fall in love and be with someone to be worth something.

Many girls feel unfulfilled unless they’re in a relationship, and sadly, we’re left feeling like we’re not good enough if we are alone for any period of time.

However, we’re here to change that narrative. We believe you need to truly love yourself to ever be happy, and to be comfortable on your own to ever fully be comfortable in a relationship. That means that being single is absolutely nothing to be scared of, but not only that, it’s something that we should all embrace—especially if you’re an alpha female!

Being a single alpha female is fucking awesome—no really. Alpha females take care of themselves. Alpha females are girl bosses. Alpha females are inspirational. Alpha females are amazing.

We can all be alpha females if we want to be—and being a single alpha female is absolutely fan-fucking-tastic. No really. Here’s why.

 

No distractions

When you’re a single alpha female, there are absolutely no distractions in your life. You have no one else to focus on and absolutely no one else to take away your attention.

You can outline your goals, both personal and professional, and set out a clear path with steps to take to help you achieve them. You can dream about your future and work out how you want to get there. You can commit your everything to your passions, be they in work or otherwise.

Being a single alpha female allows you to work 100% on yourself, and there really isn’t much that could be better than that.

 

You can be selfish

Another amazing reason why being a single alpha female is fucking awesome is that you can be completely selfish at all times without any repercussions. You don’t need to think about anyone else when it comes to making decisions, which means that you can do whatever it is that you want.

Want pizza for dinner? Go for it. Want to go on holiday with your girlfriends? Go for it. Want to take a promotion at work that means you’ll be homeless? Go for it. The only person who needs to approve anything you do is you.

See also: Stay Single Until You Find Someone Who ACTUALLY Gives a Damn About You

 

You control your time

You can choose to spend your time on absolutely anything that you want, without having to think of the consequences. If you want to commit yourself to work or spend your free time doing absolutely nothing at all, this is completely in your control.

There’s no one you should be spending time with, no one to factor into your plans, and no one to stop you doing absolutely anything you want to do, whenever you want to do it.

 

You can work on yourself

We all have areas we want to work on for ourselves. You may want to gain a promotion in work and want to commit yourself to achieve this. You may want to achieve the highest grade possible in your degree. You may want to improve your health and fitness. You may want to save money for a new car.

 

Young woman lying on car

 

Whatever it is and whichever areas of self-improvement you want to focus on, being a single alpha female allows you to do so. Relationships are great, but they are distracting.

As a single alpha female, you can dedicate 100% of your time to working on yourself until you’re absolutely in love with the person you’ve become.

 

No one to answer to

There is absolutely no one to answer to as a single alpha female. Any decision you make is the right one, because there is no alternative for you.

There is no one to tell you you could be making the wrong choice, or you should be considering something different. There’s no one to tell you what they want instead, or why you should put what you want to one side. You answer only to yourself when you’re single, and this is a blessing.

 

You have no one to think about

Having someone to think about is lovely when you’re in a relationship, of course, but simultaneously, having absolutely no one to think about when you’re single is amazing, too.

If you want to go out and dance— there are no consequences. If you want to have casual sex, then there are no consequences. You can do almost anything you like and have no one else to think about or to consider in this. No one else to think about means no drama and an easy life.

 

You never have to settle

We often settle for less than we want or for less than we deserve when it comes to relationships and dating. We sometimes choose those who don’t quite tick all of our boxes because we simply don’t want to be alone.

When you’re a single alpha female, and you’re happy to be single, you don’t have to settle for less than you want. You don’t have to settle in any aspect of your life. There’s no negotiating with anyone, and get to have exactly what you want as an alpha female every time.

 

You can take your time choosing the one

Choosing someone you want to settle down with can be pretty tricky—but a huge benefit of being single is that you can take your time choosing someone who’s worth your time. You can navigate the dating landscape and you don’t need to dedicate your time to anyone who you aren’t 100% about, and you can go at your own speed in choosing the perfect person for you.

Like we said at the start of this post—being a single alpha female is fucking awesome and it’s about time you realised it!

So go away, have whatever the hell you want for dinner, kick back and relax, as you answer to absolutely no one.

See also: This Is For The Women Who Don’t Give A F*ck!

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